Princess Arabia

What's the difference with saying what he said to Leo in a respectable manner out of love and somebody degrading someone on the forum and being crude. Would you say to them the same thing. Probably not. I haven't seen anyone saying to me or anyone when we're being disrespectful "did you really say that, really? Except for being punished. How great society would be if being disrespectful and cruel to anyone would get the same response.

All meditation means is to become familiar with. You are already meditating naturally.

This is not just what this guy stands for or talks about. He also meditates but not to get somewhere as he totally enjoys it. You would have to be somewhat awaken to really appreciate this guy's channel. It's not for the egoic mind that's chasing enlightenment and believes it's a separate entity. This is why I don't share these small channels as much because some minds tend to like extravagance VS simplicity. Some minds believe it has to do something to attain freedom and to be liberated. These channels are not for those minds it's for the ones who already realize who they are and are trying to stay in that space, to live from that space. It's simple and doesn't engage in a lot of outside practices and fancy terms and processes which takes you away from the true self. This guy is the real deal but he will not be recognized as such because most people aren't there yet. They have to go through the endless seeking and endless processes and practices to realize that it will never end. I'm not speaking about the things we can learn like from Leo's channel or other spiritual channels who goes in depth about the nature of consciousness and so on and about what is intelligence and so on. Just the basics of who we are and the nature of reality as to the illusory nature of it. Not identifying as a human without discarding the human essence is the way to go and will make things reveal themselves to you easier but most people insist on identifying as human and are worshipping false gods and idols saying they are needed to get to where they already know that they are and to show them what they already know that they are. It's the mind's way of keeping itself alive and kicking with all the self-deception and loops it carries on with and consciousness is unaware of itself in those cases. This guy is just a reminder and an inspiration to those who are aware of their true nature and has seen through the mind's deception and it will not become popular because most have not seen through that yet, hence gurus and practices galore.

Consciousness.

Ok ma'am. I guess the same goes for all the others you're a menace to. Seems to be one person in common here.

Telling someone, no matter what they do for a living that they are far from enlightenment is in of itself unconscious behavior. You have shown more unconscious behavior on this forum than I have and if you were even remotely somewhat enlightened you would have come to the realization that the person's true nature is not what they do for a living BUT IS BEING WITNESSED. You have identified with a body/mind and in inturn you can't see pass other's. I'm aware that what I'm witnessing here on this forum from you is not who you truly are but just a false identity you have created and in that case I'm also aware that your bullying and defamations are also coming from a place of ignorance. This is why I won't block you unless it gets really really bad, which I doubt; and will still continue to engage unless it gets really, really bad, because for me it's not personal. In fact, this is very good practice for me to stay and rest as the witness.

I'd rather be of low-self esteem and fart and piss on people who don't mind than to be a forum bully and show's no regard for people's feelings and who constantly belittles people to feel better about themselves and try to defame people's characters. Pissing on someone that asks for that doesn't even come close not even by a mile on the traits i mentioned above. Money can't make one feel better about themselves but being loving and kind can, and also pissing on someone who enjoys that because it's the mind that thinks it's degrading. Love is the essence of creation in it's pure form and the more one strays away from that they are being unloving. Pissing on someone who wants that isn't unloving but being a menace to society is and the constant bullying and showing lack of respect, judging and criticizing is. Doesn't even come close in the relative sense.

Sorry but, the fact that I know there's no such thing as enlightenment means I'm not doing too bad. You don't even know me personally but you've drawn these conclusions. Shows how far you have to go. In fact, I treat people with respect, kindness and compassion even during work and those are traits that so-called enlightened people exude. If you think popping some psychedelics and having God realization and being mean to people on a forum and judging and criticizing every step of the way and every multiple forum members finding you a menace is enlightenment of moving closer to it than a sex worker who mostly shows the opposite traits and is not a forum bully then you have no idea what it is to be enlightened.

You cannot tell me why I've decided to do this kind of work. Some women could only dream of getting paid hundreds of dollars from one client for a half an hr just to talk. (not saying it's in all cases but it does happen)It's a lucrative business and pays well. Between sitting at a desk and working for someone getting paid average salary and making someone else rich, I'll choose what I do over that. Not saying those are the only choices but in this business it's possible to make tons of money doing the bare minimum and it has nothing to do with my self-esteem being low. It's when I realize the details of the work and what's possible is how I ended up staying in it. I could list here the amount of times I got paid good money for doing stuff that anybody else does for free and it didn't entail having intercourse. That's the only reason i'm in it because I wouldn't and couldn't if it were otherwise. No one has to believe me; but I've said time and time again I don't have intercourse doing what I do very very rarely, and as a matter of fact the girls that dont are the ones making more money except for porn stars. You have no idea what this business is like on the varied scale and having low self-esteem isn't a criteria for a woman who is willing to be of service in ways she finds reputable and doesn't destroy her character.

Emerald and I have different likes in this respect. I don't really care if the guy is more attractive than I am; and not to sound cocky, but I'm already a naturally beautiful woman so it's very rare that the case is where he's more attractive than I am; and if that were the case, I believe I wouldn't mind. Don't think I've ever ran into that situation, though. This is probably why, in my case, looks aren't that important and especially where they need to be more or less attractive looking. I carry that weight for both of us.

Adult work comes in various ways and depends on the character playing the role. Not all do the same things, and not all conduct themselves the same way. You are perceiving it too much on a general scale without knowing the details of what each character does and how they perform. Spiritual growth, for me and in my case, is not an impediment. To me and how I work would be complimentary to if I was dealing with regular people but the difference is I'm getting paid. I'm not on the streets neither am I on camera. It has varied throughout the years on the types of adult stuff I've engaged in; but I can assure you it hasn't been strenuous neither on my mind nor body because neither one is being overworked in the process. Maybe a tiny fraction but I encounter more stress in day-to-day life and with regular people and sign bfs than I do in my work and especially on this forum.

Believe it or not most working girls of all kinds are not like the character they play in their jobs. Thats why it can work for them. Imagine a real slutty woman in real life being a slut on camera and playing both roles for most of her entire life. Most women who are slutty on the streets or in real life could not play those parts because they would take it too personal and also, and you might not understand this, the guys would be able to sense it and not like her as much. Like I always say, people misjudge those in the adult industry, porn is a little bit different because it takes a little different mindset to do that but OF girls are not sleeping with their clients and a lot of working girls aren't having sex. So the misconception is huge. Look where I am in my spare time. I'm not out partying or galavanting and engaged in nonsense, I'm on a forum talking about spiritual stuff and reading books and making recipes. Most other working girls I know are just taking care of their kids and having family time. We are very misunderstood. Not to say anything bad about them but it's the clubbing girls, neighborhood girls and conservative women like nurses, librarians, secretaries etc who are really sleeping around. Of course not all, just saying. I can prove it to you. Go and see the types of people that go to swingers clubs, nude beaches and are online looking for hook up and casual sex. Do a survey and you'll see it's the girl next door type. When I'm not working I don't want to be bothered with that type stuff and most guys who patronize are way worse and are very sexually loose. Lots of people in the business world are very promiscuous and engage in lewd sexual activity. The working girl is mostly just doing a job and can turn that off when she gets home. So don't think OF girls are any different they just have a more open mind, see an opportunity to make money and do.

That's because people here who have a problem with her comment about liking less attractive men value looks themselves over character. She said nothing g about liking disresptful men or men with negative traits.

Three people in this thread alone and just today, and within the last 2hrs, I believe, have accused you of being unkind and you need reference? Have time?

Don't take it personally. People are who are are NOT WHAT THEY DO FOR A LIVING as he likes to suggests.

Not in a bad or serious way, but in conversations. Yesterday I had a long conversation with a friend about life in general and the topic turned into thoughts, which turned into good and bad, which turned into good and bad people, which was where the miscommunication started. I mentioned that people are acting from good intentions (a video of Leo's; and I also recognize this myself to be the case), and that we all are inherently good. He then said to me, "oh yeah, what about Hitler, Putin, Genghis Khan and other famous dictators". I said they were bad people acting from good intentions. Then I attempted to explain how but was met with repeated resistance. "How can the murder of millions of people be classified as a good intention?" He asked. I tried to explain their motivations and to look what happened to Iraq when the US invaded; and the country fell apart. He then said he knew people that were in the Iraq war and continued to give surface level reasonings as to why and how these people were bad people and why the country fell apart. I had to be continuously stating that I didn't condone the killing of these people nor am I saying they were good people; but there's an underlying element there as to why these people act the way they do and it's something they themselves aren't even aware of in respect to it coming from a good intention but merely from survival. He kept his argument going (respectfully) by stating how money, power and greed is the root of all this. I said to him his neighbor is probably greedy, loves power and money but would never be motivated to commit such heinous crimes; so, there must be another element there. He just couldn't understand what I was trying to say even when I said I would watch the video again so I could explain it better. I even offered to send him the video to watch for himself; but of course, who would believe a YT video with a bald-headed guy talking on a camera for 2hrs more than maybe say a serious documentary on CNN explaining this in detail. People are entrenched in paradigms and expect to get their information from a particular source that is more recognizable and has a more authoritative quality to it. I know, because I've also experienced this type of prejudice because I'm not a noted "professional". Anyway, the video in question wasn't sent as I figured it wasn't asked for, nor was there any enthusiasm to see it. I quickly turned the conversation around and started talking about something else that was more on common ground. I don't go around discussing Leo's videos on these similar types of topics like wars and survival and self-deception and survival much because the average person will probably not understand it unless they've had previous exposure to the existential nature of reality and some background on the mind and how mental the Universe is. I try to keep the conversations normal, which I don't mind, since I'm always studying by myself these kinds of topics. It's just that sometimes a regular conversation can turn into these things unexpectedly, but it's very rarely ever received and sometimes trying to explain makes one seem to be condoning wrong doing. Just thought i'd share. Thanks, Leo, for these types of videos because they make one understand better about human behaviour, even the people we come across that resist these explanations and to realize why even them cannot see pass their own paradigms and levels. It makes for less judgements and understandings on the person's part who is mature and wise enough to recognize where the ignorance stems.

You just need to go work on your need to having to always put people down when you speak. Sex worker and celebrate sexless marriage doesn't even come close to rudeness, disrespect, always criticizing and judging. A sex worker can be loving, kind and compassionate can't say the same about you.

Wow, you misinterpreted her. I understood, so I'll leave it at that.

yeah, I was asking if you had to choose as in the case of life or death - figuratively speaking. Not which one you'd be more attracted to personally. Personally, I'm not attracted to either one physically.

I hope you noticed I didn't pick either. I said if it was a matter of life and death that i choose one, i'd choose #1. That man isn't even ugly, he's just not as attractive as the other one

A man who looks physically like a man, quite masculine, but with an air of kindness, compassion and vulnerability in that he's willing to open up and not be afraid of how he will be perceived, That's the same as courage which I believe is a masculine trait but also has feminine qualities to it. Not someone who can't make decisions, who is whiny and needs for me to make him feel secure and who leans on me for important decision-making. He knows when to let go of his leadership role to allow and accommodate for my wishes, desires, and likings without being submissive but as a showing that he cares about how I feel. Things like that.

Lmao. Don't try. In fact, you just demonstrated an air of masculinity here. Perfect example of a man who would make a good husband. Lol

I agree with what she said because a lot of men who get along with women, it's not so much that they understand them but they just love the femininity she exudes and are willing to surrender to that and are willing to learn and understand her in the process - afterwards. They're not trying to change her, and will usually choose women of high calibre where they know they don't have to worry about surrendering their own masculinity and maintain an air of security and not feel emasculated or challenged.

Not just that, they've embraced their feminine side and are attracted to that in a woman. They're not fighting it and they're lovng that side of them in the women they chose to love. It's all psychological. That's why the more in tune one is with themselves and embrace all parts the easier it is to love others and others will find them easier to love as well.

How you go tell someone, especially like Emerald whose in this space and coaches people on relationships/sexuality, why she wouldn't choose what she wouldn't choose. I tell you, you guys are something else. Just the mere fact that you said what you said shows you're just projecting your beliefs and your ideas about women. You don't have a clue and I'm saying this based on the fact that you're telling an experienced woman about herself without even knowing her.