I don't know what it is about women, but personally I have the worst kind of interactions with them. All my life I've had either one sided attractions or just pure uninteresting relationships with girls. I tried pick, well I watch a bunch of youtube videos, and then I saw Leo's video and decided to stop consuming that content to avoid the unnatural feeling of manipulating people. Also i feel like a girl who I have to manipulate into being with me isn't worth it, no matter how sexually frustrated or lonely i may be sometimes, it makes me feel like I'm selling myself out to someone who wouldn't ordinarily be attracted to me. So now when I go about my social life no matter what the setting, I just tend to do what makes me comfortable, which is to just take a seat if I can and relax until something interesting happens to get me to interact, because sometimes its hard not to be neurotic in a new environment so this helps me to take the edge off, and I become a lot more approachable and fun, as opposed to looking like I'm going to throw up. All that said, I want to know if you guys think that this is a good way to go about my interactions with women? should I just let fate take the wheel and allow? situations to naturally occur, or should i force the issue and always approach women that i think are attractive?
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