Princess Arabia

@Rishabh RYou've had traumatic experiences with women in the past. Your posts have said so yourself. Don't make me go dig them up. I can.

They aren't female. They don't represent to you what your trauma is about.

I'll be a bit more sensitive and try not to stir up any unwanted feelings. It's just I'm just responding to you and you're taking my responses personally and they are bringing up past images in you. You're very hurt and i need to understand that from what I know of you and your past posts. I'll be more sensitive from now on to this.

Trauma

I was responding to the ALL MEN part. Now, you're telling me off about how I don't know you and what limited worksheet you concocted up. Drawing conclusions about life leads to closed-mindedness and not much room for growth or for other perspectives.

You're worried if women like you. Does that particular female like you. Do you like yourself. Why be so general about the whole thing. All it shows is trauma just like another comment suggested. This post reminds me of a phobia - an irrational fear.

Shows you how no one exists but you in your world. The clues are everywhere. I won't argue with you.

Slapping happened. Feelings happened. Now let's get back to the dream.

There is only seeing happening. There is no moment. Moment implies another moment, then another, then another. No such thing as one moment. The you is a dream. There is no you. So, therefore, the moment is you is incorrect. There is no time, so there can't be a moment.

You didn't say in your post other struggling males. You said ALL MALES. DIDN'T YOU!!!

This post appeared on my screen. Those words appeared on my screen in question format. A notification appeared on my screen that someone quoted me in another thread. That car appeared in my driveway. That bird appeared in my view.

No, the idea would be what the I says about what's appearing. All there is, is appearances. There's nothing but appearances. Show me something that didn't appear. That's not an idea.

What is. There's no I so what is left is whatever appears. Without the rhetoric, stories, ideas, interpretations from the I.

Exactly. Like I've stated before, most posts like these are trauma based. Not only like these, either, but this one is an example of one.

No, that you need to face. At least say "some" to tone it down a bit. All men is a bit delusional, don't ya think.

Your title alone says it all. Get over yourself. You can't because your life is only about you. That's the dilemma. All the other millions of men getting married, fell in love or living with loving partners in relationships and having a family doesn't exist in your world. Totally invisible to you. Life's all about me, me, me. What's up with this "us". Surely not speaking to the men with wives or sexing down the town and having women flock to them like birds or in relationships.

The only illusion is you thinking there's a you that's an illusion. The only illusion is the I.

Why do you think we have senses. To try and make sense of the non-sense. How can life or reality or whatever make sense on it's own to us. Think about it. All these billions of different perceptions, all these subject matters, all the different beliefs, dreams, thoughts, ideas, opinions, different survival strategies, biases, desires....all that...how could you fit that into something that makes sense all on it's own. It needs help and that's where you come in. Make it make sense for you and your dreamt up made-up world. Take away all your stories and your life/world is utter chaos and insanity, but only for you and not life itself. Life is fine on it's own. It doesn't need to make sense for itself - so to speak. It needs to make sense for you. That's where the brain's abstractions and senses and all that comes in. Welcome to your world of sense making. Without it you'd be nothing. Ever seen a brain-dead person. Ever heard the term "sense-making". Note: This is just me trying to make sense of the non-sense. These aren't facts or truths. Nothing is.

So, your post is an illusion and your words is an illusion since the poster is an illusion anyway. Is that it.

I wouldn't call it healthy VS unhealthy. Just a different kind. Different expressions. Communication. Just as we're exchanging words and communicating here in a way that's considered normal, respectful, not filled fill explosive language or makes us feel imbalanced or threatening. If you were mad and outraged, your words would come out differently and carry another type of tone with them and I'd be able to feel that. Same thing, maybe more loving, passionate kisses to make one feel loved. Touching and rubbing each other passionately, communicating physically in ways that expresses deep loving affection towards each other. Looking in each other's eyes while emitting loving signals and exchanging signals of mutual respect, loving feelings and a feeling of really enjoying each other. The male can still be a bit aggressive in style and the female could receive him entirely but because it's one acting out of respect and love, he'd be able to feel that and she would receive him no problem. So I'm not saying it's all softness and passion, but the roughness would still have an undertow of passion and love and not feel like aggression and self-hate.

I wonder what P.Diddy's excuse will be. No sympathy or empathy whatsoever for these grown ass rich men who took advantage. They weren't traumatized enough to know right from wrong. Don't fall for these pity stories. They could have gotten the help they needed if they wanted to. Money, fame and power can also be traumatizing for some and help to create these monsters. Maybe without all that, they might have remained humbled. At the same time, yes, things can be put in place to help traumatized victims.

No, it's the trauma and whatever else on those levels, maybe abuse, low esteem, insecurities, don't feel deserving of love etcetc that makes them love the choking, extreme pulling of hair, want to be dominated in bed and all those extreme kinky stuff. Imbalance of some kind. The wilder the kink, the greater the imbalance. Most people are, so it's not a big deal but that's where it stems from. Nothing wrong with it - just saying. Lots release those tensions in the bedroom.

If 5Meo makes one find God, why keep doing it. Didn't you find God the first time. Did it disappear again. I mean, I'm trying to understand this stuff, not poke at it or anything but truly understand this stuff. What does it do the 50th time that wasn't done the first time. One doesn't need to drink 10x before they get drunk; one time is enough. The feeling was nice for some so they do it again and again and again for the feeling. Is 5meo being done for a feeling or for God realization. I realized I was drunk the first time I got drunk. How many realizations does one need to realize God. I wish someone could explain this to me.

Age restricted alright. Too x-rated even for this thread. I was cracking up. Especially with the middle kinda girl.

When I say I'm through with spirituality and stuff like that I mean all the dogma, teachings, trying to understand, trying to get more knowledge to use for benefits, practices and doing things to try and get somewhere. Whatever I do, practice watch or read is just for it's sake and not trying to get to a certain place. I'm not saying I'm not a seeker, but I'm not a spiritual seeker, never was. I would call it more Spiritual enthusiasts. It's not that I see no point, and it's not that I think it's useless, it's just that energy fell away. I love talking about life, and to me, there's nothing but spirituality because life is spiritual. Mundane things are also spiritual. It all depends on how one classifies it. I see nothing but spiritual and that's why nothing is spiritual.