Jacob Morres

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@Leo Gura they got both bro, u ever see a regular lookin girl use hinge? When my sis was dating she used to get 10+ likes a day, and she's p avg looks wise (she did have a great profile). She could probably get a date a day if she wanted .. But it doesnt matter. All this thinking corrupts the mind. It's important to realize abundance regardless of your gender, and have healthy frameworks Instead of saying omg girls have it easy... You say, I'm so lucky to live in a city where there are tons of great people and women around me. I can't wait to meet them. Etc.

its hard to deny most girls generally have it easier when it comes to having options But at the end of the day who cares. Tbh its not that hard to meet base checklists

what kind of relationship do you want? Edit: also I think being a flirt could sometimes mean having one foot in and one foot out. Seems she can't commit

it's valid and understandable based off the stuff he has been putting up with One solution is inner child work and conscious boundaries

Yes, 50/50, no? a lot of girls still expect guys to pay for dates, even in progressive areas What do yall think?

by principle i believe it it should be equal 50/50 especially since most girls split 50/50 after the first date (this is a non-negotiable for me unless she's suffering financially, or isn't entitled to me paying for her stuff) but im just worried that ill lose otherwise good girls by holding to that principle for the first date i might just go for free + coffee dates instead like you guys mention > It all works. Depends on the situation and type of girl. If a girl truly likes you she will not mind about this that's true

some form of self-therapy might be helpful, these are opportunities for more compassion + empathy (towards yourself and others) all negative judgements stupid, lazy, uncaring, selfish, etc. but when dug into, reveal healthier and more accurate perspectives this channel leo linked a while back illuminates what im tallking about

Talking to girls (and developing social skills and with woman) isnt inherently unethical There's def ways you can do it with good intention and social acceptableness ?

i thought this was a good talk

hmm, maybe priority setting would be helpful. what is most important to you? what are your goals?

I think a book on boundaries might be helpful here

Nice win and approach dawg. just try to watch for social cues about her comfortability. If she's not feeling comfortable I wouldn't pressure her too much

drinking with my boys gave me some of my best peak experiences. laughing, having fun, going crazy alcohol also has a unique experience to make you more emotionally open you can also get some good insights in a in a tipsy- drunk state i think if you're using alcohol for fun, connection or sometimes even insight, it can be useful ! Ofc! use your wisdom when approaching all drugs imo. try to only do it in social settings, or as a means of getting insight. be careful of self-deception

Bernie lost despite his massive base, mass appeal(imo, but ig not) and clean history I'll see Marianne winning in like 50-100y maybe I just think America is still too spirally low for her.. I wish Look at the last election, and how many people voted for someone like trump... we had a near 50/50

Stem has little practical value unless your career directly requires it Um, and even then a lot of it won't even be used on the job I'd find which careers you're looking for, what kind of work is required to land those jobs

Fair. Though, at a soul level, people may appreciate it. If that makes sense But a good soul isn't enough

@Emerald very interesting thanks for sharing i think thats important for development in general - what's life without those qualities you listed? though have you seen this video? curious on your thoughts. skip to 11:08

What do you define as the feminine? Kindness, empathy, vulnerability, compassion etc.?

i mean yeah dude it's not easy. it takes a ton of work and character development i'm not really talking about shady guys. i'm talking about if u want to be able to get consistent dates, or a good sex life.

this is the one i said i mean yeah i agree with it - most are very picky nowadays. but i also agree with putting in the effort to solve it from the man's POV but i also think it's a complex systemic issue rather than women's fault. there's tons of factors that lead to the dating crisis for men these conservative view points dont interest me so be careful putting everyone in the same bucket

Both leo and frank are right in their respective ways

meh the video doesnt describe my pov

Dude whatever sources you're consuming man change them Most girls will be happy you approached them Watch for any social cues or Non verbal communication if they feel uncomfortable that's all

Yeah i get that fr. When I was a virgin life was hard I wish society destimagtized being a virgin like how slut shaming is largely destimatized now in liberal areas at least There's a TON of shame attached to being a virgin. At least for some ppl