Princess Arabia

Great question. You see, we're all that, the Absolute, God, Brahman, whatever you call it and when you make posts like these and give in to these kinds of "self-questionings", it is that very same being in conflict with itself. Through the veil of separation, trying to get back to itself, find itself (so-to-speak), questioning itself, asking itself such questions through you, it's avatar. You already know the answers but this is the game it's playing with itself. If it didn't play this game, it wouldn't know itself. The question above is a direct inclination of this. It has eternity to figure out all this and this is the stepping stone; but only in the relative domain as it is already whole, perfect and complete. Welcome to the game, my friend, enjoy the process of figuring this shit out for yourself. This is why it's called a dream. A mirage, hallucination. You don't have love to give you are it, so go and shine that light and stop expecting love in return because you are just neglecting yourself and that part of you that's conditional and the part that doesn't need anything. You will never find what you're looking for because it is already here.

This is also unconditional love expressing itself as transactional. Nothing wrong with that if one stops seeking what they already are. Take the business side of love and either love or hate it. Your choice. It cannot be any other way because then it'll be conditional.

Not being able to love without provision is also unconditional love. Unconditional love means just that, under no conditions. You're looking for conditions as to not need anything from your partner. That's a condition. God doesn't provide conditional love, it IS unconditional love. There's nothing finite here only the Infinite masquerading as finite. You are that, and you are already the love that you seek.

Good advice, but the question was how to fix what those things already messed up. What you've mentioned doesn't accomplish that. Prevention doesn't help in this case.

Who?

This is why coconut oil is great for teeth, it contains the same compound that's found in breast milk.

Not that I saw these videos before or got my info from them, but just showing.... Calcium strengthens teeth. And this is just the tip of the iceberg. Never seen these videos before, so it's not like I got my info from these sources. There are plenty. Including my own teeth.

I use toothpaste but not conventional ones like Colgate or Crest but either charcoal or neem or Dr Bronner's brand. I don't use conventional mouthwash either. I either make my own using cloves or just rinse with a baking soda/water mix, Himalayan salt/water or a quick apple cider swish. Coconut oil pulling or some essential oil/water solution. Whatever I have on hand. I mix the eggshell powder with the toothpaste and brush and maybe add coconut oil. I mix it up.

I wanted to become a lawyer from high school days, then a psychologist in college, now I'm a stripper. Lmao.

Go to YT and type in Aaron Abke heart Chakra. He has a few videos on this and he's a good Spiritual Advisor. Choose which one suits you or just watch them all.

Be genuinely interested in her. (which is mostly going to interest older men or the more mature who have been through the chasing pussy stage). Becoming a great listener. Ask questions and genuinely be interested in the answers and be without judgement in that moment. Question women friends, relatives and the platonics on their likes and dislikes about men....etcetc things like that. Note however that these are just guidelines and nothing concrete as women can get flimsy and wishy washy, but the more you do this, you'll get a better at formulating your own assessments on the general scale. Most men are into themselves and love to talk about themselves,(this is an observationand not a criticism), so you'll definitely have one up on them in this regard by adopting this strategy. Even just doing this alone with a date or a potential date will give attraction points because it's so rare coming from a man and women love to see genuine interest. This will be more of a trial and error but going to mutual places of interest will help. Like, if you like athletic women go to the gym or women who are into music, go to concerts or women who love sports, you get the drift. Go to places where you would find the type of women you think you'd be attracted to on a personal level. If you hate promiscuous women, don't go to clubs or bars to try to find one - not saying they all are but to narrow it down a bit. Try to be yourself around them and what I mean by that is to not pretend to think you know what they want or that you're somebody you're not. We all act differently around different people and we all have multiple personalities depending on whom we're interacting with but we also have a baseline personality and you want to show that one more when trying to meet women for dating. After you've gotten to know her a bit, you can probably show some sides to you that may compliment what she has shown you, but let her shine so you're able to get to see more of her and be able to decide more quickly if she's compatible or not.

I like this quote.

Funny, because I was going to put in the "request a video topic" section something in the realm of understanding and the processes involved, like his video on how to determine what's true - along that line. So maybe our minds were linked and if we focus hard enough, he might follow through.

Yeah, this is more like a niche and more personalized which will probably be a bit more difficult to generalize; but yeah it fits in perfectly.

Leo's name is written all over this. This is probably the basis on how he formulates most of his videos and courses.

For sure.

Not if there's no attachment there and if one is operating from a place of identification. You're right, it's not easy but pass this point it becomes unmalleable for outside forces to influence you. I'm not there yet, but I've experienced spurts of it depending on my state.

Beautiful. All your explanations are beautiful to read. Something within me feels something when I read them.

Yes, but most people use get into Spirituality as a survival mechanism; suffering, trying to gain something, maintaining their Spiritual identity, that's why it's hard to intermingle. True embodied Spirituality, one can intermingle no problem. It's like a male doesn't go around consciously trying to maintain his male identity, doesn't try to avoid activities that doesn't make him a man, he just is and, if anything, tries to improve upon his already manhood. He doesn't avoid females because they'll turn him into a female. If his Spirituality was truly embodied and not on shaky ground he wouldn't feel the need to have to avoid being in a relationship that was of good caliber, loving and a fit for both.

Yes, that's the beauty of femininity. This is why some men love it so much and why I love being a woman.

Goddess Arabia to some. Lmao. Or I should say Ebony Goddess.

Only when it's transactional, brief and non-personal. Ups and down to everything.

I like the way you phrased this.

Submissive men are too. Never the same character, they go in and out, they'll agree with everything but only if it makes them feel good and they're in their role at the time, they can get confusing and put you on the spot for doing something they didn't mind you doing before but now they're feeling dominant so it feels different to them. That's why I said before this dynamic is a complicated one. Brings new definition to the relationship phrase " It's complicated".

Kind of like sometimes if I'm on here for a bit in one day, talking back and forth, different topics, different people, all in for about 2hrs straight or so, then.......log off to find myself alone in my room. I can't explain that feeling, it's like before I was all engaged and now all alone in a split second. The difference in feeling is unfathomable and hard to put in words. As if I'm all alone in the Universe, just my room exists and all that talk never happened....then boom, back to reality. All that happened in a split second. So, I kinda understand what you mean.