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Doesn't matter. I'm not loving how she looks because it is natural and without surgery or botox or whatever. I'm simply just loving her look. That's it. I don't care about what she did or didn't do to look like that. I'm just loving her look as it is now; not the story behind it. Don't care. Irrelevant.

Nice. I like this. (except for the term 'grow up') but it doesn't matter. It doesn't take away the essence of the message. Grown ups can still not recognize this. Anyway, nicely put.

These are some of the apparent dangers/traps in viewing people and circumstances as low consciousness. It's a learnt thing and subjected to you rating yourself and others. Now, you feel worse off than you would normally feel, if you didn't see yourself as 'better' than or more conscious than them. You feel worse because you have set a standard for yourself as high conscious and have set your own relative and subjective meaning to what that term means. If I'm highly conscious I shouldn't let that bother me and I've worked on myself and I feel worthy and so on and so forth. You are quickly realizing, and if you're not, this comment might open you up to realize your petty little ego's construction has nothing to do with life's appearances and anything can happen to shatter it's illusive nature, no matter how much you think you've worked on it. It helps to realize it's just a construction and to not take it too seriously and to be ready for it to be torn to pieces because of spontaneous emotions and random feelings that are occurring out of nowhere. Yes, nowhere. Buckle up and be ready for your high conscious/low conscious persona to be shattered by life's unexpected turns and twists that doesn't care about your states of consciousness when it hits. Stop adopting every little spiritual notion and idea you've heard and try to see things as they are as much as you can without labels. In this case, just see it as someone that said things that made you feel badly. THAT'S IT. Analyzing and trying to figure out why am I feeling this way as he's low conscious and I'm not, will create the illusion and story behind what was just simply an occurence that could have just went right back into the ocean from whence it came and be forgotten. This is what happens when we don't see things as they are without labels, definitions and interpretations which is very hard for the ego to do, but well worth the practice to undo as much as we can. It won't be all the way because it's not practical for the ego but try to do this as much as possible. These are true spiritual practices, in my opinion, because they allow for one to see life for what it is which is the whole purpose for spiritual growth. I can tell from your post that you're going off of a lot of spiritual teachings and what they have instilled in you and how you should be. Well, it takes for one to be at an apparent stage in life to be able to adopt those teachings correctly and to apply them more appropriately and with the proper discernment.

Not all the time, is this necessary. To me, it depends on who it is and my relations with them amongst other factors. Sometimes, it's just best to ignore and walk away and sometimes say something, but not necessarily "telling off" or becoming threatening. We sometimes turn something into a bigger issue by even paying it any attention and the effects just becomes a chain reaction. In the past, i used to react to everything and then other issues would stem from that reaction. When I find myself ignoring or paying very little emotional attention, I find that the issue dissolves itself and it's like it never occurred. The brain captures a snapshot of our emotional reactions to circumstances and our memory bank will remember that image again and again when something in our lives similarly occur and that has nothing to do with the initial occurrence. We set ourselves up to go through the emotional roller coaster of emotions by paying attention to every little thing that happens to us. That's why it's best to try and ignore as much as possible or at best try not to react too emotionally to anything that's not in our best interest.

Come on in, daddy. Let's have a threesome. Lol

If someone robs a bank for money, why not do the same if you need money. Heck, other's are doing it. Why shouldn't I do the same. I guess that would be wrong and in your mind, in a different category.

You are speculating and assuming here. Men are more likely to fit into this category, I think, but it's still speculation to say "for most people".

Brilliant. I read every word and I think it's a masterpiece.

Such a fantasy. Who are you talking to? The individual. The one looking to better their lives and to feel a certain way. Life appears spontaneously. We have apparent senses that perceives and different states appear depending on circumstances. Wanting and desiring already puts a condition into place; so, unless one doesn't want or desire then it's impossible to see everything as beautiful and perfect. Beautiful and perfect is what life is so is ugly and imperfect because it's the individual that's seeing life as such. Life just is. It doesn't care to be beautiful and perfect. Those are adjectives we use to describe what is. Saying life is beautiful and perfect is also saying ugliness and imperfection exists because those are dualities. Life just is. No one has to see it as beautiful and perfect, that's just for the apparent individual that seeks to see perfection and beauty. That's not freedom or liberation. Freedom and liberation doesn't exist for the individual. Life is already free and liberated to appear however it wants which also includes appearances of ugliness and imperfection. I'm not saying it's not perfection because it is, but it's not a perfection that can be understood by the individual who desires and wants and lives in a dualistic reality.

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The mind is what wants to be happy. How does one become happy? Neutral circumstances and experiences. Are circumstances and experiences happy "themselves"? No. Where does the happiness comes from. How one perceives and interprets those circumstances. A happy state comes and goes; so does circumstances and experiences. So, to conclude, happiness is a state of mind and is conditional. It's relative and doesn't really exist but only in the mind. Chasing after happiness is like chasing birds because we never know what will appear in life.

He didn't ask about reproducing. I guess that's your only reason to have a gf.

I think she looks beautiful.

Exactly. The world of 8bill people is screwed so just more screwed up people following you. Lol

How does one look at the air? Lol

Freedom doesn't care about effortless flow. That's a condition. Effortless or not, it's already that even if there's effort. You cannot control effort or effortless. Do you consider constipation an effortless flow? Constipation happens, right and can happen to the so-called enlightened. If you are constipated, that's not effortless flow. Well, we are all constipated looking for enlightenment. That's existential constipation. Looking to make life flow because you're contracted and traumatized thinking something is wrong with life and we need to fix it and then things will become effortless. Effort is a part of what is.

Can't you all see that no matter what we say about life it's still just keep on keeping on. You go to bed, you eat, take shower, go to work or not, play with friends, the sun shines, the moon shines, there's air to breathe, watch TV, listen music, do your exercises and spiritual practices, meditate, take a shit, watch the birds, go on youtube, approach girls, have sex, comb your hair, get depressed, feel happy fir a sec, talk to the neighbor, go to school, learn some shit, create some shit, log in to the forum........REPEAT. Nothing has changed. Only content. Same shit day in and day out. Hustle and bustle trying to survive. Talking shit on a forum then wake up and talk some more. Life is just keep on keeping on. Then you rot and die and your off-springs repeat the same shit to Infinity. I don't see anybody walking through walls, flying, raising the dead, stopping diseases, stopping people from suffering, fires and hurricanes, murder and rape and genocide and mass shootings still occur. Divorce, being cheated on, loneliness, depression and anxiety and fucked up human beings still exist. Everything is the same. Awakening, enlightenment? To what, all the above? Then what, chop wood, carry water? It's all bullshit. Ok, I'm God, more conscious, I meditate and go to retreats and do psychedelics and ayawashca(sic), then what, I'm more awake to see the bullshit more clearer? What's the difference if there's no limits and if I open myself to existence. Then what? I get swallowed up in the black hole and never come back. Or do I now live a life filled with joy and no suffering while everybody else suffers their rotting bodies away. Go learn some practical tips on how to maneuver this life as it is and cut the bullshit about how to integrate enlightenment. This is enlightenment, freedom and liberation already. Deal with with it.

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I don't go around the world saying I'm not human and I interact as such, it's for the purpose of this post why I'm saying so. There really are no humans and there's no difference between anything. It's all appearances. I appear as a human but that's just a word and a concept. It's all words and concepts. What's real is just what's appearing. We're making sense of it through meaning.

Silly. When you were a baby growing up and turned old enough to understand someone told you you were a human. Now, that's the belief. You don't know what you are. Human is just a title the same as Ms, Miss, Mr, Mrs. All made up.

There are no humans.

Wrong. Any interpretation of what's being said is illusory. Words talking, is just that, the sound of words. That's not an illusion. Talking is alive, real and happening. Your interpretations, feelings and ideas about the words is the illusory story.

I prefer to drink a little when working. Makes the experience go by easier and more fun. If I'm not drinking when I'm out like that I don't want to be there because I'm not really a bar person. Maybe because I've done it so many times, it's quite boring for me. I'm speaking about work now. I'm very rarely at a bar if I'm not working. Drinking makes the time go by faster. I drink red wine and on a few occasions a shot or two of something, maybe tequilla or brandy.

Yes, been drinking for awhile now. I've worked in bars for awhile. Don't drink at home, only out. If I drink at home, it's because I'm headed out and getting a head start. Lol

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