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It's hard for anyone to really answer this with precision because the topic is a very personal thing; meaning it all depends on the person(s). @meta_malesaid it perfectly, imo, but I will add to inch in very slowly and see the responses you're getting and escalate slowly from there. Flirt a bit and watch for her body language more than what she says as long as you're not invading her space and feeling desperate. Does she cross her legs in your direction, plays with her hair, see if she clenches her hands or not, if she smiles a lot, asks you questions about yourself; these are signs of romantic interests; but most importantly, don't ask for a kiss, lean towards her slowly and see the response (when appropriate).

Nice. Great advice.

Not necessarily as criticism can be broken down into destructive (intended to harm or undermine), constructive (aims to improve or help) and instructive (aims to provide helpful advice and guidance). The former (destructive ) suggests what you're saying while the other kinds can be helpful which you did say when reference was made to the latter. I think OP needs to be aware of the differences so he doesn't shy away from all criticism. You said it perfectly, it's just i felt the need to really break it down. This subject, to me, is very misunderstood just as the "judgment" issue which is quite similar.

Something weird is happening here. Not in the sense of weird, weird, but WEIRD. I just can't put my finger on it. I might go insane if I figure it out so i might as well not even try.

Jesus. Every post is a woman-hating post. The control they have over you is astounding.

Just catch yourself doing those things and stop. It's literally that simple. Practice, practice practice. Saying When I.....only makes you continue to do it.

Hope it clears up soon. Stay safe. Not a good thing when everything is electrical and digital these days. Keep us updated.

I guess it's only animals you see God in. Makes no sense. Then again, nothing in life makes any sense. This is just another example of the random chaos happening here. Love animals but hate humans and think that's being conscious or God loving?

Yes, I've realized this to be the case. Tricky thing it is and we fall for the trick. It's pain or hatred arising and we put stories to those emotions and relate to them with past memories that we believe are responsible for them. Everybody's got a story to tell about these emotions. That's how thoughts keep the momentum going.

Not everyone you see viewing your profile did it on purpose. I can't tell how many times my finger slipped while scrolling and hit someone's name by mistake. Just something to keep in mind.

Nice. Just the other day I was looking out and said I don't feel like I have a head.

You don't have to feel like crap to want to enhance your beauty or appearance. If you go buy an expensive shirt, was it because you felt like crap or a nice watch. Not necessarily.

Yes, some women will enter relationships just to not be single. Still exceptions to what you're saying though. We can't know everything that's happening with everyone. If we don't see it on social media, it's just in our little bubble of experience and heresay.

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The problem is you're looking at a particular breed of women. Probably young, inexperienced, getting to know themselves, etc. Plenty of women are choosing men with the traits you have mentioned. You just won't see that on reality shows or online in drama settings. You're blind to the other side. If one side exists, it's opposite does too. I would never choose the type of males that i chose in my 20's now. Doesn't mean it'll be perfect or something was wrong with those men, just a different stage.

It's not about that. It's that separation is suffering. It feels like suffering. Nothing is actually separate so one cannot "not be separate". One cannot end suffering. Suffering, without diminishing people's suffering or even my own, is suffering being suffering. It's energetic. Happiness is being happiness. No one does either so no one can end either. Let me see you suffer right now on demand. Be happy on demand. Tell me the mechanics of how you're doing that. You can't, so how can you end something you didn't start.

Three quarters or more of forum users have done psychedelics, or said they have. 100% of forum users suffer. Good luck trying to end suffering using psychedelics. That said, I love this post. It seemed a bit poetic too. Like describing the self. What it feels like to be a self. Everybody wants enlightenment and speak about awakening but you just described something very wonderful. What it's like to feel like a person. A person that feels trapped in a human body. It's wonderful to me because I sometimes feel that way. Like I don't feel separate; I feel like an individual. All I saw was Absolute perfection. The Absolute speaking. Speaking from a location, a place, limit, here, I am. That's why I said it seemed poetic. Like the Absolute writing about itself, with itself, by itself. It wasn't trying to be itself - in a way. It was like one describing what it was like playing a movie role. It was superb. I know I'm exaggerating a bit; but I truly felt that way reading it. This isn't even a post that needs advice or anything of the sort. It's one to marvel at. To see and recognize what the fucking Absolute can be. How it can deceive itself. Be anything. Reading your post, to me, was Absolutely freeing. I saw freedom's expression. Abso-fucking-lutely. Excuse my French. IT IS ONLY ABSOLUTE FREEDOM THAT CAN FEEL TRAPPED. If it weren't Absolutely free and unlimited, it wouldn't even have the desire to feel free. It wouldn't even know it wasn't free and liberated. Your post actually made me realize freedom and liberation more than what an enlightened being can ever reveal. It revealed the true essence of what Absolute freedom, liberation and limitless actually looks like. That's what's obvious. This is awesome.

Ok, well now I'm on that level. In the video he also spoke about what you mentioned in your last paragraph and how he tried those things that left him feeling what I mentioned. Yes, I like your definition and can be seen in men with no muscles or a big hairy chest or deep voice. OP could also possess some of those masculine traits you described.

This is where you're limited in your thinking. Why do I have to go and understand how to become what I am already. What's there to figure out - only observe. It's the masculine that I am interested in, so that's where it makes sense to go study and try to understand. I already understand you, you're a softy trying to appear hard but only come off as a hard dick. 😛😛

Believe it or not, lots of so-called masculine traits that men exude stems from past-trauma and were told they're not a man if.....which can lead to lots of men becoming more aggressive, angry, suicidal, resentful and feeling hurt by society. See my latest video in the powerful(dating and relationships) section with Lisa Bilyeu. He speaks about this in the first 15mins. Maybe what we're really seeing in masculine men is the pain they're dealing with. Maybe OP isn't dealing with any pain, but the stigma of needing to show masculine qualities as a man by society's standards. This video. Just watch the first 15 mind or so to see what I'm saying.

True. I wouldn't say it's a matter of preference, but choice. They'll choose whites over non-whites but only when it comes to certain things because of an ingrained belief. Politics is one. Many people have private fantasies in many areas involving non-whites, but in public they'll die first before revealing the truth. Don't be fooled, a lot of it has to do with group think and reputation.

It isn't racist to prefer a certain race. Most people have their preferences and sometimes it depends on the context. However, by googles definition, it is racist to think of a particular race as SUPERIOR and he said that in his post. That can only be in comparison to...and suggesting that they are better than. There are blacks who believe that blacks are superior and that's also a racist belief. It's that simple and one can be racist if they like, but there shouldn't be that type of language allowed where the rule is 'no racism allowed'. That's the issue. Also, by Google's definition, white supremacy is a form of racism which he also defined himself as.

If that was the case, the whole world would be suffering from food poisoning everyday, it would be an epidemic and food trucks would be out of business; not to mention buffets.

If you're only doing it for women, it may not be a good idea. You may end up resenting women for it. Not sure how old you are, but you seem quite young from what you've said. Maybe time and experience will allow for the masculine side of you to flourish. It could just be who you are also; nothing wrong with that. Lots of women are attracted to the feminine side of men. It may just mean you'll attract more masculine-type women and that doesn't necessarily mean in their appearance, but their ways which could be complimentary to yours. Embrace who you are, and the women will feel that and be attracted anyway. Maybe what's not attractive to some, is that they can sense you're not comfortable in your own skin. All that hit the gym and stuff like that is just a mask to hide what you really feel inside. Gym is great for health purposes, but if it's to compensate to feel masculine, the feminine side will just be repressed and manifest in other ways and now you're left with hating yourself and your feminine side. Personally, too much aggression in a man is a turn off for me. It's not that I prefer feminine men, but I like when they show that side when they're around me and leave all that aggression when with the guys or when it's needed appropriately like in bed. Hehe. Masculinity is not about muscles and a six pack, it's in one's mental attitude and the way they show up. When I see bulk, all I see is a whimp inside. Strength in a man for me is one who's not afraid to show both sides and knows how to respond respectively.

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