Princess Arabia

You don't have to worry about getting abstract with me because I'm here, aren't I lol, on Leo's blog instead of Jimmy swaggert's, is that his name, the evangelist. He's probably dead anyway. But back to this, I get what you're saying. It's not new to me and I'm delving deeper into this topic so it's quite familiar. I'm just trying to understand more of what I already understand and trying to go deeper to get a bigger picture. You guys disagree on stuff a lot even though the base might be of the same contents, that's why I try to get the info and think it through for myself to make it make sense to me and also through my own experience and intelligence. I will re-read your response and contemplate on it. Thank you for being so kind to share this with me and for explaining it the best you know how under the circumstances. I do appreciate it. Edit: It became so clear the second time around and i totally understood it. We need not do anything to be fulfilled and fulfillment doesn't depend on or perception all we need do is just BE. Our perception increases with expanded awareness but its not needed to experience the full capacity of our true nature as Reality.

Ok, I understand you now, thank you. Thats my understanding too.

Thoughts come before anything

This is where I get confused. Reality just is. But what is Reality. Isnt it the same as Infinity/God/Truth/Source etc. Since it is infinite, doesn't that contain all that IS?. Are we seeing All THAT IS or only our perception of ALL THAT IS, which would be only a part the part that were conscious)aware of. In order to change that wouldn't we just change our beliefs to then see a manifested version of the infinite.

I've been sitting here for a half hr pondering @SOUL's comment, yours and the highlighted comment up top from Leo and I just couldn't connect the dots. They all sound "right" but something was off to what Soul said to in relation to what I was saying even though I totally get his/her view point and even agreed. But what I got from that was, we need not even believe anything and just be. Doing is different from using the mind constructively into constructing our Reality the way we wish to construct it. As you said, constructing Infinite perspectives, which I say creates Infinite Realities while still being present. I guess its the way the words are being used.

Yeah, peppermint oil. Works wonders, Also stop banging the wall.

I value your insights so this is not a contradiction. What is? Things are always changing, except for the one Source. Source/God just IS. Most on this path already knows that. Yes, things don't change but how we perceive them do, so they may appear differently. Do you see it as everything already exist and it is up to us to chose what part of the already existing existence that we want to experience by changing our perceptions, beliefs and assumptions. The fluidity of the appearance is what's causing the change as nothing is concrete, so once we've recognized that Reality just IS, but we have the choice to change our belief structure to fit into the paradigm we want to operate from to create our world, why do we have to strip away all beliefs and concepts if we've recognized them as just that and we can change them at any time we want in order to create/experience something new and also the part of existence we want to experience.

You seem to have a lot of different questions on what to do with your life. The more answers you get the more questions you seem to have. Every week it's a new one. That's OK, just an observation. Nothing wrong here. Just saying. Interesting.

Respectfully speaking, as I do value your opinions, but isn't this also judgemental? You know how the saying goes, " believing not having any beliefs is the way to go, is still a belief. Aren't you judging her for having judgements? Explain this to me as it's coming from a place of genuine curiosity of the meaning behind this perspective.

Thoughts follow a certain pattern. Previous thought will be followed by a similar thought etc, so train the mind to focus on where you want it to go and the thought patterns you want to thread and it will get used to following the pattern. Just like how this thread is about a particular topic and we focus on the topic, same thing with thoughts. Moderators will say stay on topic, don't drift off topic. Same thing. It takes practice so start in your daily life. For instance, if you're trying to approach. Notice the thought, if it says, she won't like me, I'm nervous, I'm ugly, my game sucks, consciously switch it to, so what, life goes on, not the end of the world, if she rejects, her loss. Just don't tell yourself stuff you don't believe yourself just yet because the mind will bully you back. Keep it simple and keep doing it over and over till you start to believe it and similar thought patterns will follow. If you get rejected, and you find thoughts come like, see I told you so, switch it to another thought consciously, speak out loud to yourself in a whisper. Say like, see, I'm still alive, nothing happened to me, she rejected because someone better is coming etcetc, use your imagination. Eventually, you will see the change in the pattern but you have to be aware, aware of your thoughts, drift it back to focus. It takes time but it will be worth it because now you're re-training the mind which takes practice.

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Not picking on you but you do have the word "DEBATE" in your heading. Just so you realize that.

Oh that was YT....duh, thought it was your personal video, I just read the title: Sparkle and me and thought that was Sparkle and you

Nope. I don't even have to look that up. Nope they weren,t. The 16yr old too?

Even in the submissive/domination world, the submissives are giving permission to the doms to dominate them. You won't k keep asking everytime nor do you need to ask your already gf and sometimes it's how you ask that matters. Non-verbal cues can be present. Its not so much about verbal asking especially if its someone new.

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Your profile Pic looks so feminine, I thought you were female, just realized you were male. But I kind of started to sense that from the way you were commenting. No biggie, it just threw me off.

Its not. That's why I asked gender. Sounds like a male's perspective. The whole tone.

Are you male?

Is that your cat and your shoes.

OMG, the Artistry of God. Look to the bottom left, tho, see that face, looks like a white cloud. Looks like Satan saying, where you going, come back, I'm not done with you. Or darn, almost had him. Or looks like that old man across the street looking at me yesterday.

Love this.

@Phil Kinggave you good goal-oriented advice. Some i could use myself. I just know it's good advice from listening to the experts. But I can shed some light here. No, you don't. You're seeking something. Something in this department is lacking within. You will push away more women than you will "bang". I get the lingo. It's cool. Macho. Playerish. But its not you. You're imitating. Parroting. You just broke up with your gf so now you're broken hearted and don't care and just want to bang, bang, bang and more banging till you don't feel the hurt anymore. C'mon baby let me bang you up. Now you're in love with a fantasy actress from I think Egypt. She can't hurt you. She's safe. I'm not a psychologist but I'm intuitive. Sometimes I'm wrong but it's what I see and feel from you. You're searching so hard. Searching, searching, searching. See how you phrase "any advice in how to achieve that, asap", that's desperation. You're desperately seeking Susan. Susan is right here, right now staring you in the face, but you can't see her because you are looking out there somewhere. You're like a little child crying for its mama and mama won't come. So you cry harder. Now you want money asap, you want to bang more bitches, you want to follow this religion, you want to do this and do that. Slow down. You'll get a heart attack, a mental one. Just chill. Infinity is right here, right now no need to go looking for it. Follow your heart, yes do stuff, make money, bang bitches, follow some religion if you chose, do these things because of the experience not for the need to fill a gap you think is missing. Nothing is missing. Bang all the bitches you want, get it out your system, until you realize, hey, its not here. Then go to guys, bang them too, till you realize, hey it's not here either. You'll be banging and banging and banging your head against the wall till there's no more wall left to bang then you either cave in or cave out. Your choice.

Why judge at all. Why bother. Who says we need to judge. What's the point in that. I judge, but I know there's no point. There's no point in this conversation either, but I'm doing it anyway. Have a good night. Going to bed. Hope you feel better tomorrow.

Ok. Fair enough. Your self-talk is destroying you. When you say I don't care about you, your mind hears I don't care about you. All of what you're saying on here is turning the tables on you.