Jacob Morres

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  1. I realized that most people are not very good at this. Rarely do I meet someone who can listen really well, empathize, provide unbiased advice, have patience, have good tools to provide etc. It's not easy to find tbh! I felt like I'm lacking in this area too and could really use some training tbh
  2. finding passion for meditation and mindfulness can be helpful. they become opportunities to deepen your practice
  3. Can sorta agree.. tho purpose can mean anything. To me purpose is just being happy
  4. Good post. Maybe another way of saying this is to have self respect, and purpose so girls don't take advantage of u
  5. Bro profanity is not a big deal imo Profanity can be said gently, in a fun manner, jokingly, non insultingly. It's the way you use profanity, not profanity itself. But u prob know that This sounds like a deceptive way of not actually changing But I take the strategy of >Not saying you have to change , but it seems you to prefer to want to
  6. If he's actually self actualized and not a theory junkie, then yes Theory junkies may not have any of maslows hierarchy filled up
  7. Aye cut the racist shit bud not cool at all
  8. From my pov I think the game aspect and techniques can be very counterproductive at times like: approaching 1000 women, learning to speak loud, eye contact etc. Bc i think for most guys , healing the internal will get way better roi. Like self-esteem, trauma, inner child work, therapy, self love It will actually be wayyy easier to game when this is clean. Gaming when you have the issues I've mentioned is so challenging and it is not really stressed how important it is What's worse is I remember RSD would even disparage this stuff by saying things like wtf will meditating do for you? Go out and approach! But I think that was honestly the entire crux of their philosophy Also -> i think that Good external game is a byproduct of good internal game imo If you can get really good internal game, external game gets really easy I actually think the split is 80% internal, 20% external
  9. Same with me dawg ? Actually it's weird like once she became attainable I lost interest I like the chase I guess
  10. good point. Though some of the teachings were good so I don't wanna throw out the whole thing
  11. @Magnanimous what are the benefifs they're talking abt I'm curious? I think it's a false green flag tbh. Way better qualities to go for imooo If a women is a Virgin there might be something fishy going on is how I think. Like unless she's religious that would raise some alarm bells. But hey we all have our reasons but idk
  12. I resonated. this is what I felt pua lacked in the day. Sometimes just go talk to girls doesn't work and few people understand both the internal and external components of dating. There's a lot of healing that people need to go through sometimes before they can even game Happy to see dr.k actually taking a compassionate approach and actually providing effective + holisitic solutions. Strong leader this guy is
  13. Also balding at 27 But idm that much hair systems look hype
  14. Look at his projections. And the way he conducts relationships and his past businesses. He's a dangerous man.
  15. Thanks for making this actually, I was really itching to make a red (and green flag) list lately My own opinion: Lacking self awareness: - can't self-reflect about things, when you bring it up. Generally will not/cannot look at their own behavior Lacking communication skills: - does not communicate properly or respectfully/doesn't practice non-violent communication. Emapthy/kindness/respect. Red for me Lacking pleasant energy: - rude micro-aggressions in her behavior Lacking empathy: - talks about other guys in a rude way - invalidates your feelings - cannot *see you* - not able to understand another's POV
  16. I'm honestly no expert to this but I just say I love myself, feel it and act as if it's true. Your behaviors aligned with the new sense of reality. And you do whatever is aligned I did find some good results with just sitting, breathing, saying i love myself and ffeeling the love in my body and acting as if
  17. Banana gang Mango gang 420blazeit juicy blueberries Ur Mum Oranges without the peel doe Strawberries that ain't fkn sour
  18. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMHh4PhDMtA from a systemic standpoint i can understand but jesus christ. these college kids need to learn some respect and manners. makes me not want to identify with being left disclaimer: i dont endorse sneako or his ideas.
  19. Plz do not mod me ty
  20. I hear you G. Just be careful i see some confirmation bias here. Don't let unempathetic women cloud your worldview , there are many, many good women out there that Do care. I was like you for a while. Just takes some searching but there really are many. I feel you bro ? People who are unempathetic are suffering themselves - a lack of empathy is karma (u always regret it in my experience. Psychedelics taught me this) and is a sign of low social development
  21. I've done maybe 250 approaches and never had a crazy like that. I do think they're a very small segment of the population I've had girls actually compliment me and say they wish more guys approached women cuz there aren't enough of them This is was union Square NYC btw so maybe a decent place where those crazy feminists would be theoretically and no crazies Worst response I get usually is just a cold shoulder I do worry though also for these types of women. But it's never happened to me. Though.. not to be a fear Mongerer but girls like this DO exist. Especially in college campuses. I had a friend do PUA on campus (when he was a student there) and one of his girl friends went apeshit emotional on him in front of all his friends and he almost got cancelled in the friend group for doing pua with women. He actually quit PuA after that Lol and got brainwashed into being an anti pua now.