Princess Arabia

No one thinks, thoughts just happen. No one pees, peeing just happens. No one speaks, talking just happens. If you say otherwise, please write a short paragraph below how you have managed to do these things. Nothing is happening to you. You have attached yourself to everything that arises because you believe you're a separate being. It feels real, but it's all illusory. At the same time, there really is no attachment because there's no one doing that. Guys all that we talk about here about noself, no me, illusion, no doer, all the crazy seeming stuff......it has to not seem that way or else there would be no world. No continuation of a life, no seeming reality and experiences. You'd all just be zombies walking around just hearing sounds seeing colors and movement and feeling sensations. No story behind all that and everything would just seem empty, meaningless and pointless. Somehow this energy that we call "me", comes with it all this stuff that makes it appear so real. Enjoy it while it lasts because when it does or fall away there's no more you, even though there's none already, but it would be like you never existed. There's no one to even tell the difference.

So true. Everything is lost. It can feel terrifying. You "pinch" yourself back to reality. You're like wtf are you doing, get back here. Many times I've intuited things even though it's not really an intuition but something tells me things. Hard to explain. Then I'll experience something in everyday life that's weird and gives you a sense of "fakeness", like it didn't really happen, or it was kind of mystical or a strange happening. Life's weird. That's all i keep telling myself. Something weird is happening here.

These statements aren't really correct. Homemade food just means it's made at home, not chemical/toxic free. Plenty of homemade foods are poisonous. A female can use a vibrator repetitively on her clit to the point of damaging her clitoral nerves and making them numb where they aren't as sensitive and where she can't feel a thing anymore. Also, for some women, sexual intercourse with men can be very painful leading to severe stomach pain or even a torn vaginal wall.

His comment made me cringe.

Such silliness. Treating people like substitute resins, Believe it or not, there are some human beings that really do enjoy the company of other human beings and value them just for existing. Distracted from what? Doing "the work", meditating, self-realization, making money, the monkey mind's chit chatter?

This is like saying eating out is just using another place to cook.

Nice

Maybe start a thread for mass shootings and serial killers then it won't seem like it.

I had to. I love this song so much. Free him your honor. He can sing.

This so funny, it seems staged. I can't. 🤣I'm still cracking up.

Great advice.

Why did he get mad. Was he really mad or disappointed. Was he mad at himself for not taking you to a better school. (e.g). Was he frustrated. Was he mad at the school for not making you a better student. Was he still mad at you a week later. I mean, i could go on. These are all interpretations of what took place, the incident and circumstance which could have been interpreted in many other ways by all parties involved.

I can do better than that. Nothing's really happening.

lol

Ok, never mind, I'm out. Court session has begun,

You don't have to use my own arguments against me. Lots of men don't understand women and vice versa. I do understand men to a degree and I do understand that not all men are the same. Anyone that says otherwise is a looney tune.

Well, call me out on it when I do. Most times I usually say most or some. Most times if I'm generalizing yeah, but something as women are programmed to......whatever you said, is just too broad of a saying to just say women are, that's my opinion anyway. If I was to say men love sex, that's not some weird out controversial notion and most would agree. Anyway, we are all forgetting that different ages, cultures, even race and ethnicities, also upbringing and experiences plays a factor in people's personalities and character sometimes. Mistake we all make is to lump everyone in the same category. Experience will also teach you this and we all learn as we grow and mature. What some frivolous 20yr old would do might not be what a 30yr old would do and vice versa and that goes for all age brackets and not just subjected to age.

So that means all women are like that? The men that sees all women differently until proven otherwise are the smart ones and the ones who are more successful with women. (not referring to commonalities like women are more emotional, intuitive, more soft or moody or just in general etc). Saying women are programmed to care about social mind games is just too niche and does not apply to all women or even most.

Most people, male and female don't really care about anything but themselves and what matters to them. If the woman matters to a man, even if it's for the sex, he'll care then how her day went. Men who understands women and are men, not boys, will put in the effort, whatever that takes. He can genuinely care about her day and would love to engage in intimate close conversations about her, her likes and dislikes etc if it even just means getting close to her. I won't bother as I'm mainly referring to a more adult type man and a man who is relationship worthy or husband material but not subjected to. It's all in stages and these statements don't apply to any man at any stage.

@HojoPlease stop thinking all males are the same please, because they are not.