Chokurei

Is this a cult? I mean with all my respects, I am not looking for that.

The most valuable people in one´s life use to be: -The ones who have a long history timeline with you. -The ones you find while doing your way in life, like taking courses, hanging out around the same places, working, etc. I have reached a point in my life now, in which I have only 2 real available friends for the day-to-day meetings, one of them is now in the psychiatric for a suicide attempt. I have a cousin too, with whom I work out in the gym, and a bikers group for sporadic motorcycle routes. Everyone else lives out of my city. And I have about three to five more people for WhatsApp conversations, but I don´t meet them. My meetings are currently 1v1, or 3 total. No groups, no big meetings. That´s it. In my opinion, the ideal situation would be up to four intimate friends for 2 to 4 people meetings, 1 intimate partner, and 1 or 2 groups for big meetings. This sounds like a very rich and fulfilling social life.

Don´t give it energy. You are only about the positive, reinforce that in your mind. No Low vibrations No Pain. That thing that hurts, it doesn´t make sense itself, think about it, it´s as absurd as victimization. Your problems are meaningless. Be happy

Extremely important. With all my respects, a stinky vagina or penis is a turn-off.

That´s curious because "imagination and concepts" don´t sound like something that may trigger you. Analyze why It is there. is it a recidivist thought in your mind? are there times off of it? Is it a history? Are you imagining all the possibilities that could and couldn´t happen in it, even if they didn´t happen? Make questions to your mind in an open heart and it will be revealed to you.

I would translate that quote like: If you know something doesn´t work, just don´t do it again.

Logic is a fundamental part of human behavior, sometimes we need to act in terms of "the logic of the situation", as our intuition says that is the best way to approach it. so, looking at the situation with the lens of logic is one way of many, we may act based on: logic, feeling, sense of moral... I guess there are many, as they would be classified in Psychology. Each one has its time. Logic is its own trap when you choose it in a situation not ruled by logic.