Princess Arabia

You think you're a person. You are God dreaming up a human character. You do exist but only as a dream. What exist must always exist, so why does the body die. You, Eric is not alone. I'm here talking to you, aren't I. But I'm not there where you are, I'm here. So it appears, anyway. But the real me is everywhere. But it's still God talking it itself. If you can get this idea out of your head that you are a person, a human, then it becomes easier to understand. You're just God appearing as a human. Stop thinking of God as being human. It's no-thing, but everything simultaneously. You don't have awareness; you ARE Awareness.

Here comes another Solipsism marathon. Solipsism isn't referring to you as the human, it's referring to God being all alone. You are God. God is One. That's it, it's so simple. Now, the other stuff you're talking about is where the complications arise, like why do we suffer. If you had all the $$ in the world, all the riches and material things to rely on as distractions and was living a comfortable lifestyle, and wanted for nothing, would you go seeking for anything....in this case, yourself? No, even though you'll still suffer because worldly things won't satisfy you, but it'll be a different kind of suffering and you'd probably just deal with your loneliness and have lots of paid for distractions like cars and women and houses and businesses etc. God would never awaken if it left itself comfortable and would probably be lost in its dream forever. It's still just a play, though, as the Godhead doesn't really suffer. It's it's dream characters that do and it's all imaginary. But you can't say that to people as they'll say how dare you call my suffering imaginary. God split itself off into pieces, so could you imagine chopping your hands of into pieces, wouldn't that hurt and be traumatizing. That's the mental pain and suffering that people feel. It stems from mental separation and trying to become whole again. It's fucking painful and feels real when going through it. Anyway, that's my take. I'm sure the others I created and that are a part of me will have a different view on things because the pieces of my mental body are all shattered everywhere and every piece is seeing things from different angles as in a shattered vase. Every one of those pieces are different and will suffer because of the pain of the smash. I'm bleeding everywhere. Oh my! Thats why I have to put it all back together eventually and die to that stupid dream so I don't have to suffer for eternity. Imagine that. See, your name is even a friggin' clue God left for itself. The clues are everywhere, you just gotta spot them through all that pain and trauma. Part of the sick, silly game that God is playing with itself. More breadcrumbs please! Oh, BTW, do you go to the movies and watch all lovey dicey shit all the time or do you go get your adrenaline rush with shoot 'em ups and gangsters and robbers and villains and murderers and thirds. Well, why would God be any different. It's you as God watching all this crazy stuff and complaining about it asking why doesn't God create lovey dovey shit and comforts and riches and pleasures. Nothing is happening here, it's just energetic patterns forming and looking like real shit. There's no you. It only appears that way. It's all God playing with itself.

What do you expect from young drunk girls. Touchy feely and all that on alcohol is usually the alcohol that's doing the touchy feely. Next day will be a different story. Don't expect too much rational behavior from drunk people. I never give my number out without calling theirs right away, if possible. If someone is using your phone to put their number in, especially in cases like this, always try to call the number back right away in their presence. That will solve the fake number mystery. Maybe try going out a little earlier, even if it's at night when most of them aren't as drunk. You need to be careful with young drunk girls for obvious reasons.

May I ask what did I actually say that you are disagreeing with. I'm not sure.

If I come across as.a take it or leave it in a bad type of way, that wasn't my intention. That just goes to show the power of perception. Saying I'm not here to convince anyone of anything and to do whatever with the information I post was interpreted by you. Yes, it could mean take it or leave it but not in a malicious way or defensive way. You took it as that. I'm thinking I'm being considerate, understanding and showing lack of imposing on one's beliefs by saying what I said and it was interpreted in a way differently than how it was intended. If you trad those words and interpreted it for just the words sake, you would have seen through the meaning clearly. The stories and interpretations and meaning to what we give and put on our experiences says a lot on how we perceive those experiences. Saying I was being defensive, was just your interpretation, not my intention.

Did you at least watch the video. There are plenty of misleading information out there that will mis guide and mislead you about this topic. Just the fact that you say you FEEL hopeless and desperate is an example of not understanding what those feelings can create. I'm not here to convince anyone of anything and you do whatever with the information and videos I post. But getting a deeper understanding of how this works will open up channels to show and reveal to you how this is happening and how we are manifesting all day everyday without being aware of it, until you start to watch your thought patterns and see the correlation on both ends of the spectrum.

Dropping the need for understanding is the flip side of dropping the need for explanations. Can't have one without the other.

What does Meh mean?

Lol. You go playboy. You got game. No wonder you're always breaking up. Just kidding! But the lint part we can spot a mile away.

Ok..i understand your point from your perspective. Makes sense? What does. My mind doesn't on it's own so making sense is only relative at this point. My mom and dad having sex and me popping out from an embryo and my typing this explanation as to how I got here doesn't make sense. So there. But seriously, I respect your POV.

Yes, Ma'am.

Why is there any blame to begin with. You said "the blame rests in the whole of the design". And I'm not even sure what you're opposing at this point.

God is bored that's why it created this. Now it's back to boredom again so it creates questions like these. Then it solves that problem and goes back to being bored again and create more questions and more problems and more questions and more problems and more questions and more problems to Infinity until it wakes up and realizes that it created boredom to begin with then it tries to find a way to destroy it's creation, then it realizes it IS it's creation. That's when it surrenders and just starts to bask in it's own boredom. Hope that answer wasn't too boring. Welcome to the Forum. Hope you find it exciting.

I notice even when I get in the dating section of the forum and make certain suggestions or comments, I'll hear the, "you don't understand men" line or they fight me to the end. Duh! You're only fighting your existing stance that got you in the position you're in in the first place. I can understand the saying, "you don't know what it FEELS like" on a higher scale, because I can say the same thing in regards to how it's hard for a man to feel like a woman; but saying you don't understand men is completely hogwash when that's who I've been dealing with on an intimate level all my life.

Your silly rule of thumb. There are no rules when it comes to dating. Guidelines, suggestions and appropriateness, yes but no rules.

You're attached to outcomes. It's not that complicated. The mind is what's complicating things. You cannot use the same mind to solve the same problems the mind created. You have to use the meta mind. Go above and beyond what the mind is saying. See it as chitter chatter and use it for what it was designed for. That's how powerful the mind is. It can lead us into a life of living hell, if we let it. I see this time and time again, even within myself. Geesh, it is determined to keep me safe. Even when I don't ask. I fall prey too. But I recognize this and that's when it's power starts to weaken. It's a hell of a journey but well worth seeing it for what it is. I see it more in other people more than myself because it's like I'm their meta mind. Looking. Observing. The key is to start observing your own mind from a distance and try to recognize it's hold on you.

I ask men about men. Not necessarily for advice, but just to see how they think. My experiences are my teachers. You guys are demonizing the same tool that can help to "fix" things. You run from what you fear and what you fear can potentially turn around and bite you in the ass. Who else are you gonna learn raw truth about women from? Hurt men? Angry men? Spiteful Men? Womanizers? Unless they have a good rapport with most women or Professionals who study this field, run. Go meet your prey head on. P.S. Those traits I mentioned above are not what I'm saying all men have, but it would be hard to detect just from appearances without knowing their history.

I don't think he was suggesting that.

They try, poor things. My mind's playing tricks on me. Know that song?

Not realizing you are still taking advice from women by doing the opposite of what they say. Kind of like not making a decision is still making a decision. The irony. Boy, you guys surely think you're in charge. You just made a passive decision-making statement without even realizing it. Umph!

He would be fucking them saying "you narcissistic bitch, I got you now, come to daddy, you fucking egotistical brute of a woman, how dare you treat men that way...ohh..ohh.oohh busted. Thank you for that release you fucking hot bitch".

Physical illusory separation, yes. Mentally no. When we get over ourselves and recognize our true nature as God then there is no separation. This is a mental Universe with things appearing, seeming physical. That's the illusion. That's the magicians trick. Yes, it's for a reason and not at the same time. The seeming, appearing separation is no accident, you're right about that but neither is your delusion. It's the only way for there to be a recognition of the Self. How can you recognize something if there's no comparison. Notice how nobody gets out of this alive, so-to-speak. Reflect on that deeply.

I can sit here and write a post about all the things I find upsetting about this and about that. What is the point in that, if not only to perpetrate more of that in my life. Why focus on those those things. Why upset myself. Why put myself in that mood. Not to say I don't sometimes, and I do, but I try not to live in that mental state. Visit once in a while but move on. He's unaware of how he can recontextualize those perceptions he has and will no longer see what he's seeing. He's being more affected by his hate than the people he is hating. So much so that he felt the need to have to write a post about it while those so-called pretty women are probably out there not giving a shit about how he feels. HE HAS GIVEN HIS POWER AWAY TO THEM. He has made them his master and now he's a slave to his hatred thoughts, and bragging about his victim mentality. All done unconsciously.

The male experience of life is no different on a general scale than a woman's experience. Yes, certain traits and characteristics vary but it doesn't take a male experience, as a female, to know what rejection is and how it feels when you take it personally. I wish you guys would stop saying to women about everything you experience that we don't get the male experience. Getting something and feeling something are two separate things. I deal with more men than you do, on this scale and vice versa. So I do have some relevant perspectives pertaining to how men see and view things. Why wouldn't I. It's a numbers game we're talking about here so obviously more men will feel rejected because more men are doing the approaching. If you never approached a woman in your life, you would never feel rejected in that way. Are you going to get upset then, no so why get upset in the first place when it's not about you. It's only a feeling at play here. No one told you how to feel.