Princess Arabia

Was wondering when the love post was coming.

This is why it invented all these consepts. Do we go around saying we need feet or we need to speak. We say we need silence because there is none. Trying to create something that doesn't exist. Ever see people going around insisting on what's nit naturally there. We need to breathe, we need to sleep we need to eat, we need to sneeze......we need to be silent, why. Silence appears when it wants, i don't need to call it in.

This is turning into an incel thread. Now, its women don't have sex drive and women aren't attracted to men, are cold and calculating and whatever else hate speech towards women. I'm so sick of this, I'm out.

Why is there a congratulations to a guy just because he's attractive and get stares and saying great that means we are loved. Do you know how many people feel loved who aren't attractive and getting stares or how many are hated and attractive or get stared at because they're ugly or whatever. What does loved have to do with any of these happenings coming from strangers. If you don't feel loved, you don't feel loved. That's fine. But an attractive guy tells you he gets stares and now we are loved.

We all have trauma. Working 9-5 everyday and punching a clock is traumatizing. A break-up can be traumatizing, a rejection, a whipping from ya momma or poppa, someone telling you you're fat if you can't handle it can be traumatizing, a divorce, death of a friend, witnessing a stabbing, being cheated on, rejected from a college, can't pass grades. Posts have been made on these very topics right here on this forum from people looking to cope. Don't think you're immune. Look deeply and you'll find it, you just don't know it's trauma because you're used to it. It's not normal to congratulate someone because someone stares at them and then telling them that means we are loved. That's coming from a traumatized mind.

Where was the aggression? Give me a remark or response I said that was unreasonably aggressive or maybe I wasn't catering to the OP's expectations of the world loving him. Oohh, no one loves me. Jesus. Trauma is probably hiding in you too if you can't see the whining in that. Still waiting on the unreasonable aggressive response. Maybe you consider this unreasonably aggressive too. I kinda know your history so I wouldn't be surprised if you felt the same way as OP.

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Uh, uh, fuck me, uh, uh, fuck me, Oh God, yeah fuck me (screams in ecstasy.....OooohhMyyyy Goooddd) There you go. God realized sex.

I will get a lot of backlash for my radical ways of thinking and for unusual things I say that's not the norm. I used to go with the crowd and just follow along with what everybody was saying and blah blah, until I realized that it's just the blind leading the blind in some cases. Some just don't know how to think for themselves and will just do, say or believe what gurus say or some old man in a grave and call it wisdom just because it sounds good. I'm not saying they're wrong or right and neither am I saying I'm right or wrong, but I'm not a follower, always been like that. I turned away from society's indoctrination system a while back and saw myself going down the Spiritual indoctrination too. If I was to question some people about why they do what they do or believe what they believe and trace it back, it wouldn't go too far other than what they heard someone say, or just because it's a spiritual thing to do. I'm an observer and an investigator, I'm very inquisitive, curious and love to view things from different angles. Too many people want to follow the crowd just to fit in. I don't want to fit in. I don't care to fit in. I care to broaden my horizons and open my mind to other possibilities.

Here's another video to support my trauma and society claims. I also just saw this video. I'm telling you it's trauma that makes us addicted, feel so much pain, suffer so, and respond to life the way we do, They can range from miniscule to extravagant symptoms. From feelings of not being loved to feelings of loneliness to lack of motivation and everywhere in between.

That quote by me up top was said before even seeing this video. I just saw this video today around 10mins ago. I'm trying to say how trauma causes a lot of our symptoms but people sometimes want to challenge me when I say certain things. I don't mind, but please be open-minded and don't just shut me down because it's me saying it. Think about my claims before you pass them off as just me running my mouth.

Just so you guys are aware, OP did make adjustments to his original post and has deleted some remarks in his post after we originally spoke. It is not the exact same post word for word that I initially responded to.

Why do people say this to people is beyond me. How can someone appear wiser than they actually are. I'm just speaking and saying things from the heart and giving my two cents and opinions and what not. Maybe you're the one that thinks I'm wise because I never once said that about or to myself. If my comments seemed so stupid and unwise why would someone say I'm here to appear wise. Makes no sense.

No. He has had traumatizing experiences. I was not projecting.

Ok. Lets break this down. Give me an example of what I said why you feel that way. Instead of just criticizing me, which I could have just ignored, I'd like to see through myself here to see my own shit. So tell me one at a time where is the discrepancy here that you see. I'm doing this with an open mind so let me hear it please. Also where was I being condescending. I hope its not where I said his comments seemed to be coming from a place of trauma. That's not condescending. Anyway, I'll give it a shot that you'll address my concerns here and allow me to see where I'm so off.

Dope and talented. All grown up, same talent.

No one said you were wrong. I wasn't trying to prove you wrong about anything. Just showing how we tend to project unto the world our personal experiences and thinking the whole world is like that or feels the same pain we feel. It's personal for us. Maybe you'll hear other perspectives on this. I'll chime out for now.

Don't you see something dysfunctional in that. Hitting on, approaching and trying to get the attention of females you don't like. Then get angry at them for rejecting you. That's not normal behavior. It's not the women you need to be concerned with, it's your own imbalance.

Yes, and that changed the whole trajectory of the post. If you were just speaking about you or maybe even only mentioned other hurt men like yourself this post would have went into another direction. It seems you were referring to all men.

Reminds me of something you've also said in the past about not even liking those women who rejected you. You were approaching and trying to hit on females you didn't even like and got ticked off when they rejected you. You don't see how dysfunctional that is because you can't see it from those lenses.

Yes, you're right there if it is based on grounded reality, as you put it. I retract suggesting not giving out advice in general, as advice can even be sound coming from a hurt individual. It can't be measured ahead of time. So forget that and i retract that statement.

Yes, this is just you and your experiences. Your feelings and reactions. Lots of men out there can't get rid of some women fast enough and are having women begging to be with them. This is you and yours, not all men go through this, not even the majority. Women go through these things too, you know.