Princess Arabia

Hey there Mr. Hard Ass. No, you don't come off as hard, you're a softy, in my book. I wanna rock wit ya, baby, all nite long; roll wit ya baby, feel so strong. Explore Reality wit me baby!! Lol 🥰🥰

I love Schizo. We're cool. Been on here for a while talking shit with him and we both butt heads all the time and make up. It wasn't personal. He just speaks French a lot, literally and figuratively. I'm like, 'wah".

It was mostly by a 21yr old virgin which doesn't really count as a dismissal but ignorance. Schizo knows it all on everything. Lol

I don't really get that vibe. Guys know they have to attract the woman first and that's where he seems to be having the problem. I don't think he's even that interested in having sex with women (not calling him gay, just not his priority right now), he just wants to change his personality and lighten up a bit to be able to be playful and not take himself so seriously and have lots of women all over and around him and loosen up a bit so he can feel like a ladies man. That's the vibe I get. Then hoping the sex will come automatically.

Well, he said it twice in his remarks that I've quoted and mentioned and he's not really responding to me and my comments, only yours at this point. It's OK. My comments weren't very flattering in the beginning and i'm a female responding to buff, so I get it. I'll stay in my place. I know when i'm not welcome. Hehe plus it's a macho thing. I can feel it. Irony is he's treating me as if I'm invisible, check out the heading. He doesn't realize it's an identity thing and just because you're not trying to pick me up, you can still learn something from a woman here. You're invisible to women because that's how you see women, like they're invisible. Hope I taught you something through reflection.

OK, plus I forgot you said you already been with her and it wasn't the first time. Somehow I don't think one has to do with the other regarding you not being present so you attract that in your field of awareness, but hey, never know with this weirdo thing called life.

OK.

Seems like you're assuming a lot and doing the blame game. I can't say for sure what's going on as I'm not there and don't know enough of the circumstances to make a fair analysis and judgment, but saying she needs to be in the present, and as a spiritualist you already know there's nothing but and she is in the present because that's all there is, but that's not the point and I don't want to turn this into some spiritual honky donky convo. It also seems you haven't come to grips that a woman has the right and with no reason or no excuse to change her mind and she was probably freely expressing that right. Anyway, i do understand what you're saying and that's why it's best for a man to work towards securing personal committed relationships so you don't have that problem or on the flip side expect the unexpected if you're not committed and understand she can change her mind at anytime.

This also. Why just men.

This suggests only guys need respond

You can start by not just asking the males of the forum for advice on the topic because it's not a male issue it's a personality issue and you're actually trying to attract women with this attempt at personality change. I even said things to suggest how I like men who are a bit funny and witty and that in of itself is a clue what some women find attractive and can maybe help in your transformation by suggesting things they like to see men do and act to possibly attract more women. You can be helped not just by guys experience in overcoming this issue but also what women have to say about their experiences with the man you're trying to become. It's not that women won't reply, I'm doing that, but the mindset that cones with only wanting a male's perspective on the matter speaks volumes in and in of itself. It's a closed mindset. How you do one thing is usually how you do everything.

Yeah, night time for pretty much anywhere streetwise is when the action usually starts and is.

I really don't think anything is actually moving, only appears that way. The observer is what creates time and space which is needed for a flow and an actual happening.

Perfect to see how many couples there are. Just from the short time I've been watching, I've seen quite a few holding hands and obviously couples. All this talk about women and how men are finding it hard. No, men are finding it hard with hot women and picture perfect models.

I agree. Sometimes, she just has to feel comfortable; and also, remember that not all females, as I'm sure you're aware of already, don't react the same. What you've described earlier I don't think is much of a general norm with women. It's usually before they get that far and after a certain place, they've already decided they're being with you already. A guy usually has to fuck that up real bad if she's already in the bed with you and willingly for her to want to get up and leave.

OP's stomach is more ripped than that dude's. It's not him.

Is this shit like live right now. That's pretty wild. Decent camera too.

OK but a lot of this isn't on a conscious level. The pregnancy thing, isn't like she's actually reasoning this out to herself at the time, it's done on instinct. I left out a few factors too, the fact of some men leaving after sexual encounters with women and never wanting to see them again (it happens a lot), being thought of as loose and slutty (it happens a lot), even today in a thread someone called women who gawked at attractive men loose. So we have to contend with a lot of emotional stuff when we sleep with men. For men, it's a triumph and a score, not the same for women.

For there to be a cause, there has to be a meaning and destination and there is none.

That's the illusion. For perspectives to occur, separation has to be the case and there's none.

Nothing is being the rats and the piranhas. Nothing as in something nothing. It has no qualities All that appears cannot appear from something that's a something. Something that is no-thing, aka nothing, is what's being everything. If that's the case then nothing is really happening as this no-thing is also the space in which everything seemingly happens. How can something actually be happening when everything is everything and there's nothing outside nothing/everything to make nothing/everythjng happen. A happening requires space and time and this nothing is also being space and time. Not sure how else to explain this.

OK. And don't say, "that's it, youre not going to rebut and argue", lol. No, not today. Hehe

Only if you believe this and one just has natural problem in this arena. Plenty of men are succeeding with women without an ounce of inner work. They didn't have any of this stuff back in the day and men were always hooking up with women shit, even cavemen did it. Even now the deaf and dumb are doing it, the handicapped and the fat and not so handsome. It's a mindset.

This fits perfectly I think but what I think is missing here is you seem to think someone can make something happen. I say it happens all by itself. Maybe with the help of some practices but that would still be just an appearance as the center isn't really there.

Be careful with this. Not every guy can pull this off and not with every woman and depends on the context and what you mean by this. Leo can pull this off because he studies human psychology and other stuff dealing with humans and it took him a long time to get to this place. One has to know what they're doing to pull this off without coming off creepy or treating women like children, literally. It must be playfully done and coming from a place of playfulness itself. Some serious dude that takes himself seriously and is concerned about attracting women won't be able to right away unless he learns the skills on how to.