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Yes, so true. I've witnessed this and is also an example of this. I've went out on my own and made a few discoveries, even though it just happened but for languages sake. I have different pov's and speak within a particular way and all of a sudden I'm this neo advaita freak. I didn't even know that what I was saying belonged to some philosophical Spiritual Network or whatever you call it. It's just things that were noticed and things that seemingly fell away. When some changes have been made, it seems like it cannot come from what one recognizes or realizes for themselves, it has to be some other guru that told you and now you're parroting. Sometimes that's the case but not at all times. I've been accused of following people I don't even listen to and have been told I'm not the same like I used to be. Been told I'm not qualified to post on the forum because I don't do psychedelics or I cannot know certain things because I don't use them. Been told I need to meditate or else......(forgot why, because I didn't retain), been told in the dating section that I'm a woman so I can't be qualified to speak on certain things. All the while what I would speak about would go against or not what administrator teaches. I've been put to the side and argued with until administrator would say the same thing I said, and that was when they started agreeing with what I said. It's very rampant here. Some can only share videos from administrator when trying to relate a message or will come on here and share only from one other guru about everything, and I mean everything. Some will say to me I'm advaita but administrator also says the same things in his videos but in a different context, but they are too trained to see it from a different perspective and will become blinded that it's the same thing. I asked a lot of questions on here and couldn't get any definitive answers and that's when I realized there really aren't any questions and not even any answers. Just more concepts and ideas and insights which were just loops upon loops upon loops and didn't get anywhere. I ranted a few times (jokingly), and expressed how i felt about the never-ending cycles, even though nobody really paid me any mind, which is good because I didn't want to have to relive those rants. This isn't about me, but I just wanted to point out that I do agree, but my two-cents is, it really doesn't matter because it's just the Absolute appearing as all those things. Here comes the Advaita freaks.

Energy responding to energy. Emotions aren't physical. It's an energetic response, responding to what's appearing; and because the energy within the body is contracted, the energy's response is claimed to be yours. There's no you to be meaning to do anything because it's the energy at play, not you. There's no you, but we won't go there.

What's the real work. Meditating, doing psychedelics, being good at intellectualism, articulating your point correctly, having awakenings, reaching enlightenment or is it to be able to point out to people what they've gotten wrong and set them straight and show that you know more than them. Which is it, and what's the goal of the work.

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Exactly. Humptity Dumptity hump.

No point in debating with @StarStruckabout existential stuff. He's putting his non-Spiritual life first and leaving that stuff for later after he's exhausted his regular life. Spiritual stuff according to him is for older folks and catching fish for the younger ones. He doesn't realize that that fish he's trying to catch is also a Spiritual fish.

Of course there are things we don't know about most of these so-called gurus. Doesn't mean they're not more peaceful than most or are less angry or gets upset rarely, etc. It's just we don't see those sides so we think they're perfect.

This isn't true, and I'll leave it at that. Doesn't apply to every and not even most healthy-minded women. A woman is emotionally involved even before she meets the guy. She's emotionally involved the moment she's allowed to cry and spill her guts. She's emotionally involved the moment her vagina begins to grow in the womb. Doesn't take complaining. She's emotionally involved before the complaint.

How am I making game about women. I'm merely suggesting what and how I believe women are and how they interact with the opposite sex and the best people I think would be suited for learning more about them. What foes the toxic pills have to do with that. What do I have to do with what a guy thinks and how he responds to his thoughts. Not my responsibility.

If you say so. He's not bad looking himself. I can see through that beard and turban. Very handsome man.

Good one.

Thats true; which is the same as nagging, impatient and thin-skinned.

No guru is going to record their tumultuous life circumstances for the public. Don't be fooled by appearances. He's still just a regular person who just happens to embody the energetic field around his differently.

Nah, therapists have tougher skins than that. They see the mentally challenged everyday and expect the worst and can handle it. It's probably because she never heard such a thing and was taken aback saying I thought I done heard it all. Lol

What does best genetics mean to someone on the outside looking in. Isn't that about looks. How can one tell that someone has good genes without either knowing them first, or based on how they look based on your idea of what good genetics look like. Beats me. Anyway, I won't get into that. Didn't realize an ugly girl with rotten teeth and smells bad with the best personality would be considered top-notch to a man. You said best personality, not looks and personality just best personality, son I'm replying to that. I don't see anybody as being top-notch, by the way. It's just what I like and don't like. My preferences. If I like a man and he happens to be rich, I wouldn't consider him top-notch. If the same is poor, I wouldn't consider him to be not top-notch. Maybe wouldn't be right for me under the circumstances because of my preferences, but could be right for someone else. In the middle either, doesn't matter. Handsome or ugly, doesn't matter. Never about top-notch for me but about compatibility and preferences. Big boobs and porn-stars isn't what women see as any better a woman than any other attractive woman. We don't look at those kinds of things and consider a woman hot or not hot based on those things. You have a point here except I wasn't projecting my mindset unto you, I was merely analyzing yours. Coming back at me with a rebuttal will open my mind up to a different perspective, which you did here, and allows room for different ones. Doesn't mean it's a projection. This is a personal choice, relatively speaking and you're allowed to approach life anyhow you prefer, even though I beg to differ, but that doesn't matter. Either way it's the same difference, can't have one without the other.

No wonder the therapist couldn't answer. She's probably saying to herself, the audacity of you saying I need to earn my way to live. She's probably also saying, you need to earn your way to pay me for my time much less live.

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I hope you're not having to keep explaining your misunderstandings with women as much as you'll probably leave her more confused than before. Hehe. It could probably be a good thing, though, as women love fore-play and that would be a long-lasting fore-play that could lead to some good, understanding love-making. Hehe.

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Either way, usually a woman can sense when a guy cares or not. Remember, we're good at feelings and feelings never lie only mis-guide; meaning, just because it feels good or bad doesn't mean it's right or wrong for you in the moment.

Ok. Hope the equation of adding and subtracting and multiplying, adds up to the correct solution.

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You see it's never enough. Now, it's the top-notch girls. Nothing wrong, just saying. After you get the top-notch girl, then it's unto something else. Nothing wrong, just saying. Let the chase go on, nothing else to do. Never fulfilled, nothing wrong, just saying. So disappointing you have to develop the "don't take it personal strategy". Another strategy is the "raise your consciousness" strategy. The stupid girls, as you call them, keep outsmarting you and your survival strategy to not go mad is to not take it personal . But take it personal enough to raise your consciousness enough to outsmart them. "The only thing you have control over is your intention", you said. Still looking for control. Hanging on for dear life. "Setting high-quality, high-priority intentions is power," you said. Trying to gain power, to be powerful. "While everything outside of that is force and tiresome", you said. It's getting to you. Very exhausting being an individual isn't it. Tiresome and energy-draining. Always having to beat the system, always having something to defeat. So, by setting your own intentions, now you only have yourself to compete with. Can't blame nobody but yourself. The problem with that is it breeds low-confidence, low self-esteem. You call them top-notch, putting them up on a pedestal. A pedestal means out-of-reach. So now you blame yourself and call it "emotional baggage". You didn't notice it with the not so top-notch girls. You considered yourself at the same level or they were beneath you. You didn't stand out. So now the pedestal is above you and now you find faults within yourself as to why you can't reach the pedestal. It's my "emotional baggage". As long as I can fix that, I'll reach it. "The not-so-smart girls aren't do stupid because they are life-givers which makes them instinctively smart enough to out-smart what you believe is good enough tricks to try and out-smart them. It's mother nature's gift to them and taking that personal isn't the smart way to go about that. It's best to just surrender to mother nature or else you'll get traumatized and not procreate. Best reward is to love life and life will love you back or else the hateful life will hate you back". This is what you're basically saying. This is more of a "how to become a victim of life circumstances" post rather than a solution to a victims' mindset post. There are no solutions here, it's only revealing how tired you are of the struggles and challenges you're facing with women and the power you think you had over them and by you raising the bar without raising your consciousness level how that's not a good thing. So now to become more of a victim you want to raise your consciousness to deal with the higher levels you've set for yourself and that will solve that problem. Why that won't work is if you are capable of making $1000 easily, making another $1000 is not a challenge. So getting the top notch girl leaves you no-where to go because she won't be top-notch anymore. You're trying to reach the top-notch and since she won't be top-notch anymore, you'll consider yourself declining and going backwards with the next pursuit or still trying for the next top-top notch. A bigger and better top-notch. Endless cycle. The don't-take-it personal approach is spot-on but for the wrong reasons. It's because there's nothing personal about you and life is not about you. I will leave it at that. The rest will figure itself out when you've gotten knocked down enough.

Quoting yourself?