Princess Arabia

It doesn't prove it, but you might have a point there.

Humans hate every fucking thing. We hate the rich, the poor, all races, nationalities, beautiful people, ugly people, skinny people, fat people, men, women, animals, ourselves, the Liberals, the Republicans, gay people, just make a choice; something to hate. Then we make up excuses to justify our hatred saying all this and all that is a certain way just to cover-up our own self-hatred. Pointing the finger at something in the outside world as a target for that inner hate. The energy has to go somewhere. Instead of looking within to see where that hate is coming from, we make up all kinds of stories about the hated. They are this and they are that. "ALL" we say. Not just the ones we've met, but all. That in itself should tell you it's just projected hate coming from within, from the heart. Now we go around asking for solutions to this problem and that problem that we're having. Oh! I can't get laid, please help. I'm depressed because of so and so, should I take psychedelics. Or I have low self-esteem, I need help feeling confident. LOVE trumps all. Find the love inside and most of our so-called problems will dissolve. The hate that you feel for whatever it is that you hate is hurting you more than the thing being hated. Humans create their own demise without realizing it. Then we wonder why we suffer. That hate energy made it on a public forum, now others got infected because they are also lost and their hate energy found itself some company and now the hate party got started.

This whole talk is so shallow and silly. Ignorance is bliss and misery loves company. Such biases and nonsense. Stereotyping only from what you've all experienced from the millions of attractive women world-wide.

What happen to your other post where you're Mr. Hot Shot, where everybody loves you.

This makes sense of "death". It's cool, I think. Another thing to tell people who you want to get rid of. They'll be like 'bye, talk to you later.... or not.

I have my own built in ear-plugs. Excuse me, excuse me, can't hear you, what, speak up, what was that. Them: Aw, fuck this. Me: Next.

Looks like the guy from American Psycho movie who kept looking in the mirror while having sex.

If I went to a bar and saw this guy like this I would think he was either gay, waiting for somebody, trying to hit on the bartender or just got divorced and feeling depressed.

@OldManCorcoranwould love to hear your thoughts (even though they are mine, lol) on the blind, the deaf and the dumb. They are still communicating and functioning in society with a little help, of course, as in the blind, with walking sticks and the deaf and dumb, sign language. I'm more referring to people who were born this way. How is this connected to what you're saying in the OP. I've always wondered why people are born with some of the senses missing. Seems like what you're saying is so, and that we aren't really using our senses, it only appears that way.

It's not about you being horny but more about how you conduct yourself while having those horny feelings. A woman is not going to say to herself this dude is horny so I'm not going to have sex with him.

Are you only speaking from what you think might happen, or is this a constant reoccurrence? This seems a bit problematic if you can't just walk around without an erection. A woman showing cleavage is very common. If that's all it takes, then you might have a problem. You're not even speaking of going to a strip club or even a nude beach or something like that, but just walking around.

I'm not a guy and a male could respond to this better than I can but I'm still interacting with the male species and I do walk around in society where I don't see every other guy, even the majority, or any for that matter (maybe one or two in my whole lifetime) walking around with an out-of-control erection just by being in public with an attractive female.

The irony of this is that having to unload before a date to seem smart and authentic is not going to make you automatically smart and authentic. That's just buying you time till you get horny again. Building a bond and connection with a partner is a great thing to do inspite of sex not a means to get sex. Own up to your horniness. Embrace your high sex drive, but don't make excuses for it or try to push it away with temporary methods and practices. The trick here is to be able to feel it while you're on a date without needing to exercise it or doing something about it then and there. It's called self-control. Your whole post is wreaking of how to manipulate your way into getting sex. Not trying to enjoy whomever you're with and really enjoying their company. It looks like you're saying the opposite and your arguments seem pure and they sound good to the naked ear, but if one really tune in to what the intention is and reading between the lines, it becomes obvious you're trying hard to not just care about sex but the one you're sexing. Like it's something you're working on. Nothing wrong with that. One should also try to be authentic and smart and confident and whatever other positive traits not just for the sake of impressing a partner but for the sake of doing these things for yourself to improve your life on a whole.

This is not how it works. If that was the case, most men who had something great happening inside them wouldn't have problems dating and women wouldn't end up with not-so-great men, which happens all the time. Also, maybe attraction cannot be taught but seduction can be, hence the book by Robet Greene, The Art of Seduction. It's a little bit more complicated than something great happening inside of you is how to attract women, Plenty of assholes attract women more so than nice guys.

Very powerful.

Happy Holidays to you and all forum members and guests. Thank you @Schizophonia same to you. @Leo GuraThank you for creating this forum and for making this possible. Enjoy the holidays everyone. Where's my gift? Yours is on the way. Check your emails. You: Checking emails.

Well, it's because of your narcissm why you failed to see through my dark humor.

Maybe you need to ask a question first.

Ok Mr. UUUUMMMM. That's my new name for you. Did you break your ankle Mr. UUUUMMMM. OK now let's not derail the thread.

Uuuummm could mean anything. Like uuuummmm hey there asshole.

I really didnt think you were him but it kinda had me guessing. That's the influence @Schizophonia has on my mind; always keeps me guessing. He's full of surprises and is always coming up with original thoughts and ideas which he likes to put on paper. Anyway, nice story and maybe you'll meet again someday.

@SchizophoniaI think you are @Mesopotamianin disguise. Your comment to me about how you're not interpreting anything, if I don't trust you and you explaining what happened behind the scenes, reveals that. But, I could be wrong. That comment made no sense coming from someone who didnt write the initial post. Then again, you make no sense half the time. You're also explaining what he didn't find attractive about her while non of this was in the original post.

You are missing the point. My life is a story and I'm not denying that. What I'm saying is the stuff the mind makes up about what we experience can cause mental pain and suffering. I'm talking about being deluded, wrong assumptions, ideas about a thing that are only fitting into our current paradigm and beliefs. They can cause us to enter into a world that doesn't exist but only in our minds. We have constructed that and now we've become alienated from Reality and not conscious. This is how you become present, this is how suffering stops or become drastically reduced. It takes a certain level of awareness to understand what I'm pointing to here. @Yimpathis is kind of what I'm talking about and referring to. Not precisely, but close enough. It just happened to pop up on my feed a few mins ago, I didn't go searching for it. This is kinda what I'm talking about, when you drop your stories and ideas and interpretations about life to a minimal, life begins to line up for you. It's an easier way to become aligned with Reality and be more into the flow state. It's like this video revealed itself to me right after having the conversation with you. It happens all the time. I see lots of synchronicities because of this practice.