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Don't know, but this just seems backwards; like it's the other way around. First week fast because it's new and second week slower. Also life can feel short if constantly doing different things. Instead of on autopilot, it's spontaneity.

Of course, including yours and mine and everyone else's. Such an ego trip. Ugg. You go away and come back wanting everybody to just listen to what you say and calling people's ignorance to something evil. Not once since I've been on this forum have I seen you asked a question. All you do is come here to say what you think you know about God and Reality and everyone should just shut up and listen to the master guru of the forum. No one knows everything and everybody is still trying to figure this shit out; but not you, you know everything and no one here can tell you otherwise. Such arrogance and narcissism. You're the most delusional one here, but because you sound like you know what you're talking about, no one will notice. How can an illusion be deconstructed; it's an illusion, which means it's not really happening. This doesn't even makes sense. What is a perfectly honest mind. Thoughts just arise spontaneously without anyone actually doing it and no one can create a mind because there's no mind. If all is mind, then where is the mind. It's like saying create water where there is already water. Yes, so there is no source.

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Whatever that means. There is no plant separate from the seed. There's no post separate from me. There is no plant or seed or post separate from me. There's nothing separate from anything. It's all Absolutely nothing appearing as everything. There's no source from which anything came. Everything is the source. So therefore, there is no source. Don't like, don't agree, that's fine. I write what I feel to be the case. Why should I put down what I feel to be the case because you said differently.

A fantasy doesn't necessarily equate to desire. A desire is something wished or hoped for to become a reality; for something to happen in one's experience. A fantasy is something one may use to generate a desired feeling and not necessarily want it to come to fruition. One can only be violated if they felt a boundary was broken, felt as if a line was crossed or was disrespected. Having a rape fantasy doesn't make a woman feel violated because it was of her own doing. Please get these distinction in their proper perspectives so as to not be mislead and thinking things that are just a product of your imagination. A desire to BE violated is different from a fantasy that suggests violation. Also, actually killing people has nothing to do with a fantasy; now it's a reality with serious consequences and is a far cry from having rape fantasies. Most of the time a woman will only act out those fantasies with someone they know or has already had sexual encounters with as a role play.

For there to be a Source, there has to be at least two. Something and it's Source, There's but only the Absolute which has no Source. This is direct. Space and time are illusory so therefore nothing is really created. This is Absolute directness. Being, (for a better word). Creation is an appearance and since the post is about what can and cannot be proven and what needs to be the only thing known, then it is misleading because nothing can be really known without space, time and a subject/object. Your proof that God can be proven were only words that serves the one showing the proof and not the one hearing or seeing it because what you've stated was still just a matter of perception and belief and not Absolute facts of which there are none because there are no Absolute facts in directness Saying "God is it's own proof itself" still doesn't lead us to the proof because that's just a matter of what you believe to be the case. I'm not saying what you've written isn't the case, but there was nothing there that showed proof of anything and only what you believe is the only thing that needs to be known. What I've written also is just a matter of what I believe to be the case and can only be grasped and understood by the one that thinks it's separate from Reality and that it is here separate from out there. Bottomline is, this is Absolutely unknowable and anything known is illusory and cannot be grasped without a separate sense of self so how can it be true in the Absolute sense. Without that separate sense of self everything is just simply what is without a knower.

My vegetarian meal for the day. Sautéed Mushrooms, Bok Choy, Broccoli, Brussel Sprouts, Red Peppers, Red Onions and Garlic. Sautéed in Coconut Oil. I put the Broccoli 🥦 and Brussel Sprouts in first for 5mins then the rest. I added S&P and Italian Seasoning. Served over a bed of Garlic Mashed Potatoes and topped with Fried Plantains. Delish.

Where is this. What country do you live in. It has some very beautiful places. Your pictures are lovely.

Yes, I'm the same way also. I'm not saying to accept it though, more to understand where it's coming from.

I'm starting to learn and understand that I have to be careful how I project my own beliefs unto the world. Sometimes it's my own thoughts I'm projecting unto others and could be wrong about how I perceive them. If it's very obvious that it's racially motivated, then I turn it around and just tell myself it's coming from ignorance and that they're also projecting from a belief. It's not true and doesn't need to make me upset because that means i believe in what they're saying or even that there's a possibility that it could be true.

I was being more sexually objectified as a teenager and young adult. Now I'm being more sexually objectified just from walking down the street. Being a stripper doesn't count because it's counter-productive if one feels sexually objectified then. One doesn't tell their about-to-be-sexual companion that they're about to sexually objectify them. Feeling sexually objectified usually comes about when the circumstances aren't sexual in nature and one feels violated at the time. My type of work has nothing to do with why I said "desensitized" because I don't, and never saw it as objectification. Like I said, to me, one feels violated and that defeats the purpose of adult work or even putting sexually explicit pics online. One doesn't have to encourage this behavior to feel that way and that's usually where the uncomfortable feeling of being objectified stems from. If it was an encouraged thing, then the phrase "sexually objectified" wouldn't even be a thing and those feelings wouldn't emerge. One would feel more sexually gratified.

Yes, from experience.

This is why I don't put people up on a pedestal or look down on them. Disappointment is inevitable both ways. I see it as I set my own boundaries and as long as they're not crossed, I'm ok. The disappointment has now become about your expectations of people and how you would like to see them. If you dig deep inside yourself, you'll realize you're more disappointed in yourself for the standards you've set for others.

I said this too and i think it's probably the main issue. I don't blame him, though, we work hard on ourselves to improve and then to be only seen as a body part can be truly disappointing.

I made that comment before reading your explanation as to why you keep mentioning the double standard part. It's a matter of explaining it from a perspective and not the main issue at hand. I get that, and I'm not in unacceptance about it. I'm just trying to see why it bothered you as much and why you might have such strong feelings about being sexually objectified. It's not Universal to harbor resentment over this, as some people, even women, don't mind at all to be objectified sexually. It's a personal thing. Personally, it doesn't bother me, and I accept that I can see it however I choose and that it's how I see it that brings about the feeling. As long as a boundary wasn't crossed where it got physical, i don't let it bother me. You have every right to feel how you feel and i'm just expressing my thoughts on it from my personal pov. Maybe because i've gotten desensitized by it and it has become the norm, but don't think i'm not empathetic towards your feelings about it. It's wrong from both sides.

I'm not dismissing that you genuinely felt objectified. You mentioned the story about your uncle and the chain so it shows we can feel objectified in ways that are not sexual. Maybe you want to be seen by everyone as more than just a physical body and people keep reducing you to that and it becomes frustrating. The women's actions was maybe a reminder of that and you take offence because you want to be seen more than it. Like you're not taken seriously for who you actually are internally. These are just symptoms for of what's really going on internally. Mentioning the uncle and the chain, and how this conversation brought those memories back to light, made me believe that's whats really going on.

This is what I mean. You're more upset about the double standards than their actions. I understand it, and it's uncomfortable either way if not welcomed.

This is what you're not understanding. Most times women aren't doing this because they would actually sleep with you or even want to. My lesbian girlfriend (not lover), would enjoy looking at other men's penises. She would be looking at men's bulges walking down the street or on TV. If she watched porn, shed be watching the straight ones and the men's dicks. She is the more masculine one in her relationships. They do this as a comparison. To what they don't have. Imagining what it would be like to have one. Their gfs are usually feminine or more on the feminine side compared to them. This is why I say, it's not about wanting to sleep with you from the women's perspective, but just as a fantasy. I'm not surprised she was lesbian.

It's funny you wrote this because I was writing my response at the same time and we both referenced this type behavior in strip clubs and how the women react.

No, not in your circumstance, anyway. Guys seem to think we get openly sexually objectified by men all the time that are in groups. It's usually in secret or on a one-to-one basis. Guys are more careful not to do this in groups as much for fear of rejection and having their peers notice. I'm not saying it doesn't happen to women at all what you're explaining, but it's more the opposite in groups. Take, for example, strip clubs. Male strippers will get more screams, more women going up by the stage and looking more excited than the men do with female strippers. The males will sit there and fantasize, privately drool and dream about what it would be like being with her. If it's a party-setting type club they might show more but it's still pretty contained. They'll go in the back for a private show and want to get physical. Point here is, women feel more comfortable doing this in public amongst other women because it feels safe; men feel more comfortable doing this in private for the same reason - it feels safe. No one to see the rejection, if she does, but him. It's a double standard, yes, and it makes both genders feel uncomfortable; but in regards to who is more at risk for physical harm, the women are. You won't find a woman waiting in the alley or after club hours to try and get into your pants all by herself, while a man may do this to the female if he's the type. So that's why it's usually more accepted by society when women do these things. Some men don't like it because they look at it from the perspective that if that were them, and the tables were turned, they'd be getting into some real trouble or the behavior wouldn't be tolerated. We as a society have to look at this from the gender perspective and realize men and women aren't the same in this respect and that men and women will or be looked at differently, and with good reason, when it comes to sexual issues and objectification because of the statistics showing more men are sexual predators and can actually do more harm sexually to women than a woman can to a man (sexually). All that said, I'm not justifying the women's behaviors because it's in poor taste, but look deep into why it bothered you to begin with and, as you've stated, it's probably because if it were you, the response would have been different and you're just rebelling against the double standard and not their actions.

This shit is crazy. Might as well just eat ice.

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