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To me, just saying someone is fat, isn't judging. Example 1. She's fat - not judging. Example 2. She's fat and that's disgusting - judging. 1. He said some inappropriate things to me - not judging. 2. He's an asshole for saying some inappropriate things to me - judging. You're adding stories behind your observations. That's observing with judgement. Observing without judgement is observing something for what it is without making condescending remarks about what you're observing. It's hard to explain because of the subtle difference. We all put stories and meaning to things we observe, that's what we do as humans but we can observe, analyze compare and explain without being condescending and labelling things without judging them. That's the best way I can describe what I'm trying to say. Making a judgement call about a decision you have to make is not judging, calling someone's decision after them making a judgement call silly or stupid is judging. Saying you think that judgement call you made is not a wise decision isn't judging, that's an opinion. Saying someone is silly and foolish for making a particular decision is also an opinion but it's still judging because you're not calling the decision silly you're calling the person silly. I'm trying to explain the subtle difference very delicately the best I know how, but I can see it in my mind's eye the difference, but it's nit easy to explain on paper.

You don't build a website of this caliber without putting passion into it. This was very well thought out and took a lot of time and energy to build. You can also see the passion in his eyes in most of his videos. Everyone has to make a living, but you can tell this means a lot to him. To what degree, idk, but it's more than just business. Anyone else who knows what passion feels would be able to sense that. Even if he's out "living his life", as you phrased it, it is well deserved. All of us are reaping the benefits of his hard work, including you just from having the opportunity to voice your opinion here, so that in itself is worth it for you to be able to "have a voice", even if it is to criticize.

Lol...works everytime. But no..all kitty kat here baby. No dicks allowed.

Perfect..We'll SheMale it up, best of both worlds.

I'm a lesbo

You serious.

I like this advice and that's what I try to do. I can't even separate the two even if I tried.

I opened up a Mega Thread for Spiritual movie trailers/documentaries. Can you post that movie trailer and the link over there please. It's in the Off-Topic/Entertainment section. Thanks. Would love to add that to the collection.

Yes it was, I was cracking up too.

I literally was gonna type your name, but said I'll leave you out of this mess. Lol

Yeah, a forum with hundreds of onlookers, let's keep it between us. What happens on a Vegas-born forum stays with it's owner. Lol

Funny you joined this crazy thread, I was just going to mention you as my back up when I told @Thought Arthe had his back up buddies if I turned into Spiritual spook and here you come. Boy, the synchronicities at play.

Yourd welcome, my love. You know I can't flirt with you too much, Leo will have a fit. (In my imagination that is). Hehe.

See, this is getting deep, leopard print is my favorite pattern. It's all over my living space. Spying on me, are we.

Yeah, I'll turn into God mode and Devil mode simultaneously. Don't worry, you'll have back up from your buddies here.

What happened after that, without being too revealing if you prefer not to.

Lol...I live in USA. Been for awhile. Not sure how much from US, but now you're up to plane fare and hotel fees. Sure you can handle this. We should stop this conversation before it turns real Spiritually spooky. Lmao

What do you mean? They wanted to pay for their own coffee?

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Are you flirting with me. You need cab fare for that...😜

When I'm reading a post that's well written and oozing with tasty vomit, I don't mind if it's a bit lengthy. I myself can write some lengthy remarks but sometimes that's what's needed to get a point across. People tend to have short attention spans for note-worthy readings and tend to give their attention to twerking booties and 3hr bloody movies that raises their blood pressure. A bit of humor there, but you get what I'm saying.

I'm Jamaican. Don't know about Nigerians. All of us girls are different, though. Nationality may play a minute role but it's mostly independently minded, as far as I'm concerned anyway. I think with women, it's mostly about how they were raised, past relationships, age, maturity and how they feel towards men. All those play more of a factor in dating than where you're from on an independent level, even though you can generalize certain traits using nationalities.

He's the one that got you here in the first place. Do not listen to all of Leo's dating advice. Some. The self -improvement parts are a gold mine and other things unrelated to the women themselves. You have to understand every guy is unique and if you go against your heart you will fail at this. He says, to let the women invest in you first which can be taken to mean different things. You're saying you're the prize when you have issues and insecurities about feeling loved for who you are because it wouldn't matter what she asked, for you felt triggered not by her asking but the fact you can't afford it. You are just trying to convince yourself of that prize notion because if you truly felt that way, you wouldn't feel the need to reinforce it by saying it.

That's a mature way of dealing with it and you will learn about yourself and your fears in the process. Your feelings of self-worth is the issue not her asking to pay for an Uber. I always now, since I've become more aware, look inside myself to see why was I triggered. Life is about learning and that incident is showing you your feelings about your self-worth not about her thinking she's got tits and ass. We are abundance, life is abundant, even abundance of scarcity and lack. You are God trying to become God. God is showing you that you are not in lack of anything by you becoming triggered by that. You are like that kitten whose afraid of love until it warms up to you. You are afraid of God's love and God is trying to show you, by your triggers how to go deep within and work on your feelings of lack. Don't want to turn this into a Spiritual teaching but it's all connected. Life is not about the dating, the sex, the beautiful girl etc, it's about knowing thyself and loving thyself. Those superficial things are just ways and means and carry with them experiences to show you the way. The contents doesn't matter. What counts is the knowing who you are. Every experience carries with it the potential for realizing God. Not just a psychedelic trip or meditation. It all does. That's the beauty of mundane life.

At least you didn't try to fight me this time. Fear of being broke can make you strive for financial success, and you may get it yes, but it will come at a cost. Love for feeling abundant carries a different energy and that's more sustainable. Love trumps fear. Focus on what you love over what you fear because love is all there is. Fear is an illusion that exists in the mind and will destroy you if you let it.