Princess Arabia

Yes, I understand that. It's a belief regardless if true or not. All -isms are.

New insight for me. Never view solipsism in this way. I pretty much understood all you were saying in your statements. Most, if not all. This quote right here, though, made me view solipsism in a different light. As I speak about in my journal how everything is complete in and in of itself, even incompleteness, I just realized how solipsism has to be the case. The problem lies in it's interpretation. Sone see it as one person being alone, others are non-existent or NPC's or whatever. No, the person is total, whether or not they believe they're a real person/individual/separate or not. Is this what you're saying about solipsism in your view, or am I interpreting your meaning differently from how you intended it?

Every man needs to hear this? Some men are out there searching for women to abuse them. They even go as far as to pay women to do so. They get a kick out of it. It turns them on. On the flip side, there are men out there who discard women who aren't mean enough. Don't treat them like shit enough. Don't think these men aren't your next door neighbors and blend right into society. Some are even CEO's, doctors and lawyers and everywhere in between. Personally, I had a male client who was a lawyer. He was a very aggressive, confident man who knew his job and was well respected in his field. He even appeared on TV representing murderers and high-profile cases in the community (not nationwide). He would want me to, as soon as he entered the door, to start treating him like a piece of shit. Put him on all fours and have him bark like a dog. Not just that, as that's kind of a role-play but when I first was introduced to him I neglected him and told him I wasn't interested and spoke to him in a condescending manner because he was going against my standards and what I used to decide if I wanted to have you as a client or not. He would keep calling and wouldn't provide the necessary things I used as verification and so on. I didn't know who he was at the time, but the meaner I got was the more he persisted. I finally gave in and gave him a chance, and I was just wrong in my assessment about him. Meaning, he was legit and serious. I thought he was a prank call. It seemed, though, that the meaner I got was the more he wanted to see me. Anyway, he got off on me role playing to treat him like a little bitch and a slave and like an animal. I didn't do it as harsh as he wanted as I'm not a mistress and I remember him telling me next time to be a bit more aggressive and to make sure it happened as soon as we saw each other. No one knew he was like that outside. It was discretion assured. He wasn't the only one. I also had a guy who I never really got to meet because, according to him, in the pretalk interview, i wasn't mean enough. Another wanted to be my "slave" and wanted to give me his whole paycheck to treat him as such. These were men who had regular jobs, children, friends and lived a normal life. Girls like us would see the other side of society. Other side of "normal" men's fantasies. They saught me out. It wasn't my thing, but as I am in the field, I know how to be what they wanted, somewhat. My interactions were very mild, as there are real dominatrixes out there and even just regular women who live this way. I know you'll say, this is work stuff and paid clients, but it makes no difference, a lot aren't, and are regular relationships. They found the perfect gf for this so they don't have to go out and pay for it. That man in the video with the girl screaming about her chair reminded me of some of these guys. He was loving her screaming at him like that and she knew it. She didn't care because that's how she's always been with him and held still with her. Some guys even will get bored with a loving, kind woman and leave her for an abusive "bitch". All that said, yes, women can be abusive and those men I spoke of probably have trauma or are dysfunctional in some way. Besides the point. Vice versa, some women love that a man abuses them; they'll say it's because he loves me. Not saying it's right and I'm excusing any of these cases, but think about that when showing examples.

The body seems to still go through transformations in deep sleep. Night sweats, Rapid eye movement, trembling, wet dreams, etc. No one need be present for the body to do it's thing whether deep sleep or awake.

The sense of self doesn't realize it isn't real. No amount of do this or do that in spirituality is of any use or any good. It appears to happen. Teachers, mystics, sages, gurus, etc, all there. Students, all there. All empty and void of any meaning. No value but only to the non-existent separate self. Nothing wrong with any of it, but there's no being more fortunate or less fortunate because there's not a separate entity there for that to be happening to. Oprah is no more richer than I am. There is no Oprah and there is no I. That's all illusory and the dream. Now, do I perceive it differently, of course. I wish I had Oprah's money, but that's life wishing that and life saying that. The sense of separation will feel differently and perceive differently, it can't help it even if we change tge context and put another story in it's place. I'm not over here saying all is well and nothing needs to be different and how I'm the same as Oprah and blah blah, of course not. That's meaning and purpose involved and arises in the self. No one can stop that. No one can apply nonduality and no one can see or experience the Absolute perfection that is already. How can that be. Impossible. Why? Because that's also Absolute perfection. Sadness is absolute perfection, trying to apply nonduality is absolute, it's all absolute. There is no escaping this. Your suffering is absolute. Your wanting to escape suffering is absolute. It's all encompassing. Anyone telling you about God is Absolute. Whatever they're saying is Absolute. Agreeing or disagreeing is absolute. Saying there's nothing to do then, is Absolute, not saying that isn't absolute because not doesn't exist. Show me something that's not. Absence is all there is. Once it's shown, it's no longer. How? Why? Nothing known exists because absence is Absolute being present. How? Knowing isn't a collapse, it's subject/object related and both are dual and suggests separation. This is why nothing is really happening and NOTHING is all there is. That's the freedom and liberation that's being saught, but not really, as that's also not really happening. It's a fucking paradox and a mindfuck but not really because there's really no mind. Nothing is being mind which cancels itself out as in collapses into nothing.

Everything is flowing smoothly. Suffering is going smoothly, murder is going smoothly, disagreements is going smoothly, fights going smoothly, hurricanes going smoothly, doubts, malice, hatred, kindness, discrepancies, joy, happiness, somewhat happy is going smoothly, somewhat sad is going smoothly, that cut on the hand is nicely placed there, do you see a cut on the hand trying to be a cut on the foot. That bleeding body is flowing smoothly. Never seen a bleeding body not be a bleeding body. It's all perfect and complete and whole. Being poor is going nicely, rich, not so poor, not so rich all in itself complete. Whatever it is completeness. In between is being in between with no effort. Trying to fix oneself is going nicely. Are you struggling to try and fix yourself, no it's glowing smoothly and perfectly. No results is perfectly being implemented. Results is flowing smoothly. Corruption has no problems being corruption. I don't see corruption trying to be something else. Perceptions are nicely being implemented, whatever they are. Everything is whole and complete in and in of itself. That car accident went smoothly. I am yet to see a car accident that's not a car accident. Point is, everything is perfect, there's nothing that can be fixed and it's all Absolute. Duality is an illusion and it's not really happening. It's being perceived as happening and is also Absolutely non dually happening and also Absolutely everything. All perceived separation is illusory and even that is Absolutely perfect. The problem arises when that sense arises and says there's a problem. That's also Absolute perfection. There's nothing but freedom, liberation and Absolute perfection. Even the notion that it isn't so is Absolute perfection. BUT FOR NO ONE. That's the tragedy and that's all perfection. Ever seen a tragedy not be a tragedy. Life is not for anyone. If it were it wouldn't be unconditional, perfect, liberation and freedom.

I could still be talking to my momma right now even though there's not a body there. The same thing would happen as if she was apparently still here. "Hi mom", no body and there's no answer. "Hi mom", a body and she answers back "hi". Now I'm believing she's a person that answered. Now, everything's fine and I believe my mom is alive and well, well in fact, she was never there to begin with; just a body replying back "hi". I don't and won't hear that reply now saying "hi", back because I believe she's dead. I have proof. I saw a body in a coffin and there's no body in front of me. I was hallucinating her the whole time, now I'm not anymore so I won't hear a reply back. The body isn't here just as that donkey isn't here in front of me so why would I be talking to either. I see both and now I can have a rapport with both. Truth of the matter is it was just a body to begin with. Just as I see a smashed car, I see a dead body. Because I associated my mom to be a person in that body, now she's dead and the car is just a smashed car. There's no difference. That's why people can still hear voices and no body in sight. The body isn't speaking or hearing. It's just hearing and speaking happening. Voice voicing. People aren't crazy. Perceptions just aren't appearing. We misunderstand and now they're lunatics in the psyche ward. Schizophrenia is one such thing. I'll leave this alone for now, as it's a fresh insight I just had and it's all over the place. Jesus, this shit is coming to me in pieces.

It's not a denial of duality, it's an exposure that it isn't real. Not really happening. Fear, anxiety and panics are an effect of that exposure. We fear because something there feels something isn't real. A threat is only a threat when there's someone or something that feels threatened. Why it feels threatened is because it feels, has a sense, that it is happening to it. If that sense wasn't there, we'd all be dead. Not necessarily physically, but the sense of an I, personhood, individuality, separation would cease to exist. The circumstance would still happen, but no one there to perceive a threat or be fearful. It's how the sense of self sustains itself.

Being isn't prior to anything. It is everything. From this, everything else you're saying is delusion. I'll also say, you said, "to know being", being can't be known. I won't even attempt to dissect it all. I'll just leave it be. I know you're sick of me. Razaard will do the rest even though you'll just rebut everything he says. Get one thing off and the rest just follows. Good news is it's all "being" as you put it, I call it nothing, but it doesn't matter and nothing can be wrong in that sense.

Who is seeing the Being. Thought I was being. How can I see myself. I'll leave you alone.

Nothing appears and disappears in the Absolute. Nothing is in anything. The Absolute is everything even the apparent appearing and disappearing. So nothing happens in the Absolute.

When a teacher is in the classroom trying to teach, does she dismiss her classmates when they rebut her or challenges her stance on what she's teaching? No, she doesn't say no more talking to you. You want people to just believe what you're trying to teach and when they keep challenging you say no more talking with you. It's too much to handle. I'm not being disrespectful just a conversation. To me that shows you just want to be heard and spout out your beliefs without hearing any rebuttals. Typical. It's a sign I look out for.

"If" is not a reality.

@EmeraldNicely said.

Ok.

No. The body is writing all on it's own without a you there. It is not a denial of duality. Duality and the Absolute are the same thing. There's no such thing as duality so how can it be denied. That's the dream, a dream that's not happening.

How many times am I going to answer this question. No one is writing. Writing is writing itself. The me will never understand this because it is stuck in it's dream. It is the dream.

So where are the advaita drones located. Where is the something located that's doing it.

Who is the you here that's not in control; and if he's not in control of how the heart, liver, etc works, how is he to let the body do it's job. I guess he's in control of some things but not everything. Just enough control to be still and let the body do it's job. I wonder who's working the heart and liver and who works the "let the body do it's job". See how confused you are.

This is the most ridiculous command. Who are you talking to. Who must let the body do it's job. There's no one there to let the body do it's job. The body is doing it's job regardless. Are you talking to the person outside the body. Not sure. Who?

Makes no sense. Just like typical spirituality. No doer, no self, life goes on, blah blah, then you instruct. Make a call to action. Do this, do that, its a trap. Youre the one in the trap if anything but not really because there's no you to be in a trap. You see it's all already done. All the same thing. Nothing can go wrong and nothing needs to change. Even my saying it makes no sense. Your post sounds good and all to the me but its all nonsense. To love unconditionally? No one can love unconditionally because that is already unconditional love being all dualities and conditional love. The body is not a form appearing within the self. There is no self. Disguise of the mind? There is no mind. When the false self is gone? There is no false self. Stop listening to those Alan Watts, Osho, Eckhart, and whomever else you're listening to. They speak to the dream as you speak to the dream and so does every spiritual teaching. The dream of separation because the whole doesn't need to be taught anything. Nothing wrong with it, but it's all empty and means nothing. It's not about denying duality, it's about recognizing it for what it is. To deny is acknowledgment that it exists. It doesn't. Everything is already not two. I'm not saying you're not correct, but it's within the dream scope. So you're not really telling anyone anything that's of value because the dream just isn't happening in the first place. There's no one there. It's the only illusion. If you really break apart what you're saying it falls to crumbles. There are no traps, no one is denying anything and there is no self, neither true or false.

Women don't typically see men; they see the guy. That particular male. Men see women. Body parts. Looks. She likes him. He tickles her fancy. The look just happens to be there. She looks good to him. He's attracted to her looks. That's why for women, it's not so much men are this and men are that when they're criticizing men. It's, that guy did this to me and that guy did that to me, even if they're talking about men in general. They're not really, in that mind they're imaging a particular guy. For men, they're usually generalizing, seeing it as all or most women. It's very rare where it's personal for men. They like you that way, for marriage, long-term, etc because you like them dearly, you make them feel a certain way, it's not so much the female. Very rare a man has to persuade a woman into marriage. He already knows for the most part, she'll say yes and if not, it's because she's not ready for marriage in general and it's not him. Men like to lock down a female he knows is very much into him. Doesn't want her to get away.

How the hell is earth spinning so rapidly in space but i don't feel it. I'm not even going to attempt geography because i suck at it. My best subjects in school were English, accounts and arts. Went to secretarial college too. Sucked at biology and physics. Hated Literature. I was good at sports. Running and netball (island female version of basketball). Went to church and even got baptized at 14yrs old with my mother. Baptist. When I went on my own at 20/21yrs it took 2yrs after that to figure out religion was not for me. Why is this man shouting in my ear I would say. Notice how pastors shout and gurus whisper. That's enough. Gnite Ariel. That's my body's name. I named my body Ariel. Let's go to bed Ariel. I'm never alone, I got Ariel with me at all times.

What is it that makes one person appear stupid and another appear genius when both were born knowing nothing.

I wonder why Steve Jobs's last words were "wow, wow, wow".