Princess Arabia

right on!

Oh my, this is me. These men don't even realize they exude masculinity. They are so ordinary but exquisitely unique on the relative level. They don't even try or not try. They are not in gyms and wearing fancy clothes and trying to impress. A "real" woman can't help but be attracted to them even if she tries not to. All this also extends in the bedroom and they are usually the best love makers. I have had the pleasure of being with a few of these types, which one in particular comes to mind. The only negative thing I have to say about them, is that they are not immune to "cheating" and can be sex addicts. Guys trying to be masculine can come off like men trying to be women. They overdo it. Ever see those pre-op transexuals. Yes, honey let me tell you honey,(waving the hand with the extra long nails, walking with a twitch and swaying their hips like they ain't got none, and always in make-up and their hair did. Always extra.

Nice. But please don't put me on a pedestal. Hehe.

That's because there isn't. But please take the advices and get help if needed.

You're on a forum where people discuss Spirituality and one of your pet peeves is Spiritual people. Funny

I didn't say that, I can get killed in Dubai. I can get killed in my own driveway. I wouldn't consider it luck. I'm just here living this life however its living through me. But I won't turn it Spiritual. It all doesn't matter, at the end of the day, we all end up in the grave. Apparently. That video was just some random video I chose. There are plenty of those kinds on YT and also showing the most prestigious places in JA too, which I've also been. Doesn't matter. All just experiences.

I wish you guys will stop the assuming. Most men that I have ever dated always asked me where I want to go and even first-time dates. The men I've dated usually left the venue up to me or would make suggestions if I wasn't sure and make sure it was ok with me first. I see a lot of assuming and thinking things are always one way here in the forum. Life is much more versatile than your puny little minds and what your limited perceptions make it out to be. Much more diverse than what you experience in your own little bubbles.

I never lived in these neighborhoods im just showing parts of what it's like in the country I was raised in. I've emigrated to the US for awhile now. I don't understand why someone would ask why I'm not living where I'm not living.

Don't assume what you believe I wouldn't survive. I survived this and many other shit that the people in my country has been exposed to. I was born and raised here and seen a lot of shit so don't make this pretty face fool you. Dont know if it still is but Jamaica was once labelled the #1murder capital of the world. Nothing to be proud about, but don't assume that I couldn't survive those conditions in those countries you talk about. I survived this. Even though where I lived wasn't bad but I've visited these places and used to date drug lords. But I was very young and had a decent life.

ok, I hate pick-up artists. All they want to do is use and abuse women and treat them like a piece of meat. You see, how you switched the conversation to try to suit you because you've ran out of ways to try and sway us to agree with your toxic views about a particular set of people. Now, you are them, and you are me and everybody is one and let's just love the lord and sing kumbaya. I told you you were dangerous and narcisstic and now you're trying to use psychology to cool down the pace. I saw right through you from the beginning.

This is why I don't trust moral people and people who think they can save a particular group of people by talking trash about the people they are supposed to be saving a particular set of people from. Excluding under age, children child molesters and trafficking not talking about real victims of real crimes. But who told him that women need to be saved from horny men who just want to have sex and that's it. Or even love women and their company or even like the idea of pick-up. I've been used and manipulated and trash talked about by the most unsuspecting men who act as if they are gods gift to women more than the blatant, most obvious player there could ever be. I'm not saying I'm going to go have sex with the player because of this reason, i'm just trying to address something here and that is, THINGS ARENT ALWAYS WHAT THEY APPEAR TO BE. It's the sneaky, most wanna-be respectful, kind, soft-spoken, act as if he really cares kinda guy you gotta watch. They are the most dangerous and toxic ones because they will trap you with this facade and bind you with their loving kindness until they've got you beneath their wings, then the true monster comes out and by that time you've invested time and feelings for this con-artist, it takes a lot of work and energy to free yourself from this bondage you've put yourself in.

I can go to the White House for that. Or even the Police Department. Gang bangers have more respect for women than some of these guys. Spare me the details please as none of this stuff is limited to a particular country or occupation. Don't even have to go further than this forum and sit in your house for the rest of your life to be exposed to toxic views about women. I'll save the plane fare thanks.

Thanks again for undermining the female intelligence. Pretend all you want, women are equipped with radars and out of space Alien wap wap binoculars that stretches 1mil kilometers long to detect these handsome looking guys that we don't mind fucking. Lmao. Yeah baby, pick me up baby use me up baby, just don't take my money baby.

Would you know what happiness felt like if you didn't know what sadness felt like. Answer that, and you've answered your own question. Usually, the questions are the answers.

ugg, this is just so one-sided. I've encountered groups of really nice respectable men.

you lost me here, I thought you were referring to a stranger on the street.

I don't care about labels, I look at who the person is, how I'm being treated and how I feel around this person. I'm more interested in how he eats (toxic people usually have terrible diets and eats a whole lot of junk food at ALL times), if he's had any really terrible and horrible break-ups, how was his childhood and how he feels about that today, if he also likes men, if he respects women, if he is capable of respecting my boundaries.....things like that, not just if he has a label of being a pick up artist. That says nothing to me, other than he's a pickup artist.

Single men are even more dangerous. My future husband could be one of those guys at the bar.

hence your name....?

I'm not referring to random people off the street or just some frivolous ole conversations, you're assuming the details. It could be my sister or family member or someone i know very well.

I get on the bus.

I'm not referring to those. Some women get sexually abused by their husbands and bfs, i'm not referring to crimes here, so we don't have to go there.

Guys can make the sweetest love to a woman, I mean really make love to her, caress her all night long, make her feel feminine and loved and wanted and makes her cum before him and kisses her all over and massage her all over and....you get the drift - and dump her the next day. It's not the act that counts it's the intention. Is he doing all that because he really loves her and wants her for his own to cherish and take care of her blah blah blah, or is that just what he likes to do, turns him on, makes him feel useful in bed and feels like he's gods gift to a woman in bed and he's the best she's ever going to encounter and to leave a trademark behind for her to remember him by. This is also the equivalent to the guy who just fucks her brains out and thinking he's doing something to her and for her, then leaves the next day without a trace of her ever seeing him again. It's not the act so much that matters in the end, it's how one feels about it and how one can use that for their own pleasure disregarding the other person's emotions and feelings on how they processed the act.

Some women are just mad because he couldn't make her cum. Some women are just mad because she realized her mistake, Some women are just made because he came too fast some women are just mad because he did nothing for her, some women are just mad because he hurt her pussy and now she's in pain, some women are just mad because he didn't know how to make her feel good, some women are just mad because she might have loved it so much and he disappeared without a trace and she misses that dick, slne wknen are just mad because she regret giving it up that easy, some women are just mad.......to infinity. Had nothing to do with how the guy manipulated his way into her drawers without her consent.