Princess Arabia

I have different sleeping hours depending on the day i'm having, if I've been out, home working etc. One thing stable is the hours which is usually 6-8hrs straight, depending on the time I fell asleep. If it's 4a.m usually I sleep for 6-7hrs, 2a.m and earlier full 8hrs, after 7a.m, sometimes 5 - 7hrs. My body can adjust easily as it's adjusting to sporadic sleeping times so it's already used to that. If I put a movie in on low speaker as I'm going to bed, I usually fall asleep faster. I notice if nothing is on, it takes a little longer. Doesn't matter if I'm on the computer all day or night. I can still sleep. Throughout the years the only thing I've noticed that would make me toss and turn for a little bit is if I've had some soda or had a beer. Doesn't last long, but I never fidget in sleep, so I'll always look back and saw either one was involved. Don't do either often so that's good. Sleep has never been a problem for me and i never focus on anything sleep related. Tracking sleep, avoiding anything except what I mention above, prepare for anything, worry about not sleeping, read about sleep problems etcetc. I think if I started focusing on sleep or making sure I don't develop sleeping problems and tracking and all that, that's when the problems will arise because that's where my focus is. It's like I don't notice my hand is there until I bump it or it hurts.

Can't get any simpler than that. Only thing is for the sleep cycle to be completed usually 7-8hrs is needed depending on age. I guess he needs ways to sleep for 7-8hrs so the body doesn't wake up in 5.

This is a trap. A mind trap. Life is duality. Positive and negative. Both are needed for balance. All the negative things we call negative also has positivity in them and the positive also has negativity. It's the mind that distinguishes negative from positive. The Universe cannot operate without both which collapses both into one. Focusing on the positive alone will bring about imbalance. It's also saying the negatives aren't needed. The mind is still being focused on the negatives by putting it's attention on the positive because it's saying the negative still exists. It wouldn't need to focus on any either way if it didn't have the comparison, the judgements and the criticisms and comparisons of itself. The answer is to let life be. Allow for the negatives and the positives and observe them without judgement. Leave the mind out of it with it's ruminations. It will happen, of course but just take it back inside awareness. Keep taking it back and taking it back and taking it back. How? By noticing who is aware of the mind acting up. By going inside out on not outside in but trying to focus on within. That's the only place where focus is needed except in practical circumstances and everyday life. We are all focussed on the outside world and ignoring our true nature. Blah, blah, you might say; but the mind will never win; it will always be defeated when it tries to fight. Truth can not be conquered and will always win. You are truth and there is no other.

No, I said human alone. You want to be happy 100% of the time with a disturbed, neurotic and delusional mind? Most people's minds are like that, so I'm not singling you out, it's the energetic nature of the individual that thinks it's separate and cannot be any other way) Good luck with that. It's the mind that wants to be happy. What's beyond the mind is already at peace. Can't solve a dilemma with the same consciousness that created it, Step out of the mind to recognize peace, the peace that is always there. That space where all thoughts arises from is peaceful and doesn't care about the minds quest for peace. It will never obtain peace because it's not in it's nature where all it can see is the past and the future. There is no peace dwelling there, peace is now and forever present before you threw the pebble in the waters to stir it up looking for peace.

Ok. I'll go get some.🫠

Nothing needs to be evened out. The Universe is a self-correcting code and imbalances is sometimes balance. I don't pay attention to statistics in this regard because who will know if I'm dating the man up the street. I didn't do a survey to up the figures and neither did plenty of couples.

Very well put and a more mature way of seeing things. Usually, it's guys with these types of thinking that are doing well with women. Not the type that searches social media to see what others are doing in this respect or following the pill ideologies or are stuck in their limited beliefs and thinking complaining will solve their dilemmas.

If I understand correctly, there are more women than men globally. Say, there are 1000, women and 800 men. Out of that 1000 women, 800 are in relationships that leaves 800 men all of which are taken. Do the math using different figures keeping in mind there are more women than men. You are stuck in a paradigm lock and are going off of statistics that may be false. All of this is also irrelevant in Infinity, and it all is about you and your attention and focus and where you put your light of awareness. That's why it's relevant to incorporate spirituality into our daily lives and not get sucked into the world of illusion. You're a victim to your circumstances and complaining only brings more shit to complain about because that's how reality works. It's all about frequency and vibrations and how we think, respond, believe and feel.

I guess I acquired the taste. Cream and sugar in it tastes yucky to me. Almond milk or coconut oil maybe sometimes if I'm home and buy those freeze-dried ones from Columbia. It's been awhile I've taken my coffee black with nothing in it, so it's normal for me. I love the smell and the taste.

Yum, sounds delicious. Coconut rum.

You're a control freak, that's why. Have you ever been attracted to a female. Did you know her then? Yet you pursued with the endeavor to get to know her. Why can't you approach life the same way. You are riddled with fear and it's controlling you and ruining your experience of life. I don't need to know you to know this. Your words says it all.

If you had a girlfriend that was robotic, predictable and does the same shit everyday with no change in sight, you'd wish for her to be like life. Spontaneity, fun, mysterious and unpredictable are great traits to have in life yet you bitch to the Universe that it's a mystery. The same traits you find attractive in someone, are the same traits you dislike about the world. Think about it and be honest.

Yes, there is a s suffering, and it can feel like hell sometimes; but what about the good times. Plenty of people are experiencing more heavenly times than hell all over the world and vice versa. This is duality. Stop seeing yourself as a human only and stop living in your head and trying to control things and the pain will lessen. My mom passed and I cried like hell, and sometimes I still do, but I'm not suffering over it because it's a choice and a matter of thoughts. You seeing the world how you would like it to be to suit your needs and not how it is. None of us are seeing it as it is but at least some of us aren't having temper tantrums with it and being mature about how they view their experiences. The Universe doesn't give us more than we can handle, it's the mind that gets in the way and wants to be the boss.

Plus that hot girl is only hot till he sleeps with her then unto the next.

Ok. Don't be surprised that your hot witch wannabe girlfriend isn't hot to your buddy. Don't scream down his throat to look at her ass or big boobs. He might like muscles. Lol

You have to realize that some men have their type; and what some men consider hot, another man doesn't. Yes, some women are Universally beautiful and could pass a beauty contest, but still there are some that doesn't consider a blonde with blue eyes, a nice ass and big breasted hot. I've heard some European, Irish and German men that says to them Serena Williams is hot. I've also had a guy say to me the skinnier the better, even anorexic looking. I've heard some that like no breast, freckles, girl next door type, curly hair, all kinds, even fat. I've seen guys who were even paying that chose the short fat chick over the hot looking blonde. Guys are funny when it comes to this stuff and some have fantasies that doesn't involve a hot chick. Why? She doesn't look like she can have good sex and maybe do stuff to him that a hot girl might not do. I dunno. These are usually older guys, though, and who can choose. Look at Denzil Washington's wife, for instance, he has the black community women screaming for him but he married an average kinda heavy woman. Not sure if she was heavy at the time, but I'm sure if he wanted a hot woman as his wife he could have

The bad boy type is not about value to women in the traditional sense but more about adventure seeking. Also, I can tame him for me because I'm special. Or an air of curiosity on her part wanting to experience for herself what the craze about him is. Shit like that. She rarely ever stays pass a certain point and he drops her and move on as quickly as he changes his pants more times than not.

Nice. Congrats on your channel. Nice accent. Thought it was NoSelfSelf for a quick minute. Lol. But seriously, you're talking about how men can relate to their long-term relationships or wives. When a man first sees his attraction, he can't help but desire her. How can he love her without knowing her. I've seen plenty of average, especially married couples, where the men are doing just that - what you're saying in the video. Plenty of fat women or unattractive women being truly loved by their long-time husbands. Problem is, some still desire a hot woman sexually and go cheat on her as it's easy for men to separate the two - love and sex. Whether it's with prostitutes or regular female. Some, not all - feel like I have to keep saying this. What you're talking about is him loving and caring for his already gf or wife; not someone he just met and is attracted to, all he's thinking about there is him with her in the bed if held sexually attracted to her. The other day, I saw a sexily-dressed young female walking and some older guy try to stop her from his car and she said in a Puerto Rican accent, "keep moving, motherfucker, you pervert you", and kept on walking. Real loud too. You could hear the disgust in her voice as if she was tired of men treating her as a sex object but still wanted to dress how she wanted to dress. She wasn't showing any much flesh but she had a banging tight body and wore tight fitting pants and a top. Her shape was revealed through her clothing. It was just a pants and a top but revealed her hips and flat stomach, plus she had a pretty face. Hard for a man not to desire her, if she's his type.

It's a shame it's called settling. Flip the script and say women who settle for broke men are missing out on what men of status are like. Broke guys wouldn't like that too much. Average and broke deserve love too and if I was to date a broke or ugly guy, I wouldn't consider myself settling, but a choice I made based on what I felt at the time that was favorable to me.

There's nothing to understand. This sentence is an oxymoron, if that's the right word. "The way women get men", implies that men are also getting women. See that, see that, see that. Geesh, doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out the math here.

Only to the men seeking hot women. I see lots of average-looking couples all over the place. Especially in marriages.

You don't trust that women are involved in picking who they date or enter into relationships with and assuming they are all just settling for the first guy that approaches. No, disrespect but you have a lot of false notions about all this. You're probably going off of the few relationships you've encountered, but relationships doesn't just happen to women. What kills me with narratives like these is they are implying the female is all by herself and having make belief bfs. Arenlt there men getting women then, if you say relationships are just happening to women and they can get men easily. Are these men real men, or are they blow-up dolls. Check the validity of your statements and realize they are contradictory. Women aren't easily getting into relationships with themselves, so there are men out there who are in relationships too. You keep saying men can't find women and women are in relationships left and right. With whom, monkeys.

Your mind has told you this and you've believed it. Doesn't even make sense when you look at some of the kinds of guys that are with women. I've seen men who barely even talk and have women and I've even seen men who are dumb with gfs. I used to date a dumb guy myself when I was an older teenager in Jamaica; and I was just getting into modelling then, so it wasn't like I couldn't do any better. That's not the point, because I could name numerous other circumstances where skill wasn't involved, the girl was just attracted to him for some reason regardless of him being handsome or not. I'm constantly seeing ordinary couples all over the place. When I go out, I see mostly couples or lots of young guys with girls and I definitely don't see guys all over the place crying because they can't get women, why? because it's the guys that stay home and not out approaching complaining. Another thing is lots of guys want hot women, then they complain how they can't get women because they never look at the ordinary average woman as such; they might approach her, but don't take her too seriously because they were just testing the waters or thinking they're missing something better. Even if they're sleeping with ugly girls or below average looking females, they'll still say they're having problems getting women because it's not the hot chick that they want. I also find that the younger, the worse the situation with men finding women is, because they're so immature and lack certain things and insist on their way. The older the man is, the more he knows how to engage. All factors involved. A place to start for guys looking is to STOP ASSUMING IT'S EASIER FOR WOMEN. It's not hard to get laid for women but it's still not that easy to find a bf because it takes more than just having a penis. When you assume it's easier for women, you will approach her with a certain mindset. One where you feel like you have to prove yourself because she can easily get the next guy. Only way you have to prove yourself is to show her you really like her and that's hard because half the time she's just another approach and you really couldn't care less, then you complain why women are pickier. If you had women's best interest in mind, you would understand this and see where guys are approaching left and right and she's just another number for some. That's why you have numbers for the amount of time you do this. Some guys anyway. It's treacherous for us too, but in a different way. Take that however you chose and believe whatever you want. Half the guys that approach me already assumed I had a man, but did it anyway, so I can imagine some of the one's that didn't approach was because they probably thought they'd be wasting their time. Not that I'm looking, just saying. They're always looking and if they approach its like "where's your man at". Great, cause if I don't like him, I'll say he's home. Think whatever you want. Also, some level of women are out getting skillsets to try and get and keep the kind of men they want, so don't get that wrong. The proof is in the many schools and coaches that are out there helping them to do so. Leave your mind open, and you'll be in a much better place in receiving. That's how this shit works. Not to fill your head up with all sorts of conspiracy theories and beliefs about the dating world and it all depends on the country and culture.

I'm in America but the coffee can be imported from anywhere. I buy at the convenient store or supermarket. Different kinds. Columbian, too. I don't drink much; maybe once or twice a month. I never drink expresso. Too strong for me and i do like strong coffee; not that strong, and i feel like I got cheated for that small amount of coffee.

My next book in line to read. Heard it's great and has influenced some of the greatest minds in history.