Princess Arabia

Everything happens through body/mind/soul levels. Sex is no exception. How people see and treat it is through their own unique individual perceptions. Everything is "spiritual". Nothing can happen without spirit's flow. It's humans that separate that. That's why I cannot separate the two. I have mentally rejoined my connection. It was never disconnected but the mind made it so. The only reason we don't feel contentment in everything thing we do is because of that imaginary separation.

IQ is misleading when you don't know what it measures. EQ is more important for everyday life. I know lawyers, doctors and highly educated people who don't have a clue about life, they only know their field. Studying can have that effect. That's why studying a thing can backfire. Observing something can be more efficient. That's why I'm so smart, I never study, I observe and take mental notes. 😜😜😜Yeah right, smart people don't know they're smart; dumb people don't know they're dumb. Intellectuals and intelligent people know they're intellectual and intelligent. Now, that's coming from EQ. SQ is spiritual intelligence, of which I have no clue.

Looks like most stuff Leo talked about in his videos. His channel, btw, does look pretty interesting with interesting topics. Will check it out.

Lol. Javfly's video is just his stance on things. Learn to trust your own, minus all the mind's judgements and what you see on social media. I don't think his is a healthy approach. It sounds good and all to the naked ears, but there are circumstances and experiences that call for different approaches. Can't just label everything into a box and say this is how it should be done in the dating and relationship category. Certain things are sometimes standard, yes, but that's where discernment and common sense comes in. You don't need to be told how to see a woman. That comes automatically by the seer. Sounds good to say don't treat her like an object, but what does that even mean. Of course she's already a person, why do we need to see people how they already are, that's redundant. So you see, it all sounds good and all, but the human psyche is very complex and a lot of things are in relation to and depends. It's not really complicated, what's complicated is after all the initial stages have been accomplished and the quest to keep it going starts.

Thanks for sharing.

We can't just assume that what happens to us is the case for everyone. Yes, we're all selfish but there are degrees to selfishness and people in different states will project that differently. So, what you're saying is all the people who are successful and who are genuinely doing good in the world and giving back are all corrupted. Wealth and success only magnifies who you already were internally. People project their own behaviors unto others thinking people are just like them. That's just narcissism.

How else are you going to get a woman. Hide it if its your neighbors wife, or the 13 yr old up the street or the woman locked arm in arm with her bf, or your aunt, why are you hiding it if its a regular woman you see. You just need to know how to express that attraction. Saying hi, is a start. Asking her name is another. Not, I desire you what do you think about that. I feel like these things are standard behavior, not sure why there's even a discussion about it to grown people. You see, you like, you say hi if its appropriate.

No, I'm not saying that. Women don't go around just wanting some strange man to desire them.

I think javflys video confused you even more. Plus you're asking general questions. Find attractive who you already know, or just met. All of this all depends on the circumstance. If you're attracted to the female walking down the street, say hi and see how she responds, strike up a convo and see where it goes. I mean thats normal stuff. I think where all this confusion lies is that most men just think women are going around just wanting to feel desired by any man. They think we're doing stuff like make up, hair, certain clothes, etc for them all the time and it's their duty to acknowledge that. No, we're women that's what women do.

Where is this coming from, What are you referring to. I'm not even sure how to respond to this. You can desire whomever you want to desire. No one is stopping you from desiring. Unwanted? Unwanted by whom, a stranger? A burden for who, a stranger? Is that what you're saying? Or are you saying women that you don't know but desire should want you to desire them. I'm not sure what you're saying. The only way a woman will know that someone desires her is if he either tells her or shows her. Would you go do that with some strange woman? Because that's probably where the unwanted and burden would come in.

There's nothing to buy, women have it easy and always have a partner whenever they want one. I guess those partners are women. I just can't. Bye.

I have different sleeping hours depending on the day i'm having, if I've been out, home working etc. One thing stable is the hours which is usually 6-8hrs straight, depending on the time I fell asleep. If it's 4a.m usually I sleep for 6-7hrs, 2a.m and earlier full 8hrs, after 7a.m, sometimes 5 - 7hrs. My body can adjust easily as it's adjusting to sporadic sleeping times so it's already used to that. If I put a movie in on low speaker as I'm going to bed, I usually fall asleep faster. I notice if nothing is on, it takes a little longer. Doesn't matter if I'm on the computer all day or night. I can still sleep. Throughout the years the only thing I've noticed that would make me toss and turn for a little bit is if I've had some soda or had a beer. Doesn't last long, but I never fidget in sleep, so I'll always look back and saw either one was involved. Don't do either often so that's good. Sleep has never been a problem for me and i never focus on anything sleep related. Tracking sleep, avoiding anything except what I mention above, prepare for anything, worry about not sleeping, read about sleep problems etcetc. I think if I started focusing on sleep or making sure I don't develop sleeping problems and tracking and all that, that's when the problems will arise because that's where my focus is. It's like I don't notice my hand is there until I bump it or it hurts.

Can't get any simpler than that. Only thing is for the sleep cycle to be completed usually 7-8hrs is needed depending on age. I guess he needs ways to sleep for 7-8hrs so the body doesn't wake up in 5.

This is a trap. A mind trap. Life is duality. Positive and negative. Both are needed for balance. All the negative things we call negative also has positivity in them and the positive also has negativity. It's the mind that distinguishes negative from positive. The Universe cannot operate without both which collapses both into one. Focusing on the positive alone will bring about imbalance. It's also saying the negatives aren't needed. The mind is still being focused on the negatives by putting it's attention on the positive because it's saying the negative still exists. It wouldn't need to focus on any either way if it didn't have the comparison, the judgements and the criticisms and comparisons of itself. The answer is to let life be. Allow for the negatives and the positives and observe them without judgement. Leave the mind out of it with it's ruminations. It will happen, of course but just take it back inside awareness. Keep taking it back and taking it back and taking it back. How? By noticing who is aware of the mind acting up. By going inside out on not outside in but trying to focus on within. That's the only place where focus is needed except in practical circumstances and everyday life. We are all focussed on the outside world and ignoring our true nature. Blah, blah, you might say; but the mind will never win; it will always be defeated when it tries to fight. Truth can not be conquered and will always win. You are truth and there is no other.

No, I said human alone. You want to be happy 100% of the time with a disturbed, neurotic and delusional mind? Most people's minds are like that, so I'm not singling you out, it's the energetic nature of the individual that thinks it's separate and cannot be any other way) Good luck with that. It's the mind that wants to be happy. What's beyond the mind is already at peace. Can't solve a dilemma with the same consciousness that created it, Step out of the mind to recognize peace, the peace that is always there. That space where all thoughts arises from is peaceful and doesn't care about the minds quest for peace. It will never obtain peace because it's not in it's nature where all it can see is the past and the future. There is no peace dwelling there, peace is now and forever present before you threw the pebble in the waters to stir it up looking for peace.

Ok. I'll go get some.🫠

Nothing needs to be evened out. The Universe is a self-correcting code and imbalances is sometimes balance. I don't pay attention to statistics in this regard because who will know if I'm dating the man up the street. I didn't do a survey to up the figures and neither did plenty of couples.

Very well put and a more mature way of seeing things. Usually, it's guys with these types of thinking that are doing well with women. Not the type that searches social media to see what others are doing in this respect or following the pill ideologies or are stuck in their limited beliefs and thinking complaining will solve their dilemmas.

If I understand correctly, there are more women than men globally. Say, there are 1000, women and 800 men. Out of that 1000 women, 800 are in relationships that leaves 800 men all of which are taken. Do the math using different figures keeping in mind there are more women than men. You are stuck in a paradigm lock and are going off of statistics that may be false. All of this is also irrelevant in Infinity, and it all is about you and your attention and focus and where you put your light of awareness. That's why it's relevant to incorporate spirituality into our daily lives and not get sucked into the world of illusion. You're a victim to your circumstances and complaining only brings more shit to complain about because that's how reality works. It's all about frequency and vibrations and how we think, respond, believe and feel.

I guess I acquired the taste. Cream and sugar in it tastes yucky to me. Almond milk or coconut oil maybe sometimes if I'm home and buy those freeze-dried ones from Columbia. It's been awhile I've taken my coffee black with nothing in it, so it's normal for me. I love the smell and the taste.

Yum, sounds delicious. Coconut rum.

You're a control freak, that's why. Have you ever been attracted to a female. Did you know her then? Yet you pursued with the endeavor to get to know her. Why can't you approach life the same way. You are riddled with fear and it's controlling you and ruining your experience of life. I don't need to know you to know this. Your words says it all.

If you had a girlfriend that was robotic, predictable and does the same shit everyday with no change in sight, you'd wish for her to be like life. Spontaneity, fun, mysterious and unpredictable are great traits to have in life yet you bitch to the Universe that it's a mystery. The same traits you find attractive in someone, are the same traits you dislike about the world. Think about it and be honest.

Yes, there is a s suffering, and it can feel like hell sometimes; but what about the good times. Plenty of people are experiencing more heavenly times than hell all over the world and vice versa. This is duality. Stop seeing yourself as a human only and stop living in your head and trying to control things and the pain will lessen. My mom passed and I cried like hell, and sometimes I still do, but I'm not suffering over it because it's a choice and a matter of thoughts. You seeing the world how you would like it to be to suit your needs and not how it is. None of us are seeing it as it is but at least some of us aren't having temper tantrums with it and being mature about how they view their experiences. The Universe doesn't give us more than we can handle, it's the mind that gets in the way and wants to be the boss.

Plus that hot girl is only hot till he sleeps with her then unto the next.