Princess Arabia

No, just different. Weird is trying to be like everyone else.❤️

Guys, you are not Leo. What might be right for him and most suits his lifestyle and personality, might not be right for you. Not everything he says is a suggestion that you be or do the same. See it as him being him and that you have a different persona to compliment a different choice. Don't go thinking now you should abstain from sex and that sex with certain women is unconscious behavior and how much you might regret having sex in the future. Be your own person and do what you feel is best for you in the moment. You might regret a decision later but that's life and what experiences is all about. Do it or don't do it because of you not because of what Leo said in a blog post about his personal life and past choices. What's good for the goose might not be good for the gander. Stop taking Leo's words when it comes to his personal life as gospel and that it relates to your life also. Ten years from now he might regret not having more sex in his 40's because he lost his penis or something. Oops, I didn't say that. Lol

Nice one but that's not exactly it. What it is, imo anyway and what I intuit, is that women like to see men have fun. Humor takes a little away from the stress of having to impress; and by nature, women feel their impressions is in the way they look and feel. When a man is humorous and playful with them it shows he's comfortable around her and that opens up the space for her to be comfortable and be herself around him. We're playful by nature, so now the chemistry is balanced and less effort involved in trying to win the other over. The playfulness does it all by itself and now she's in and wants to experience the chemistry even more because it feels good.

Whatever works.

Sound a bit angry. Energy is energy and it plays however it wants to play. No one has energy to give as it's all energy. You're the one being delusional. No one puts a gun to anyone's head. Men give women stuff all the time because it makes them feel good. Just another form of expression. Shit, i give away stuff all the time. You're the one seeing it as gorgeous women and men relating. Love you Cardozzo🥰

OK. Energies joking around. Wonderful. Now go back to being stressed and can't relax and pretend to not know what to do about it. Lol.😜

There is no real "being present" or "not being present". There is no presence. It's timelessness. One cannot be more present or less present from what is. All of that is illusory and only matters to the observer which isn't real and not even there. Without an observer everything just is and presence is not a thing to be or not be. That's just a concept. Presence implies a before and after and now I'll be present. There's no real before and after so, therefore, there is no presence. There is no now either. There is just simply timeless energy appearing to be present. That's the delusion of the separate energy that seeks to unite with itself.

You're right.

Leo's explanation of his GAME AWAKENING is superb. Guys, take heed. It's not all, but a big chunk on how females get attracted - genuinely attracted, not for some pay off or reward system, just pure raw attraction. Why do you think PLAYers get all the play. Pun intended. The mind is a serious and clever self creator. Just calling or perceiving a man to be a player is half the work. The attraction is in the word. So when you're coming on here complaining about women and despising the dating scene and blah, blah blahing, while the comedian and the 'play r us' guys are out there getting laid and having a grand ole time, you could be out practicing your playful skills. Practice here by finding humor in your need to blast women or find humor in your seriousness for not getting laid as you'd like and also stop telling me I'm not a man so I won't understand so and so, I understand humor and I understand what makes me feel like wanting to sleep with a man and knowledge has nothing to do with it. The playful sense of the attraction energy is what penetrates all of this existence and how the energies interact and perform this beautiful melodios thing called life. Energy is playing with itself but we're just not laughing. Thank you Leo for that beautiful post. I can't say enough about it.

Where else am I speaking from, that's obvious. Making my point even more; no view, no perception, no reality, no world and that's still my view.

You still don't get it, but thats ok because if everybody got it there wouldn't be a world.

I'm not sure what the no is for, but that's the case; there were no issues that got solved. Things don't get solved....something else appears. Anyway, I'll let that be.

How I formulate my thought patterns. I might hear something interesting then I think about it, question it, be curious about it and let it be. Then I might hear or see something else that fits into the puzzle of a previous thing I heard or saw. Then I let that be. Then something else arises to fit in the puzzle, figuratively speaking as there is no puzzle. Then it all clicks in and cements itself into form (still thoughts and ideas and insights). Then I may see the connection with something prior to something now and I nay hold that thought till something else appears and so on and so forth. This is how I'm able to write as I do and cone up with all these scenarios and write in my own words so explicitly and smoothly. I'm not saying they are true or anything like that, what I'm saying is I'm a developer. You know, those big cooperate company contractors and developers. I formulate and mix and match the cement and come up with exquisite stories about the self, life and reality. I'm always on the lookout for interesting pieces of art to add to the collection and use experience, other's experiences, memory, stored data, queries, observations and curiosity to help with the brand. I'm a company that develops insights and tells stories that seem to be real and thoughts love me for it. They seem to like to camp out and wait for their turn to be used as a piece of art and a developer's storyline.

We're attracted to things because we can't generate attraction on our own. There's nothing there to be attracted to because there's no separation. Something doesn't seem to attract itself, but that's exactly what attraction is. We imagine an object, we get attracted to it for whatever reason and now the relation with that object begins. Whether it's a person or a car or a sport or whatever. We're not attracted to anything, attraction is what's happening all on it's own but, you know, we own and claim everything and I might say it as such, but it's really not the case of "i'm attracted to, but attraction is happening". "I like that female, I'm attracted to that female", he says, now the body begins the work of feeling other things, lust, love, jealousy, anxiety, admiration, whatever emotions that weren't there before that object (the female) and now the individual feels as if it attracted something that it's relating to and now continuity progresses. A personal life is believed in as a doer is being believed to be responsible for the attraction and this is just one aspect of how we've been duped into this illusory world of the cat chasing it's own tail. We like to be with people we're attracted to because it enables the self. Helps it to feel alive. If it's not physically, it's something else we're attracted to. A beautiful woman with a man in a wheelchair, for example, may be attracted to safety and she feels safe with him for never running off, or likes control and feels in control when she's with him. Control and safety is the energy at play here (or whatever the motivation for her was), she's not doing it. Those energies are what's playing around disguised as a human being.

You didn't solve any issue, the focus just went somewhere else.

The need to know is what's hurting the individual. It needs to know because it's that knowing energy. Everything in life screams what I'm talking about. Notice how you feel the need to know. Even the need to not know is a need to know that you don't need to know. Can't escape yourself. Knowing energy at play.

Hehe, I'm sure you read it the wrong way, but that's ok. I can't force you to not be you. You're not a problem and that's the problem. Hope you got that.

I watch my cat and I notice how moment by moment she is. She'll go outside and get wrapped up in drama with the outside cat and they'll be at it and I open the window for her to come in and she runs in and it's like nothing ever happened. She just starts licking herself and goes for the food while I'm here all worked up over hearing all that cat spewing and cat fighting. She just goes on as if that was and now this is. That's just one example. I see how she operates, she has a personality, but it's not her own, she doesn't own it like we do. Shit, we even give ours names like NJPT, MJNP, i don't fucking know, I just made those up, personality types and love types and relationship types and anger types and this here type and that here type,......jesus...yet we seek enlightenment. Humans are funny and weird creatures....no cats are. Love 'em. If you want to get a feel of what I'm like in person, think of a cat, I have a cat's personality; always has.

It's funny you say that because I thought about this before. Then I said, no it's not attachment, it's joy, love, excitement, passion. The person will come in and say it's attachment because it's wants to leave room for other attachments. It'll say this is attachment so it eases up a bit to go get attached to other things. I've seen through this too. None of it is attachment, it's just what is. This here ain't getting caught up in the chasing the tail of endless looping. I see things for what they are not what labels I put on it. It's not that I don't engage in other things, this the only place I write about and talk about such things so it might seem like it's all I do, but it's not. I love what you wrote, though.

Maybe there's no 'me' here and I don't know it. There's none anyway in anyone, but maybe this here body recognizes there to be none. I don't know. I've heard it said by Alexis that there are some people where the me has fallen away and they don't know it or recognize that to be the case. It would be equivalent to someone losing their sense of smell but doesn't realize it. You don't really notice your hand until it hurts. In this case, there's no one to notice there's no me. I still feel like it and operate from that sense but I notice i don't write like it. Everything else we do is 'seen' from the 'inside' like thoughts, feelings, etc, no one can experience those for us, but writing can be seen by others and when writing to other, that's when I can notice and I write from a place where there's like no one in this body. This part is a bit tricky to express, but I know what I'm trying to say, even saying those last words felt weird and funny, "I know what I'm trying to say", no I don't. I'm just writing. I write somethings and read it back and I'm like that felt real, that reads real, but I think to others it's like confusing. Like they might not know what i'm talking about. Not understand. I see it so many times. I'm not trying to sound a particular way or trying to sound like there's no me it just happens that way. It's not all the time, but a lot of times and I only notice it when I'm relating to others. I don't know, it's kind of weird. Some of the stuff i write or what comes out of this mouth is like, wtf is she saying i think is what others be saying sometimes. I don't even have to think about what I'm writing or expressing it just happens, it just comes out. Plenty of times i've erased a journal post because i start to think too hard about what I'm writing; it just didn't feel real to say. Real, in this case, means where the ego isn't involved. This usually happens when I feel like writing but with nothing to say VS something to express and expressing it through writing. Most posts that make it through wasn't thought through or rehearsed; they are mostly spontaneous.

Stress doesn't resolve itself. Stress is stress and cannot be any other thing. What happens is something else takes it's place. Stress is not a problem, the you is. Sorry to say. It's the you that needs to resolve itself. You are not stressing about the stress. It's just stress. I'm expressing it this way because anything else, any advice will only be band aids and addressing the symptom. If the root cause, you, isn't addressed, tomorrow it'll be something else and something else and something else. What to do about the root cause? Nothing. There's none. Problem and issue solved.

Nothing. God is nothing. There are no real creations. Nothing is being everything. Energy. Never created or destroyed, just is.

Weird thing is when I used to listen to these subliminals/meditations (not this one but similiar), money would come to me the next day. Maybe it's a mind thing. I would fall asleep to them. I don't anymore but I used to. Maybe I should start again cause money's getting rationed.. lol

Yeah, I guess it's like watching the opponent's political party to see who not to vote for.

It's not about the age but more about the personality. I see plenty of older men out at bars and clubs and places like that. It's just they're mostly out during the day and during the week. Late night and especially week-end nights is when the younger crowd mostly are out. If anything, it's older men VS older women who still go out to those places after 40 if they are that type. Golf clubs, restaurant bars and concerts and jazz clubs are common for older folks. For older men, it's not a deterrent as much because they can still attract younger women. Older women are more selective and aren't out partying as much but I see men of all ages all the time out both alone and in groups. Also, I lived in Vegas for a couple years and that place was filled with older men, and women too, day and night. Plenty of older women were partying and clubbing. They were hot and sexy too. Vegas is filled with those types of women. Older men galore and I mean even 50's and 60's. Nothing for men that age to go out but maybe not night clubs but more lounges and bars and social clubs.