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Not necessarily looks. Maybe not extremely unattractive but lots of happily married women, especially in prestige neighborhoods have rich husband's taking care of them while they stay home or some do work but don't have to. Lots of different circumstances and situations are happening in society that we don't know about. We usually just talk about the ones we're familiar with or hear a lot about. You'd be surprised. The value part is correct but providing value means different things to different people.

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Please don't ask this question on this forum. You will get a lot of answers you might not able to handle. There's one here already that thinks in order for someone to be generous they have to be needy. Another called them neurotic and telling you how to go satisfy a man. From your previous posts, I don't think you are ready for these answers. This is a male dominated forum and most of them are having trouble even finding dates much less to be telling you where to go find a guy to spend money on you. Not the place for this unless you want to get roasted. I wouldn't even answer that because the way you worded the question seems a bit gold diggerish and you don't want to come off as that type of girl on a forum full of men.

Don't be fooled by the fact that I'm a female. These male/female topics don't get me excited enough to get emotionally charged and worked up about. I might discuss them and share opinions and suggestions, but it takes more than these kinds of topics to get me emotionally charged. If we were to start talking about the food industry and all the poisons they put out for human consumption and how many people are mentally and physically incapacitated from consuming their poison, maybe I'll get a bit worked up; but i'm even working on taming my emotions on that topic these days because I'm learning not to fight for what I'm against but to advocate more for what i'm for.

This argument never flies with me. It's like saying a female doctor can never treat a male patient. I cannot tell you what an erection feels like and a lot of other things the male body goes through, but that's a totally different thing from saying to you I don't walk around seeing men unable to control an erection from just walking with a cleavage-showing female. Also, I don't have ill intentions nor do I feel like I need to empower myself by needing men to have uncontrollable erections. That's just silly. If that's how you feel empowered and call it a lifehack to have to jerk-off before a date, then more power to you.

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I don't just watch stuff I agree with just to prove my existing beliefs or to reiterate my existing one. I like to see the other side too, this way I'm not just coming up with totally biased arguments. I will sit there and watch a Republicans channel all day even if I'm liberal just to see how the other side thinks and operates (analogy of course as I don't engage much in politics). I'm aware of my biases and false thinking about certain topics, so if I'm going to speak about it, I like to hear the other side of what I'm opposed to see if there's something I'm missing. You forgot to mention the part where he said to be honest i kinda liked what she did (non-verbatim). Those men are just fighting against something not for what they stand for, They are not genuine in their stances and will lead men like you astray who haven't been hurt like they have been. You're just frustrated.

I might have misunderstood what he meant, which is ok; but I have better ways to operate my mind than to DELIBERATELY misinterpret someone's post. If you're telling me that I have too much confusion in my thinking then you can't blame my poor mind for saying what It said then. You can't have it both ways. It's either I'm confused or I'm not. So don't expect anything better from a confused mind.

Ok, thanks for the clarification. I always like your input on things, especially on these topics, so please don't take it personal. I just like to think things through for myself and whenever I hear something that I either don't understand or don't agree with, I'll either ask for clarification or state my stance on it respectfully. Thank you for your understanding.

Because of all your posts and the way you speak and talk about yourself. You feel ENTITLED not worthy. There's a different energy that comes with both feelings.

My response to you was just my feeling and opinion, which I started it out by saying "SEEMED TO BE". No need to quote it fully, but i was just expressing how I felt about what you were saying. I could have easily mis-understood you, and even if I didn't, it wasn't meant to disqualify your points but merely for you to maybe expand on it a bit further and explain how what I said differed from what you were pointing to.

I read your report that you tagged from 2020, it was a joy to read. Very inspiring.

Getting somewhere? This is starting to become a chore with you and it's obvious you're not looking for guidance. You're just looking to talk about this stuff and share nonsensical videos like the one you shared with the chicks dancing and the red pill mgtow narrator complaining about a girl that grabbed his ass while expressing how he enjoyed it.

I was being sarcastic because emphasis is always placed on how easy some women are, and dumb and whatever else demeaning terms we use to describe women. My sarcasm was based on the fact that men aren't too hard to get either and they are always ready to have sex and some with whomever is willing to give it up.

The difference is that these asshole men that keep getting women are not vibrating on a frequency of lack of getting women, you are. I try to explain things to you but you constantly come up with excuses and your own reasonings based on your current mindset, way of thinking, being and refuse to get out of your own way. You are reasoning from the same mind that created the problem. I kinda see you trying to make a difference because you wouldn't be here constantly explaining what's going on with you but, you keep justifying and trying to solve you own issues in a way like "see, I told you so" or looking for answers that reiterate you existing beliefs about women and showing red pill videos. Those assholes aren't asking what's wrong with me why I can't get pussy, they don't go around saying women are this and women are that and act in ways to repel women. There are different ways to be an ass. Your kind is disrespectful and loathing and you dont see yourself worthy. These assholes do. There's a big difference.

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I'm through with responding to you. Won't keep up this charade any longer. Wish you luck.

@Keryo Koffathanks for your input. A bit complicated to read and understand in a flow state as i had to keep going back to register what I read to process it; but that's just your personal style of writing which I've noticed and it's quite interesting. You remind me of an intellectual autistic genius who would drive me crazy with all the complicated analogies and rhyme and reasoning that I would have to meditate on for days but loving every minute of it just from the mind getting stimulated in a way it's not used to.

@CoolDreamThanksI loved reading your post. It was like I went for a Spiritual joyride. I resonated with it deeply and some of the things you wrote I've also witnessed or experienced. One is looking for simple stuff at home and asking to show me where it is, and the next place I look it's there. That's a common occurrence. Also singing a song and turning on the radio and the same song is playing. Lot's of synchronicities and they keep coming because I acknowledge them out loud when I notice. Your whole expression of your experiences was a pleasure to read, thank you.

Ok thank you. I understand that about the people's pain part and don't go ruminating about it and i do try to help them the best I can, if I can; but it still doesn't negate the fact that I can feel their pain as if it were mine. They don't know this, though, as my reaction can sometimes come off as being cold and also with a hint of anger, but I've come to recognize that It's my way of avoiding those inner emotions that i feel when I see someone going through mental suffering and my way of disassociating from those feelings. I've done it quite a lot on this forum where I might sound angry or frustrated with someone while explaining something but it's because I hate to see them go through what they're going through so unnecessarily and I can feel their pain even through the computer. Thanks for your input.

Yes but this explanation seems to be like a warning of what to do or not to do because of the ego. If one becomes truly Enlightened, which just happens, why would one need to be concerned with what the ego might attach itself to. I personally don't think a human can experience total "non-separation" while in this body, enlightened or not. I don't even think it's possible to have that experience. Maybe feel a sense of oneness but not totally.

Ok thank you. I'm not Enlightened but I've been through some of the things you mentioned and experienced. One of them is I cannot feel insulted anymore. Maybe that's just because I've developed a thick skin from dealing with people's shit and also recognizing that it's usually about them and not me. I never really had anxiety problems, always slept good, very rarely feel bored maybe because there's always something to distract me from being silent and meditating even though I do those things on the spur of the moment regularly if i'm not too distracted. A lot of the stuff you mentioned, I'm naturally like that as far as being in public and I'm very free spirited. I do have a sense of self, though, even though i've seen through the illusion of a separate self, if that makes sense. It's pretty obvious to me but I still operate from the egoic mind. My body is going through some changes where I have dramatic cravings that I've never had before and I find myself weeping sometimes just from feeling presence within and the life force flowing through me. I've gotten a lot more sensitive to people's suffering and much more empathetic than I used to be. I cannot stand it when I see people going through mental suffering, it's as if I'm the one feeling their pain - that has increases. Just writing that sentence tore me up a bit. Anyway, I think I went through a shift in consciousness and have had a teeny bit of Awakening and experienced some changes but I still don't really think anyone gets really enlightened only Awakened only because of the plane we reside on called Earth and the conditions just aren't suited for the mental capacity to really experience Oneness in it's pure form. I won't get into that aspect for the sake of brevity and I'm probably wrong about that but who knows.

@Osaidthank you for that explanation. Can it become a gradual thing or does it just happen all at once.

I don't think non-duality is including in this; I think it's just enlightenment. Non-duality is a thing not a belief.

The human mind likes to complicate things. Experience is the best teacher in this domain and lots of practice.