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I agree with @Michal__ ... the only way to Transend sex is by having enough of it. But the flakes, failed dates, shutting off after kissing shows incongruence between mind and body... You probably need a deeper mental stimulation, both emotional+physical+spiritual connect with the right partner to enjoy sex for longer time in a much fulfilling way. You really will have to inquire yourself what you want. About breaking up with your girlfriend or sexual partners... I believe all intimate relationships come with kind of an expiry date even if the involved partners don't acknowledge the same. Even the most sizzling relationships exhaust their sex quota after some time (could be an year or a decade depends) and later on the emotional bond keeps them together.

Dude! I mean Dude! I am someone who is wayyyy past twenties, believe somewhere near Leo's age... Listen to me! and don't get into the spirals of ideals... THere is no glory in supressing sex. If you only take Maslow's Hierarchy of needs as the only guiding principle for rest of your life and do not read any books, not follow gurus, no Ayan Rand absolutely nothin then also you will end up living a fulfilled life. And as per this pyramid you are and you should be looking for sex. Believe you me if you don't peruse sex in this age you will regret not spending time and resources in this direction big time! Whatever are your innate desires... be it sex, money, relationships, politics, world peace, spirituality... I place absolutely all of them on same level no higher no low. you HAVE TO give yourself what your soul desires the most before time passes you by!! The idea of suppression of sex is a sham! And trust me even if you decide today that you want to have sex from now on, it will take a whole lot of effort for you to find a partner (right or wrong doesn't matter) . It is a different ballgame all together to get the person interested in you and then take it to a level where you both feel fulfilled ... because you see there are levels in sex as well, only once you get in you will know. Leave your thoughts, books aside get in the game!! before it is late..

You sound quite right Roy. One question though, do you have an active partner? I bet the answer is no, else how do you put logic to being with another person as everyone is 100% complete in themselves. And if you don't how do you know what can be the deepest levels of being involved with someone feels like... Remember lLeo's video on why god exist as 'other' it is just a probe in itself, similarly twin flame or not.... 'Relationships are meant for self discovery'... you can only see yourself better when you reflect on something... isn't it

Wow! Did not know that 'Shivaambhu'. 'Swayambhu' translates to one's urine and yes, it is taken as a medicine. Also, cow's urine for medicinal, now if you wonder or have questions on How come, well there are actual well researched ancient texts on how it works! Facinating!