Princess Arabia

I've had guys tell me I'm not for them because I cannot humiliate them and treat them like the shit they want to be treated as. No one is taking advantage of anyone here, they want that, they want to be treated as such and will pay to get the job done. I was told I was too nice and i wasn't mean enough a couple times when approached for this type of work and there's no amount of meanness I could have faked because these guys can tell the difference and want it to be authentic and not faked. So don't think these guys are being taken advantaged of THEY WANT TO BE TAKEN ADVANTAGED OF or else they will look elsewhere. Now, whether this is sick or sadistic or whatever is another story, but there is a demand for this stuff. I personally don't like it, but I've done some mild ones because it wasn't so bad for me to handle.

Two reasons here why this line of work isn't for you. If you think it's "free money" and you're taking advantage of people for an exchange of services, that's emotional investment; and in this line of work you cannot have these mindsets. They are mindsets of the squares and normies in this field and you will be chewed up and eaten alive on a mental scale. These clients don't see it as being taking advantage of and these girls or whatever gender the worker is doesn't see it as free money. If they do, they are not seriously invested in the line of work and will suffer a quick burn out. It is simply a business and it has to be looked at as such where there is an exchange of services rendered and where there is a demand.

Lmao.

It's irresponsible to recommend it to someone with obvious mental issues and not recommending proper screening first.

That's the problem. Leo reached out to you with some solid advice and you respond by shouting back and reiterating you thought patterns once again. Do you really want helpful advice or to keep rebutting and sticking to your same frame of thinking. We're trying to help but you have to see that there's no solution when coming from the same state of mind that created the problem.

This is why sometimes you don't listen or adhere to what others have said and go with your own intuition or feelings, even though that's not always full-proof. . What are you detaching from to go get attached to something else. You're not attached to anything but your own frame of thoughts and thinking. Let go of all that and allow for what's taking place to take place without fighting it. That's the way to go. You are too much in your head thinking this should be this way and that should be another way. Too much information, too many strategies and how life should be. Let all that go and just let whatever comes come without judgement. Even letting go of the need to connect. Connect to your being and it will never fail you.

Thank you for responding the way you have. Maybe, just maybe, he might look up to you enough and take your advice seriously and think about what you have said because your influence on some here is very impactful in a positive way and you can be a great source of inspiration to those who need some motivation and advice when it comes to issues as this. I think it may be just what he needed to hear.

This is not, and I repeat, not for people who suffer from serious mental issues. Stop pushing this on those who threaten what he has threatened. Maybe an ayahuasca ceremony or mindfulness meditation or something like that but psychedelics might not be a good idea in his frame of mind.

It's funny watching the mind at work. It will drive us up the wall and back if we let it, which is exactly how 90% of humans live. Women is my only distraction from enlightenment. I need to get this out of my system. I've tried prostitutes but they don't scratch the itch for me and there's no connection to them. What kind of connection do you want with a prostitute. Now, I'm not at a particular level and my stupid ego has to come on board with this and realize that it has to accept that I have dualities (which, BTW are illusions) to take care of. Using an illusion (the ego) to take care of another illusion (duality). If this isn't neurosis like we all have been succumbed to, then I don't know what is. All in the mind. All delusion, all erractic thinking, all identification, all attachment and all within the scope of appearances in the world of change and where nothing is real. All thought after thought after thought and the egoic mind is trying to do something about it's own delusion. Next week it'll be I have awakened to so and so or I'm giving up this or that or I seek no more or whatever. It's infinite; infinitely everything and anything can appear including this. I seem to appear as fallen into victimhood too, so it's not just you; I'm seeing my own delusions playing out by seeing myself through you because it's all the same thing and there's no separation.

ok fine, I agree, but the OP isn't asking about relativity. The questions posed are more on a metaphysical level and are Absolute in nature and it seems to me looking for more clarification on the Absolute structure of reality more than how us humans experience it.

You don't get it. I don't wake up everyday, saying nothing is happening, but for a conversation as this and when someone is asking existential questions and looking for clarity, whether or not it is the case or I'm right or wrong, this is appropriate to discuss. This is not a dating question about sex and i'm responding nothing ain't happening so don't worry about it, it's a question about the existential nature of reality, telling me if I smash my fingers with a hammer is irrelevant to this discussion and doesn't answer the question as to whether anything is truly happening or not.

If there truly isn't anyone or no other or a figment of one's imagination, or I should say if one truly knows this, then why is this a concern - that people will not like and there will be a fall out. I don't get it.

Time and space are illusory - what path.

How do you know that anything is actually moving and that it's not just an appearance. How can you say "as much as you can be one with the movement", then say it's all one and speak about the Absolute. Doesn't that imply we're already implicitly one with the movement. We also say suffering is in the mind and it's an illusion, but you say if we can become one with the movement less suffering will take place. Is that one illusion (be one with the movement) making another illusion disappear (suffering). You see, it all sounds good but doesn't fit into the grand scheme of things and what doesn't fit into the grand scheme of things is to expect you'll say something that will. I realize nothing really fits into the grand scheme of things because there's nothing to fit into Infinity. So it's a matter of what is the mind is making sense of.

All of this sounds good and mighty and well put but it's just a bunch of mumbo jumbo that the mind concocted up to make sense of what's happening, to make sense of consciousness and it's features but it's still dualistic if something is aware of something else, how can that be if its all one, all connected and no separation. So it's all within the dream of separation and nothing wrong with that but it needs to be clarified and labeled as so,

Jamaica, beautiful island in the West Indies where I grew up, is known for it's cultural background. Our national motto is "Out Of Many One People" which alludes to the various ethnic groups among the population; which, to-date, stands at approximately 3million people. Here I will be posting videos and making posts about the different aspects of this very diverse Caribbean Island including, sports, food, music, politics, news, environment, and about the country in general. I'll start with this introductory video that states a few facts about the country.

We can never fully grasp the Absolute because whatever we're grasping with is also the Absolute, so that's true. I agree with the rest also. I used to be the anti-enlightenment one here and spoke against it, but now to me it doesn't even matter if it's a thing or not in the highest sense. I realize it doesn't even matter because talking about this stuff is not enlightenment itself and is all conceptual. I do agree that it's all filtered through the human limited perception and for all I'm concerned it's all true, so why argue about it, true in the relative sense.

Oh yeah, lets see you go to work knowing you're God. Let's see you get jealous, angry frustrated, make money to eat etcetc. Why do you think some lose the motivation to go on after they've awakened to their true nature.

If you were born and just sit in a room for 50years how would you know yourself and experience yourself. You are also complete and whole and not separated. It is you. Imagine going to school and someone giving you all the answers to every test. You wouldn't learn anything would you. It has to experience the test for itself. As the Godhead, it isn't experiencing anything, that's where you come in. It's just there just being without any movement. It's a mind imagining all creatures and experiences within it's consciousness. It leaves breadcrumb trails for itself plus death is the utmost remembrance, that's why no one makes it out alive.

It doesn't have anything, it is everything. It cannot experience itself without duality, it has to separate itself from itself to understand what it's like. It had to forget too or else there would be no point.

All that talk about the opposite sex that you were so believing in your past posts has created this. What you resist persist; and even if it didn't create this and it was already there, it strengthened it. One cannot fight life because it will fight you back. There's something about the feminine that is appealing to the masculine and when you fight that it will only get stronger. It's not about giving in, but integrating and recognizing it as a complement just like the Yin and Yan.

You know how silly I can get. I'm actually a real sweetheart. So much so, I started to get taken advantage of so I had to toughen up a bit. I attract the vampires and narcissist because they see a softie they can leech off of. But I'm toughening up thanks to them.