Princess Arabia

I agree. I'm always around smart/dumb people, who are always telling me how smart I am because they're too dumb to realize that I'ts not that I'm smart, its because they're too dumb to realize that I'm not that smart. If that makes any sense. See, I told you I'm not that smart, but then again, you're smart enough to realize that. Don't mind me, I'm smart/dumb.

Do you realize this is a female here. Considering her situation, what is she going to do in a massage parlor or with an escort. Not saying women never go to these services, but it's very rare and these services cater to mostly men and are dominated by female workers. Most men in this industry cater to other men or older women (gigolos). She didn't even know what the heck you were talking about.

Men don't want to commit because of the " why buy the milk when you can get it for free attitude". When I say that, It don't necessarily mean literally $$. That can also be investing, time, energy and/or resources. A lot of women are giving themselves freely to men without them earning it (which, BTW, men subconsciously or consciously prefer in a woman, but they don't tell you that). They will respect and prefer to be in a long-term relationship with someone they have invested in. That is their main reason to want to commit. The pick-up community is mostly for guys who just want to get laid, which may or may not turn into a monogamous relationship that lasts for awhile or even marriage but that is rare. @mr_engineer is giving you great advice, but please ignore @Chives99because he seems to think you're a dude whom the advice he's giving would be more suitable for. You said being a man doesn't depend on whether you are exclusive or not because they have a need to protect and will protect because thats how they are. Yes, but with the right girl. Being a gentleman and being protective are two different things to a man and also, to him, being protective also means providing, and he won't do that just for any girl. A gentleman, yes but not an overall protector/provider if he's not exclusive unless he's just paying for something out front with no strings attached. If you need a lending ear and would like to talk it out with another female who won't take you personally and judge you, you can always dm me and I'd be more than happy to listen and ( not so much give advice) but just to talk with because sometimes that can help in situations like this where just a listening ear eases the emotional pain.

See, already you're assuming my reason for watching her (which, btw, I haven't watched in like a yr or so). YT recommends channels, thats how she got on my feed, and I was curious and continued because she had alot of overall Spiritual info I related to back then but I wasn't seeking a partner, nor am I now, because I don't seek partners I attract them. I don't need the best deal for a partner, I have to become the "best deal" for a partner as you so put it. Expand your horizons you might learn something to up your game. Don't assume you know the type of woman I am because I recommended a certain channel to you that I think you could benefit from to see why women like successful men and not feel resentment for it. Has nothing to do with me and my current dating situation. I listen to men to learn about men, to see how they think, view and their likes and dislikes. Men listen to other men's advice about dating women, and unless it's coming from a mature-minded, non-biased, non-toxic masculine energy pov, it will be skewed. This is why the incel community is so widespread these days it's because of channels like hers and others waking women up to men's games and teaching them how to lay off the "dusties'' and broke men and go for the real deal to save the time and aggravation of useless dating. The incel community didn't evolve out of nowhere. It is an effect resulting from a cause. So when I try to educate you on your own strategy to up your game and you didn't even give it a shot because it wasn't a magic pill, it was your loss and the "hot women" that you seek gain. Her channel isn't necessary but what might help is for you to understand why it is the way it is because resentment only breeds more resentment no matter what the strategy. Don't just dismiss me because I'm a female and you assume you know my dating style and what I look for in a partner. Knowing how not to be is more important than what to do. Life is more about being and becoming. So becoming what you want to attract leads better results. You taught me something and that is not to dismiss something because of my own biases and assumptions, but to gather all the information I can gather, then make my own decision despite what SD stage its coming from because thats just a model and it can vary from stage to stage.

Few seconds? Is that how long it takes you to do pick-up? Probably not. She's definitely not SD Orange. I've watched her for awhile and I'm familiar with the stages. You went in with a bias and came out with a bias. You're right, tho, her view is not your own and neither will be half of the women you'll try to date. So might as well learn the game from the other end. Most men, not boys, who are successful with women understands this dynamic and then turn around and get judged and hated by the ones who don't understand it or wants to go about dating their way which is only coming from an unconscious programming. It's not about looking at things differently in this case, it's about the science and behavioral patterns of both sexes when it comes to dating which she has studied in depth and has coached many of successful business women into successfully attaining life-long partners and has a multi-million dollar coaching service. But you're right, tho, from a stance of just wanting to get laid and feeling entitled to it for no reason that channel is not for you.

This is not an SD Orange issue, its an Evolutionary Psychology issue. I suggest you go to the YT channel "The Universe Guru" if you would like to understand why most women of decent caliber prefer these types of men from a female perspective. The Psychology behind it. She comes at it from a Spiritual level and is highly respected in her community. Her older videos will be more about this topic but her whole channel is about teaching young and not so young women how to date high status men and the reasons why it makes for better companionship, long-lasting, fulfilling relationships on both sides. It takes a certain type of understanding to appreciate the dynamics of how and why this type of relationship dynamic is both healthier and more fulfilling on both sides. Some men don't understand this is what they really crave in a relationship and some women don't feel good enough about themselves to develop the ability to receive this type of treatment from a man, so an imbalance occurs in the relationship dynamic which can lead to all sorts of problems down the road.

Where's the Meme. C'mon you're getting lazy ?

Leo does have a video entitled "What Is Truth" if you want to check it out.

Lol

Not everybody here is looking for Salvation or depending on Leo for anything. Some just finds his videos interesting, informative and educational. Some even love to see his big ass forehead on camera like myself. There are no others.

Ok. Interesting POV. Never looked at healthy fear that way when it came to man/woman relationships. I understand that healthy fear can be a good thing when it comes to circumstances regarding life threatening situations like a moving train or a burning building or a hot stove etc. but never in an intimate relationship. Respect, yes but not fear, healthy or not. I have to evaluate my interpretation of what healthy fear in a relationship feels like to see if I agree with you on this or not because I might be missing something, but I respect your POV on this.

Why do you think fearing a guy is a good sign? You think nervousness = respect....i don't think so.

This is not the norm. Obviously I have not witnessed every experience there is to witness, but I have never done this, none of my gfs have ever done this, nobody I've known in my life has ever told me they've done this, I've dated a few cops in my life and none has ever told me this has ever happened. You are not telling the whole story. Even if you look like Jack the ripper just saying hi to a female isn't going to make her threaten to call the cops. Please be more specific, if you would like proper advice. This is silly.

It's about working smarter not harder. Then, what the heck do I know; I'm still trying to figure this shit out.

Dang, this guy started his YT channel a day ago and got 5k subs already and 300k+views on this video alone. People are really starting to believe these alien stories. The cop said, next time you see them don't call us, take care of it yourself. Like, seriously, I wouldn't even be thinking 'bout calling the cops cause i'll be in another state calling Jesus and the Righteous Brothers, not to mention Julio?

That's why i said it's all mental. Appreciating a guy's handsomeness is not a homosexual tendency if you don't become sexually aroused. You can appreciate a cute baby, doesn't mean you're sexually attracted to babies. I look at beautiful women all the time, doesn't mean I get turned on by them sexually. Don't get these terms confused. Also, that same porn star you're attracted to onscreen would probably not get you as excited after awhile if she was your real life gf because now it's a different kind of mental dynamic.

I have to deal with men sexually, you don't.

Well, thats half the world's population. So I guess you're a relative genius.? This the guy that once interviewed Leo on his channel. I wonder if he still has that interview up. It was a great interview. Kurt.

So I guess you're not the genius I made you out to be if I'm comparing you to yourself.

The word God is just that, a word. A reference point. I personally prefer the word Source or Source Energy. There are many words for the same thing. Don't get caught up on the word. And thanks for clarifying. The word Spirituality is also a word used as a pointer. Yeah, but sometimes knowing the truth of whats happening here can eliminate a lot of bs and delusion and bring about more clarity to chose and set intentions more wisely. I bet you if a woman whom you dated wore really beautifully crafted make-up which gave off the illusion of what you thought she authentically looked like and you woke up next to her with no make up looking like a zombie out of a walking dead movie you wouldn't like that too much...or if she looked like a woman when she was actually a dude. Sometimes paying the bills become a lot easier if you understand how Reality works

I mentioned Leo's teachings because I'm on his forum commenting. If I was making the same comment on another forum, Leo's name wouldn't have even come up. You didn't mention me in your comment but I'm assuming you're referring to me, and maybe others, since I used the word God and whatever else you referred to and your comment is made after mine. If you weren't referring to me, then disregard this post; but if you were, then I must say there is no obvious fact here about integrating his teachings so much that we think we have realized anything. What do you mean by "self honesty" in this context and for what progress. Noone said Leo was right in everything I just stated I saw the Solipsism video and heard others mention their view on it. Anyway, before I say anymore, you might not have been referring to me so I will leave it at that. But just remember what I said in the initial post about being open to everything and attached to nothing.

@justfortoday, thank you for this. It was very interesting to read. My stance on life is mostly to be open to everything and be attached to nothing. Still working on that. I've seen Leo's video on Solipsism and heard people talk about it and have contemplated it a bit for myself. This is what I came to understand intellectually, as I have not done any psychedelics or have had any direct experiences with this, and that is: Reality is one...God is all there is...you/we are God.....there is only one consciousness experiencing different perspectives...God is dreaming Reality and the Ego is just a construct, a concept, stories, an idea in Gods mind...so, if all that is true, doesn't that mean there is only one BEING in existence, hence Solipsism? When I'm going about my daily life and trying to survive as a human being, I see myself as a separate being and there are others around me doing the same thing, doing normal human activities and experiencing life through their own lenses...in other words, through the ego. But there are times when I cannot find myself, cannot locate the person inside of me that I think exists. This part is hard to explain using words, but ill try, times I will sit and just stare trying to locate where this self is and just cannot find it. This only happens when I consciously try to do this. Any other time I just go about my day as if I'm a separate person. When I really take a moment and sit to contemplate my being, I see it as (and this isn't literal, it's just how I can explain it) I see myself as the empty space around me that is observing me and the contents of my surroundings. Like a room with furniture. My body is the furniture but the real me is the space that's holding the furniture. No matter how much furniture is in that room/space the space remains the same. Remove the furniture and the space remains the same. I see myself as that space. Untouchable and unchangeable. But this only comes to my awareness when I'm really observing/contemplating my nature/existence/self. It goes away then I'm back to being the self and doing mundane activities. What I'm saying is I see myself as the space from which everything appears and that space is limitless...boundless...infinite...no-thing and everything simultaneously. That endless space of no-thing is the one Being and it is all alone projecting its awareness unto itself. Isn't that the same as Solipsism. You yourself said that there is nothing outside and that all is mental. So, therefore, you and everything and everybody else is only a projection of my mind, hence Solipsism. We all "die" and none of us gets out of this alive because there is no us and only the one Being, which is all of us but only as a thought. I said a lot here and sometimes language gets in the way but I tried my best to explain my understanding of Solipsism and would really like to hear your perspective on what I said. I can see the no face because I only see a reflection in the mirror and cannot sense a face when I really try to and a lot of the other stuff you said really resonated.

Ok, so I read this whole thread up to this point ( the time I'm making this post). You said "when I was like 18yrs old, I swear I got hard just by the "THOUGHT" of sex. I highlighted the word "thought". What do you think that is . MENTAL. "I must find a really "AROUSING" porn movie to get an erection". Again, arousal starts with the mind. What arouses you might be different from what arouses someone else. Its relative to your mind. " I like soft, lovely, cute voice...huge turn on". Again, MENTAL. You cannot grab someone's voice or see it physically, you are using your sense of hearing. MENTAL. "As human beings we're innate to using our senses". Boom!! There's the Climax. Almost everything you stated in your responses to @integral was showing how sexual attraction starts from the mental. ALL IS MENTAL. Hope you can see the correlation from what I'm saying with regards to the physical and mental. All that said, what @integral is saying I can understand. He has integrated his physical sexual attraction and mental attraction more holistically and it is coming from a more sustainable level. The physical doesn't excite him as much as the mental because the physical is second order(so-to-speak). His attraction is more long lasting and he'll be more able to sustain a longer-lasting relationship with a partner. This is why you need a higher dose of porn to get excited and sex with your gf is not as exciting as watching porn. You're young but you have to be careful of all that porn because it will desensitize you and can be the cause of porn addiction and unrelatable real life intimate sexual encounters. A lot of older men when they get to a certain age need viagra or become impotent because of this dynamic. He's not saying he doesn't get excited by a woman's features, I believe he's saying he gets more excited by the inner first which in-turn extends to the outer. That usually comes from maturity. If he maintains this dichotomy, his sex life will be more sustainable, long-lasting, more enjoyable and without the need for outside stimuli. P.S. Liking a cute, sexy, soft voice has nothing to do with pedophilia. So don't worry about that. Our sexual likes and dislikes all stem from something in the brain and different for everyone to an extent. I know some straight men who like women with deep crusty voices. Doesn't mean they like men. We're all different and unique but our likes and dislikes, for the most part, stems from the subconscious and we're not even aware of the reasons why we're attracted to or repelled from things unless we become consciously aware of what our minds are doing.

This would be interesting. I think it would get a lot of views.

With Leo it's not so much about quantity but quality. His base is not so much into reels, tiktok and insta. Instagram for more of his personal life. This work is more for a lifetime not a fad or quick flix for boredom. All that is just extra cream on top.