Princess Arabia

So what. I've seen where people never betray their trust. Are you living your life based on what you've seen or are you excited about what's to come.

This is the only thing in your comment to me that is of any importance. The rest is just speculation of the mind and endless irrelevant bickering.

Go through your post word for word and see how many words are in the past tense. DO IT!! quote this comment with the answer.

You're not in dilemma, the mind that only sees past and future is. It created a problem that isn't there and now it wants a solution for the problem it created. It is a never-ending cycle that leads to suffering on different levels. If somebody leaves a comment on how to solve this invisible problem, it will debunk, rebut, and tell them how they're not making any sense. That's what it does. The problem of mistrust has been created before the relationship has even started based on past and probable future. I'm just trying to show and make you aware of how problems get created out of thin air. What does someone else's relationship past has to do with your present circumstances. Nothing. You are anticipating the future and also creating the future NOW. You have, with this inquiry, created mistrust in your coming relationships without even realizing it.

The solution is to recognize the mind's ability to create problems out of thin air and to not get sucked into it's status quo....unless you want to continue to suffer it's demise that is.

The mind is always trying to find something to do. These moments are a distraction from that. Instead of counting the wasted moments and adding them up to say how much time is wasted during tasks doing nothing, maybe say how much time is wasted doing things that distracted me from recognizing the self. Those tasks are more pointless than those precious moments.

That's what wing women are for. Hehe.

Thank you all for engaging and to Leo for agreeing with the idea.❤️

I guess i am just consciousness with a bit of mind added.😜😜

Since being on this forum, I too have realized that some of my beliefs about men are false, so it's not just you. I used to believe that (and when I speak i'm speaking in general and it doesn't apply to all), that most men have no problems in finding a woman. Quality relationships isn't the theme here, just finding a woman, period. So many men were out there approaching women and speaking to women and cat-calling women, etc, that I used to think how lucky they were that they have their pick, while us ladies have to wait in line for a man to approach and even then, the right one. Yes, we get approached a lot, especially attractive women, but also not-so-attractive. Just women in general. Very rare women approach men in this way because we're not expected to and it's a societal taboo standard. It's not lady-like and seems desperate (that's how it's looked at and not necessarily the case). Anyway, I see so many comments on here saying how women have it easy. No we don't. Many men are looking, and some are saying hi and approaching, but women generally don't just jump at every approach. Guys who don't understand that we have to be more protective, are more feeling based and are attracted to a guy's personality more need to understand this. It's not that we're more picky, it's that attraction for us is different, period, end of story and I don't need to explain this in detail just trust me on this. That's another topic. We're also not having sex up the roof because we can find a man easily. Yes, I can go down the street and get laid easily if I want to in 5mins. Just do my hair and wear something sexy and offer it up for free. In no time, I'll find someone if i smile at every guy and wave at every tooting horn. What woman does that generally. How easy do you think I'd find a man who actually tickles my fancy in 5mins let alone willing to have sex. I have to wait and wait and wait if I want to feel something for him first. In my 20's and partying days, I still needed to feel something but it isn't the same kind of feeling as it is now. Now it's more meaningful and deeper even if it's a one-time thing. So don't think we have to lay up only if it's relationship worthy. Personally, one-night stands aren't for me, but lots of women don't mind. Women's standards change by the decades, What we liked in our 20's is not the same as in our 30's, 40's and up. It's not a matter of pickier but what we find attractive in a man. Doesn't matter what that is. Getting approached means nothing to honor that and doesn't mean we're having it easier, especially for the ones who don't like to settle. Men are also looking for a type and will not date if she's not that. The problem with this, in that regard, we have to put in time and energy before we realize he's not because it's not based on physical attraction alone; for men, all needs to be done is a glance and a look and bam, that's my type. Later on, is when the realization sets in that she's not, even though her looks were. So, to wrap up, we're not having it much easier. In fact, it's a bit more complicated and time and energy consuming for us. I always used to say to myself, if I was a guy, I'd be having and enjoying so much sex because it seems so easy for them to just be attracted to looks and looks are everywhere. Tits and ass and sexy women are everywhere. I wish I could just be attracted to some muscles and mustache and just want to have sex from just that. Seriously, I used to say how I wish I didn't need more that the physicality of a man. Well, I do, and so many women do. That takes time and effort except for if you're out partying, drunk or just wanting to go loose and live it up sexually and don't really care about anything else and even then, it's not that simple as she has to look out for predators, creeps and dangerous men. We're not having it easy, guys; it's a challenge on both sides and there are a lot of misunderstandings that gets in the way because we are so wrong about what's the case and it usually only stems from our own personal false beliefs and not what is actually the case. Attractive women are being looked at but sometimes not being approached for fear of rejection on the man's part or from the assumption that she already has a man. So, they're also having challenges in this department or from guys who just want their bodies and nothing more.

I find it very hilarious that we're here and others have to tell us who we are. (Not you in particular, just in general). I laugh at some of this stuff, not laughing at in a cynical way, but in a humorous way with child-like humor. It's hilarious. Who am I, what am I, what is the mind, what are thoughts, where did I come from, but we know exactly what oxycodone and percocets are. Had to check the spellings.

Ok, you got me there so that means everything and something collapses into Absolute with no opposite. So everything is no-thing and no-thing is everything.

I guess we kind of know what she means because of knowing a little about her background here on the forum. She has posted stuff before that implies she's a bit off and crazy. @SugarcoatYou know I'm messing wit ya, and I know you're enlightened so I can call you crazy and have you cracking up over there.😅

Even if they're average and normal, they'll think or say they're weird. Not that they don't show it around you. My cat probably thinks I'm weird. Shit, people around me, thinks I'm weird, and I think they're weird; whose right. That's what I mean. It's a matter of opinion. I think I'm the most normal person on the planet. Now, that's weird.😜😜

Everything is also no-thing. Can't have one without the other. Everything stems from no-thing. Saying just everything is like saying heads alone and tails doesn't exist. Can't have on a coin heads without tails. Can't have everything without no-thing. You're coming from a place where existence is something or everything. It's no-thing from which everything appears. At this point i think it's just word semantics and it could go on forever. Hence, no-thing. The bottomless pit.

There are no comments from you without this word.😅 Open one. (pun intended). My word is "just". I notice I use it a lot. Hehe.

I didn't say that. They're right if they think they're weird. Who are we to say they're not. Weird depends on who's looking or perceiving. Somebody more weird than you will think you're normal and vice versa.

No-thing.

Lol

Everybody thinks they're weird and they're right.

Love the attitude. Calm your tits...lol. That's all folks...I'll leave the politics to my other halves.

Me too...🤣This nothing ain't no match for this somethingness.

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Something other than something else that the mind constructed to be separate from nothing.

Nothing, but a nothing that's a something.