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Interesting. It was written so perfectly with such attention to detail and expressed in a way where I felt I was on the ride with him. It's amazing what this treatment can do and it's effects afterwards seem to lasts. Hopefully he made the switch permanent and didn't retract to his previous ways of being and can now move on to living his best life under the circumstances available to him.

Not too many thank you's in life, mostly criticisms, so kudos to you. I'm happy to see that it has worked for you.

Maybe because Satan resides in the West. Meditation happens within and you are basically located everywhere so it doesn't matter. The mind doesn't have a specific location.

Maybe specify "the heading" for clarity.

That's the wrong approach to take on life. Everything is unfolding as it should and it's all perfectly timed even though time is an illusion. Maybe if you had the same insight then that you have now, you wouldn't have been able to see it the same way as you see it now. It's all a matter of growth, proper alignment and having the container to hold such perspectives; and with wisdom, integrate and embody them in accordance with divine order. There's nothing to fix, just a mental shift as this Universe is mental. Then it's manifestations will flow through you and appear on the screen for you to experience. You will miss out on opportunities in the present if you keep focusing on the past and keep reminiscing about past missed opportunities that are no longer here but only exist as a memory.

Beautiful, thank you.

Awareness. Just like how you're aware of how it happened, you have to make a conscious decision to change it. Awareness is curative so expand your awareness and become conscious.

This is the key. Unless you have become so Aware and have dropped all attachments, replacing the old with the new and with something more enjoyable and in alignment with who we truly are, we will go back to the old pattern even if its something else that's still making us miserable.

Hi and welcome to the forum. Leo is an extension of us and we are an extension of him. We all do care, how we express that depends on the individual. Everyone that responded to you care. Everyone that responded to you smiled inside. You are a part of us as we're a part of you. No one is excluded.

Your identity certainly aligns you with that part of Reality that coexists with what you are being. Your beliefs will keep showing you more and more circumstances that iterate those beliefs which will in turn cause you to construct an identity whether consciously or not.

You're right, it's not a big deal. This what I said and the message that I'm trying to convey is not about positivity or negativity, but trying to shed light on who and what we are which is Awareness. That's it. Reality doesn't have its fuck-ups, it's how you're perceiving Reality that does. I'm not being judgemental about anything, just making statements about how things work. Resonate or don't resonate. Recognize or don't. I only said pointless because if I share what didn't get me laid it doesn't mean someone else won't get laid by that same thing. The opposite also applies but at least focusing on the things that do is more empowering. Assholes are getting laid too and so are narcissists and unkind people. What gets one laid determines on the circumstances not coming on a forum to say what doesn't. Thats my perspective and I'm sticking to it. You have yours which you're entitled to. Just like the OP is entitled to start a thread encouraging people to list their mistakes. All i'm saying is, in this case, it's not a one size fits all and when we focus on what works more things start to align with those intentions.

Awwwww

These used to be my shit. At least we agree on the music aspect. Grindin'...

Lol

I'm trying to empower people not lead them down a path of destruction. If I see where we are not lining up to how and why Reality is the way it is, how the mind can continuously keep us on a specific path and keeping us trapped in false identification, and lead us down a path of misery and entrapments, I will continue to do so. It is a mistake to keep your light of Awareness on things that doesn't serve you and to focus on the things that does. I have learnt this, and it would be selfish of me to not try to let others become aware of this if I see the opportunity to do so. What one does with this information is entirely up to them; but by me saying what I said, which was still in alignment with what the thread was about, someone might see it and choose to reflect on it and see the truth of what was said and come to their own recognition of this. What turns someone off from getting laid might not turn another off, so in that respect, this thread is pointless even though it still serves it's purpose. Everyone is different and have their own likes and dislikes. Sharing what doesn't get you laid is keeping what doesn't get you laid alive and well and it's only purpose is to keep you identifying with what didn't get you laid instead of moving to things that might.

That's an illusion. You're not disconnected from anything. It is the egoic mind that thinks it is. You're not even connected because connection implies disconnection. You are all there is. There is no separation. It's all mental. The illusion of separation is how we're able to experience life and to Awaken from this illusion is to recognize who you truly are and that is that which everything is appearing from. Untouched. We are all identifying with what's appearing and we claim it to be the Self when in all actuality these are all just reflections of the true Self. We have looked in the mirror and claimed the reflection to be real. It is, but it's not who we truly are. What you are can never change. Awareness just is. Now if we can just learn to enjoy the show and return back home unscathed, that is how to escape the so-called "maze" but it is all just illusory. How we do that is to not identify with anything just observe, let things be as they are without judgement. Even the criticisms, judgements, thoughts, emotions feelings are just appearing within the show and should not be identified with. They will dissolve back into which they came from. These are just appearances. "I am depressed" is just another identity the mind concocted and now that script is playing itself out. Everything that aligns with "I am depressed" will start to show up in your experience until you decide to change that identity. The illusion of time and space is what makes that possible. No time, no memory, no memory no identity, no identity, no suffering. The aim is not to "not have have an identity" but to chose wisely what you want to identify as. This is where the "I Am" comes in. Things will start to align with whatever we choose but it has to be consistent, embodied and without judging the old one. Just move to it within the mind and stay there. Thats why nothing is permanent. Reality is shifting to line up with whatever you choose to be, to become. It is not about killing the ego but to embody it and use it to experience what it is you want to experience in this realm. Now thats the challenge.

The elements are being imagined by Consciousness. So am I. So are you. So is everything.

Infinite Love is already having sex with itself. No such thing as human fulfillment. We'll be searching forever. There's nothing to escape from. You are it.

Yeah, me. To the fact that I cannot awaken anyone. They get pissed off and go back to sleep. That's my awakening.

Behave.

Looking at me?

What do you think your advice of "friends to go out with" is. It's a support group. Same thing. Just another kind. Different labelling.

Ok

You're missing what I'm saying. The power is always within you and given by you. If she stays or leave, acknowledges you or not, you get laid or not, have a relationship with her or not, all that just happened based on who YOU decided to be. There's no woman deciding anything, it's all you based on who you've chosen to become. Now all that you see and experience is reflecting that back to you.

I think it's the so-called "normal" people that are queer. These people usually seem so happy and free.