Princess Arabia

You have turned this fantasy into your own interpretation of it and are applying your own way of seeing the men she's fantasizing about and your ideas of them. This is how we're living our lives. Through thoughts, ideas and concepts about reality and not how it actually is. I'm pointing this out as an example of how the constructs get deeper and deeper and the illusion sticks. She might not see herself being helpless and used but being empowered and in a position over him because he has to take something to fulfill a need. He isn't strong or empowered enough to get it on his own through his own strength. She doesn't see them as pig depraved, you do, she doesn't actually want to be raped, you're viewing her fantasy through your lens and how you perceive being raped. I'm not saying she perceives the act of rape in a positive light and wants to get raped. The act is not what excites her, it's what implies to her. The power dynamic goes both ways here; he feels powerful by taking it and she feels powerful (not in the actual act, but what the fantasy represents) she feels powerful that he needs to take it. That he's not worthy on his own accord. He's willing to commit such an atrocious act and that it must be worth something to him so bad he will kill for it - so -to speak. It is twisted on both ends.

Was referring to James' silent treatment in the dungeon of darkness as playing dumb.

I'm talking about when James 456 to infinity said he sat in darkness and in silence for mths and you said he earned you respect for doing that. I think that's why you said respect. Not sure because this shit called life already makes no sense you could be referring to ants for all I'm concerned.

Yeah, but I'm not trying to silence or lessen anything.

Another trick, love to see others pretending to be Spiritual. Why didn't I or anyone else in this thread earned any respect. You have to play Halloween to gain your respect. Sitting in a dungeon and playing dumb.

There already is no "I". You've been tricked by the mind. Another Spiritual sucker. Hehe

And where did that get you, may I ask? Why do you think you have a mouth.

Lol

What the fuck do you want me to type, songs, music, dogs barking, cats meowing, birds chirping, cows mooing, piano playing, of course it's going to be in statements. Saying these are just statements is just another one of your frivolous games that you and most of humanity is playing. I can see right through the fucking games, the games of i'm here to do the devils work so please don't try and stop me. We invented everything to do just that. We even invented the term enlightenment to pretend to not get sucked in and to tell ourselves we have awoken to our true nature. We were never asleep, just being bad and pretending to want to change and awaken. There's no God, there's no devil, there's no true nature, it's just you. Its just me. Its just everybody as the one. Playing it's own fucking game of hide and seek and pretending to suffer and crying like a chimp. Wow, what a masterpiece.

Exactly, anyone that knows they don't know. YOU HAVE FELL INTO YOUR OWN TRAP. Not really, as there really are no real traps. You are the devil and a very cunning one. I am too, so don't think I'm calling you out. I'm everything. Ilm saying you're playing devilish games for your own amusement. See how quickly you can answer and come back with your answers. You invented them that's why. It takes a devil to recognize a devil and it takes being to know what it's not.

That's why they're exes. Women usually appreciate this trait, not go out looking for it. It's a trait noticeable after getting to know. That's why it won't show up as much in her list and will choose guys who aren't because it's tough to tell in the beginning whose generally kind.

I was just explaining how manifestation becomes real, or why it's a thing. I don't care if you see life wonderfully or not. That's up to you and not my place to try and let you see it otherwise. I actually agree with you with mostly what you're saying in this thread. Mostly the parts where you say why are you here and how you should know why you're here and how it being mysterious sucks and how is this wonderful when you don't know anything, stuff like that. I've already seen through this shit, but I was once there, so I'm pass this. Those are legitimate concerns and naturally so because of your underlying sovereign nature and you feel powerless because you can't change it. If you notice my only contribution to this thread so far was just to explain the manifestation part. I wasn't trying to let you see life differently or to tell you to suck it up and trust and all that jazz. No, you don't want to hear that, you want answers. Well, the answers are in the questions. You already know what's up and you are voicing your concerns not to get answers or to feel better but to take the responsibility off of yourself as the one true being. The burden is being felt in your particular form and you are regurgitating. That form, knows deep down what it is; and it wants to stay in form so as to remain separate but it knows it will not remain in form forever and it is acting out because it knows there's nothing but a fucking void on the other side and it hates being in that void. What's so wonderful about that you say, you're actually cursing yourself and asking what's so wonderful about being. It's a phase you're going through, and until you realize truly who you are and accept yourself fully, you will continue to play this game. You're playing the game within a game and anybody that knows what they truly are can see through your bullshit games.

It's not that, it's just women have to be vigilant and always have to be on the lookout. We have to protect ourselves against predators, users, rapists, abusers, stalkers, liars, wannabes, fakers, manipulators, and men who don't have our best interest in mind. One-night stands, hook ups and just for sex doesn't have anything to do with this as some women are looking for just that too; it's just we want to feel safe around even those times and have to be on guard with strangers we don't know at all times, and now it has become instilled and engrained in us. Women can also lie and be all those things but what I'm speaking about is mostly for our safety and protection.

Nice is when you're trying to impress her, but using manipulative tactics. To get her to like you. Everybody tries to impress, but the difference with the nice is when he's insecure about it but tries anyway. Kind is when he really cares about her and her feelings, not wanting to mislead her and loves to show acts of kindness without compromising his own integrity and boundaries. Nice will do that just to get her then dislike her for him having to do things just to get her. Nobody is all around nice. Piss off a nice person and see their other sides shine quickly.

Yes

My life, my story, my trauma, my experience, my sadness etc...it's a felt experience and seems real and what's actually happening to the individual. It's not really happening to anyone but the feeling sense is so strong and the sense that I am that is believed in that it's hard to not see it as yours. That's the illusory nature of existence and what makes for a world to be possible.

The separate self sees other. The separate self sees itself in relation to other. Everything is about me, me, me. It can't help it. It claims everything to be his. It's automatic. Until it realizes it never existed. So trauma and bpd etc is being remembered and claimed but it's a separate kind of energy belonging to no one but the individual doesn't realize this. I don't want to offend anyone so I won't say much on that but that's why and the reason why I'm explaining it to you like this in the open is because I'm aware you have been exposed to some things where you can understand what I'm saying without getting offended that I'm minimizing people's apparent traumas.

Nice. Not much out there that hits to the core and most self help books just keeps you trapped into the illusion and the egoic mind identity.

You didn't need the book to realize not giving a fuck is the way to go because you wrote it. Hehe.

It's just another illusion making another illusion appear bigger and stronger. There is no power in either on their own. Even if you say well a gun is powerless on it's own and if i take that gun and shoot you, you will die. Really? Whose dying. That psychedelic can only show you more illusions and make for a different experience. There is no actual getting closer to what already is and where you're already at. It's all appearances just as how water vapor in the sky appear as clouds. Go try to grab one of those clouds.

This is because you're assuming reality is real, fixed and not illusory. I'm not denying it's real for you and for me, please understand this; but it only feels real and seems fixed. Don't get fixated on that part so much because the mind won't accept that or understand that and be repulsed by it. You cannot change reality as reality is already done. It's all infinite potential. You can only draw from it and attract or repel things to you that already exists through it's Universal laws and will depend on the law that is being applied - consciously or not. In the dream world and within the illusory world we can influence it. It is changeable because of this reason. If you see a bird in the sky, you see a bird in the sky, if you look through a telescope that bird will appear closer and bigger. Didn't you change how you experienced the bird? Didn't the bird appear different to you then? Still the same bird but appeared to you differently when you changed how you looked at it. Well manifestation is the same way. Nothing to change only to be experienced differently by changing the one that's looking.

I guess you read the book "The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A Fuck", by Mark Manson. I didn't, but I've heard about it.

Just some wisdom coming from the masters before us. They speak to you through me. It's your own higher self, that's why it felt good to hear and why it resonated.

The problem with these terms, such as in nice, is they get interpreted in different ways. Then guys become pricks or assholes just so they don't come off as nice because they heard women don't like nice guys. Then when they get dissed or left or ignored by women, they call us confused. You cannot remain nice for long if you're not truly nice and your bad-boy persona is short-lived and will come off as fake if you're just putting on a front. I've seen guys who are so bad, that their being nice is still bad. Not bad-boy bad, but bad personality wise. I've seen nice guys try to act like a bad-boy and they just seem awkward. These things are usually problematic for men because they try to impress us their way instead of getting to know the female and to see if they're compatible or to even adjust their personality a bit to suit the dynamic. We all have different personalities within us, and they naturally come out depending on whom we're interacting with so it's pointless to say just be yourself. That's cliche nonsense, and will be found out the hard way when trying to do that, because one cannot "not" be themselves.

Do not fear bad health, love good health instead. Focusing on bad health only creates bad health. Fearing bad health is feeding the energy of bad health. You have to understand this. This is how it works. Please don't take what i've said lightly, it is the foundation of how you approach life with everything. This is not about positive thinking either, it's about energy and life force. See yourself in good health, watch, read and listen to things that promotes good health. Living in fear weakens you, and will bring upon you what you fear.