Jacob Morres

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Well his question is about trauma healing. While going out and doing pua, and getting a gf has their unique value I think things like trauma focused-CBT, mindfulness meditation, IFS, inner child work is whats applicable here

you assess what you want and find girls that give you it Like leo said , some girls can be very flaky, non interested etc. Don't waste your time on them. For you own sanity tbh I'd say 95% of girls aren't worth ur time

Confidently, honest maybe

@Leo Gura just curious, what are your thoughts on strict gender dynamics and does it influence your game?

Just a small note, tho not to ur main point, I think success is a branch of self help but not self help itself

Also quality of time spent is important

Lol this thread Leo needs to add the book non violent communication to his booklist, this forum could use a dose of that ?

Guys don't read so much 90% of the work is in action

@CARDOZZO now that's nuts 60 to 200 is not a small jump

you can still cut people out and stay away from them while not judging them, there's no contradiction

I've the same feelings too Though I think it's a dangerous rabbit hole I think empathy might be 1 solution

Truuth tho id replace 'the' with 'a'

@Nabd but also even if youre doing things wrong Personally speaking, don't f with rude/mean ppl Tho in some situations it could be warranted ig. Like if ur pushing boundaries or smth

I think Tf weirdo. ? ? She weird and rude Tons of girls out here with good vibes and good energy Then go onto the next

Honestly? Scott Youngs courses. Heavily practical and high value Though you need to be on a waiting list for them. He only puts them out for 1 week in a year

Not inherently which is why I didn't get results my first 2-3 years I did game My inner game was so bad that almost all approaches became negative self fulfilling prophecy. I had such bad self esteem and a self image that everything fell on its face whenever i tried. What I needed was rsd to tell me to go therapy lol for like 3y. this was 7 y.o. ago tho. Now doing approaches would be great for me , I've healed a ton of trauma since then and my self efficacy is in a place where my approaches would actually give me value

Damn thats pretty lit bc I thought top 2 in my head clicked this thread and the first 2 was what I thought lol Game specific though i'd say maybe calibration, connection and fun. <- But this idk subject to change

https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRKfTd7W/ >said by tolle here

You can freestyle Journal to try to understand Then do some cbt, mindfulness, self compassion work etc.

Lol ?

What does he mean by mastery? Is it sort of like George Leonards mastery? I love metalearning principles. But I assume this is enlightenment focused Edit: Got the audiobook. Seems to be mastery in terms of success

Hmm that's impressive ?

Yeah but With a high quality profile you can definietely seperate yourself in the pack by 1-2 levels - Having great + well-rounded pictures, showcasing your personality - having funny and ice breaker prompts - Combined with several dating apps + paying for premium + boosts - Quickly filtering girls that are not that engaged - A/b testing pics and prompts you can definietely make your matches exponential I think guys can Theoretically gain abundance on dating apps it just takes a lot of work *I got this from Justin Marc Also use r/hingeapp and find the best profiles + get inspiration off it, and use photofeeler to get opinions on which of ur pics are 10/10 and only use ur best pics Also i remember 3-4y ago the average dude put bare minimum effort and barely had good pics. Actually the competition was kind of ass then Idk what the competition is like now but I think it's still def very beatable . Just takes some time effort and strategy Tldr; build a goated profile and the average dude will win ??

I don't know much about charities but hm that's a good idea I like the idea of helping develop our education system. Helping kids at a young age would really set them up for life But there's a ton of ways and things