Princess Arabia

Oh..didn't realize that. Thanks for the clarification. Not that I hold what you said to be so, but at least I'm aware that there are notions out there or beliefs that there are different types of Solipsism. Thanks.

I still hold on to the notion that I, as Awareness, is all that exists as I have never experienced anything outside of it. Princess Arabia is not all there is but my true nature is. That's how I see it. I AM Awareness. Consciousness, God, the I AM, whatever you want to call it. Anyone thinking Solipsism has to do with the false egoic self doesn't understand what the term even means. I get the belief part and the isms part, but at the end of the day language is just a pointer, it's dualistic and it's limited.

Or change the name of the website to Solipsisize.neverending

Lmao.. What exists must always exist. Lol..lol..lol..

Exactly, sigh. You're not aware of it, but I am because I've seen it in myself and it's exactly what I'm workin on in myself at the moment, the worries and fears and ifs and maybes and should haves and should not haves and if that didn't happen and what ifs. Its not whats happening. Yes we have to prepare but in this case its not preparing its regretting.

Without keeping it up for too much longer, yes you said what I said, but indirectly. If you're worried about that you can't approach 2 women at the same time and the one you didn't see might have been your future wife..yes you are being anxious about what isn't happening and projecting fears unto the future. We are so used to how the mind functions that we don't recognize these things and how it's doing it. We can't see it. It has become the norm. Go back and read your comment and tell me if those maybels could's would's and if's and worrisome thoughts are stemming from being anxious about the future.

Where in my post was I condemning any form of bigotry. And also, thank you for the complement. Yes, my avatar is me. And just to mention, without sounding egotistical but I'm one of the nicest most kind and caring person you'll ever come across on earth and I say that because ive been told that many times. Yes, I have my ways, yes I can be nasty, yes I get upset, but who doesn't. I don't need your comment to know that I'm an attractive person because of my history. I used to model, been in Miss Jamaica Festival contests, Miss Jamaica Fashion Model contests, been an Exotic Dancer, stripper escort you name it, cant be ugly doing all that and I'm constantly being told I'm pretty, attractive or whatever, See that how you may and I don't care if you think I'm bragging or boasting because that's not my intention, its to make a point. I've also been around very attractive women who are some of the nicest people you've ever met (figure of speech, please), so your post is nothing but ranting and raving about particular experiences you've had, NOT WHAT IS TRUE.

Well, your post is about looks and I was just keeping the convo on that same trajectory.

Stop taking it as a loss because you didn't get laid. It was a win. You had fun. Why can't it just be where if you get laid, great, if not, that's fine too. Not saying its fine to not get laid but the attitude about it. That's when it happens when you're not out searching for it. Learn to consider it a win regardless because that mindset will get you laid more often.

Hold up a bit. Speed racing, are we. Chill! Maybe's, if's and could be's is exactly where anxiety and fearful thoughts arise from. Oh my! You must suffer from anxiety. Take it easy with those racing thoughts, be present more and this won't happen as often. You're worried about the one that got away while the one infront of you is being ignored. Now you see how we create these anxious situations for ourselves because we're constantly in the past and the future with our thoughts, then we wonder why we're fearful.

Well you said, "sad but true". Why is it sad, when it's the preference of the male species that women dont approach, whether directly or indirectly said.

But we're not supposed to approach men, remember. It's not ladylike. Females are trained to be a certain way and men indirectly agree with these rules by how they respond to women. Don't complain about unspoken rules that society makes up in regards to the dating scene. It's not feminine to approach guys. Don't you like feminine women.

Haha, so true. Just an observation. Guys don't see what goes on on the other end of the spectrum and realize what us girls are facing and how it's so repetitive how they act and how certain traits seem to be so common amongst them.

You need to understand something. I've been touchy feely on by girls. Maybe not given #'s etc but I've been at bars and girls would come over and just start to random talk to me and be flirtatious saying random things like you so pretty or you're hot or just straight up sit on my lap. These are girls in groups or just partying so I'm not saying it like it was serious. But 10/10 times they were drinking. I just laugh it off and just have fun back because it was always just in fun and didn't last long. Nothing serious, just innocent play. Guys take these random drinking girls too seriously and think they really like them or are serious. Not saying they're not but I'm just saying, young girls in groups drinking will act like that regardless. Ive had girls wanting me to go with them too to another bar or whatever. I'm saying this to you so you don't get attached to this kind of behavior because that's how some of these girls party. They like to flirt with whomever. At the end of the party time they're all walking around with shoes in hand and wobbling. I'm referring to like casino night clubs and really cool hip bars. Doesn't matter though and you're young and probably handsome or something but guys can't go around being that way with girls for obvious reasons. These guys will fuck these girls if given the opportunity if it was the other way around but mostly these girls aren't interested to go that far and are just being giddy and having fun. That said, this is just another way of looking at it but you do you.

Thanks for the clarification and i do agree. Somethings better left a mystery and need no understanding but certain things it's probably wise to atleast try because thats a part of knowing thyself.

Sometimes. The answers usually come when you're not looking. Why? Because you're looking for yourself. So go within where you are.

Not speaking for him, but I think Leo is tired of answering Solipsism questions. He might respond but I wouldn't "hold my breath" on that.

You think you're a person. You are God dreaming up a human character. You do exist but only as a dream. What exist must always exist, so why does the body die. You, Eric is not alone. I'm here talking to you, aren't I. But I'm not there where you are, I'm here. So it appears, anyway. But the real me is everywhere. But it's still God talking it itself. If you can get this idea out of your head that you are a person, a human, then it becomes easier to understand. You're just God appearing as a human. Stop thinking of God as being human. It's no-thing, but everything simultaneously. You don't have awareness; you ARE Awareness.

Here comes another Solipsism marathon. Solipsism isn't referring to you as the human, it's referring to God being all alone. You are God. God is One. That's it, it's so simple. Now, the other stuff you're talking about is where the complications arise, like why do we suffer. If you had all the $$ in the world, all the riches and material things to rely on as distractions and was living a comfortable lifestyle, and wanted for nothing, would you go seeking for anything....in this case, yourself? No, even though you'll still suffer because worldly things won't satisfy you, but it'll be a different kind of suffering and you'd probably just deal with your loneliness and have lots of paid for distractions like cars and women and houses and businesses etc. God would never awaken if it left itself comfortable and would probably be lost in its dream forever. It's still just a play, though, as the Godhead doesn't really suffer. It's it's dream characters that do and it's all imaginary. But you can't say that to people as they'll say how dare you call my suffering imaginary. God split itself off into pieces, so could you imagine chopping your hands of into pieces, wouldn't that hurt and be traumatizing. That's the mental pain and suffering that people feel. It stems from mental separation and trying to become whole again. It's fucking painful and feels real when going through it. Anyway, that's my take. I'm sure the others I created and that are a part of me will have a different view on things because the pieces of my mental body are all shattered everywhere and every piece is seeing things from different angles as in a shattered vase. Every one of those pieces are different and will suffer because of the pain of the smash. I'm bleeding everywhere. Oh my! Thats why I have to put it all back together eventually and die to that stupid dream so I don't have to suffer for eternity. Imagine that. See, your name is even a friggin' clue God left for itself. The clues are everywhere, you just gotta spot them through all that pain and trauma. Part of the sick, silly game that God is playing with itself. More breadcrumbs please! Oh, BTW, do you go to the movies and watch all lovey dicey shit all the time or do you go get your adrenaline rush with shoot 'em ups and gangsters and robbers and villains and murderers and thirds. Well, why would God be any different. It's you as God watching all this crazy stuff and complaining about it asking why doesn't God create lovey dovey shit and comforts and riches and pleasures. Nothing is happening here, it's just energetic patterns forming and looking like real shit. There's no you. It only appears that way. It's all God playing with itself.

What do you expect from young drunk girls. Touchy feely and all that on alcohol is usually the alcohol that's doing the touchy feely. Next day will be a different story. Don't expect too much rational behavior from drunk people. I never give my number out without calling theirs right away, if possible. If someone is using your phone to put their number in, especially in cases like this, always try to call the number back right away in their presence. That will solve the fake number mystery. Maybe try going out a little earlier, even if it's at night when most of them aren't as drunk. You need to be careful with young drunk girls for obvious reasons.

May I ask what did I actually say that you are disagreeing with. I'm not sure.

If I come across as.a take it or leave it in a bad type of way, that wasn't my intention. That just goes to show the power of perception. Saying I'm not here to convince anyone of anything and to do whatever with the information I post was interpreted by you. Yes, it could mean take it or leave it but not in a malicious way or defensive way. You took it as that. I'm thinking I'm being considerate, understanding and showing lack of imposing on one's beliefs by saying what I said and it was interpreted in a way differently than how it was intended. If you trad those words and interpreted it for just the words sake, you would have seen through the meaning clearly. The stories and interpretations and meaning to what we give and put on our experiences says a lot on how we perceive those experiences. Saying I was being defensive, was just your interpretation, not my intention.

Did you at least watch the video. There are plenty of misleading information out there that will mis guide and mislead you about this topic. Just the fact that you say you FEEL hopeless and desperate is an example of not understanding what those feelings can create. I'm not here to convince anyone of anything and you do whatever with the information and videos I post. But getting a deeper understanding of how this works will open up channels to show and reveal to you how this is happening and how we are manifesting all day everyday without being aware of it, until you start to watch your thought patterns and see the correlation on both ends of the spectrum.

Dropping the need for understanding is the flip side of dropping the need for explanations. Can't have one without the other.

What does Meh mean?