Princess Arabia

@Water by the RiverWow, that was a fucking ride. I think I got enlightened just by reading that. Of course not, because I'm still a separate self and still engulfed in this illusory world, even though I understand that it is just illusory and I'm not this entity I so very much am identified with. I have seen through a lot of the illusion which is just our ideas of Reality and am beginning to recognize the Self only through recognizing what I'm not and the process of elimination. I cannot find the small self, though, no matter how hard I try and jokingly say to myself all the time "self, I cannot find you, where are you". I'll sit there and go within and all i notice is this "thing" that's there at all times just present in the background. When I was much younger, I remember I used to say to myself "what is this thing that just jeeps following me around everywhere I go". Now, even when I look back at my past and seeing it in the mind's eye, it just seems like nothing really happened, like I can't put myself there, I can only recall the circumstances but having no recollection of me actually being present. Half of my past i can't even remember and my siblings are having to constantly remind me of so and so and this person and that person; and no, I'm not developing dementia. Your post was really had me going and was a joy to read. For some reason, I'm obsessed with this "thing" whatever it is, and my curiosity is only expanding more and more to the point where, even if I try to stop finding out more, my engine won't hit the brakes. It's like it's the one driving me and I'm just in the back seat being driven.

you are missing the point just like many men do. It is not the inadequacy of the external male's genitalia, but more about how most women cannot have orgasms just through penile penetration alone. Most need clitoral stimulation which thrusting alone cannot achieve. Only a small percentage are able to achieve this. Why does it have to be a matter of lacking or feeling like a victim or thinking that men are the problem, it's none of these things. It's about the structure of the vagina. Some can achieve orgasms through penetration alone, but most do not. Has nothing to do with a man's inabilities. If you need to do a Google search on this to understand what I'm saying here because I just did (not for confirmation, but just to see what is being said about this). If you have a week to spare, you can go ahead and take a look and probably learn a thing or two because it's all over on numerous platforms and quite a few websites. The problem with most men is they don't take the time to learn about the women they're so adamantly chasing and wanting so bad to get laid with, they just take it for granted that we're just simple beings biologically and that as long as the guy has a big dick everything should be fine and dandy unaware of the fact that most times it's only good for letting us scream and moan but when it comes to having an orgasm it's an entirely different story. You guys can go ahead and keep blabbering about attractiveness and genetics and whatever else, but the real issue is how well do you know a woman's body. Not too many, and of course, not too many care to. Most are only concerned with how many hot chicks they can get and their own sexual gratification. I've met a few guys who genuinely cared about giving a woman pleasure how she liked it and asked what made her cum, but not many do as it's not their prime concern and most don't even know how. A woman can fake being pleasured by a big dick and even fake her orgasms, and many do, so don't be fooled into thinking that you have satisfied her all the time by a few moan and groans because of your big dick, even though it may feel good at times depending on if the guy knows what he's doing but a far cry from actually making her cum with just penetration alone. Nothing I said here was pertaining to you personally, only the first two paragraphs which was in response to your original comment. The rest was just me blabbering on.

Not everybody can fight everything. We are all not equipped for everything that needs attention. Someone else can take care of that aspect while I take care of what I can control. We are all not made for the same things. I'm not saying everyone should leave well alone, but to concentrate on what is in your domain and at reach. Whatever that is.

You obviously don't know women's bodies.

I can tell the guys who are actually hooking up with women. They're not on here asking how to dress, and where to move to, and if girls like tall or short guys or how to be attractive to women. They're just out there the old fashion way and getting their foot wet and just doing it.

Between 70%-90% of women don't reach orgasms with penetration alone. So a 2 incher still has potential to make a woman cum if he knows how.

Oops! That's going too far ahead of your time, How about don't even know who we are, gotta know that first.

Oh, didn't know you meant that, thought you meant just regular 'ole beliefs that we have as humans. Ok then, nothing new.

Sorry to hear. Hope he recovers from it well.

Nonduality doesn't need to benefit from anything. It is what it is. Silence is the best practice, so I'll just shut up. Hehe.

It's not a matter of letting go of beliefs once you recognize who you are. It's just changing your beliefs into what suits you and is working for you, because all beliefs are false and is only there for us to build our stories upon. It doesn't matter what you believe, it will become true for you, if it's believed in long enough. Even the belief that it's difficult to let go of beliefs is still a belief that you bought into and now you are seeing it to be the case.

Love the story. Could have made it juicier, though. Infinite stories for Infinite Realities. Your choice. It's only so because you, as Source of all your creations, says it's so and now you will continue to see evidence of that because your world is just a creation of your own mind. If you tell me that it is what you see "out there" and you have proof and evidence, then you're just unaware of what Reality is and how your focus and attention influences all of that to fit into your own dream. Change the story, change your experiences, that's why things are ever-changing and nothing stands still; it is to fit inside our own relative dream. It wouldn't be possible if everything was still. Life is fair precisely for this reason, we're just unaware of it.

Exactly, he will make this woman feel more intensely the feelings she has bottled up inside that she craves to express that a bulky six pack kind of guy who is more concerned about his looks can ever bring out in her. She doesn't care about all that, lt's only how this guy makes her feel and she will cherish him for that. Look how hot she is.

yeah, I can see that also, even if he's unattractive at first to her, she'll start to view him as attractive by how other women sees him. That can happen. That's out of curiosity and will even like him more because of that out of being curious. But if he doesn't make her feel a particular way, she'll not want to be with him sexually.

OK, I understand.

Don't just love it because it fits inside your own biases, world views about relationships etc. See it for what it is without judgement; because if you look deep within your own psyche, you are doing the same thing in some other way and with some other thing or you wouldn't have been able to understand it the way you did and assessed it in the way you did. It's not simply an observation with you, it's because it IS within you. We cannot see anything outside of our own consciousness that's why it's not wise to judge and or condemn people for doing things the best way they know how to survive that particular identity they have ascribed to their character which are many simultaneously. You are doing the same thing as a person who identifies as single and see no point in relationships. Same thing as not wanting to have any beliefs is still a belief.

Yeah, I get it, but I bet he's their idol. They looked up to him and see him in their mind's eye when playing, no matter what level. It's called inspiration. They are in touch with his spirit as they move and that's what drives them; whether it's Michael or some other being or thing that is above them on that scale.

It's how the short fat guy makes them feel. We are all seeking a feeling. The FEELING is the SECRET. These guys don't know anything about that. Looks are important, but what is the look. Short and fat could be the look. That's what looks are important mean for a woman. How does that look make HER feel, not how does it make YOU feel. But hey,.I don't know anything since I'm just an emotional babe just looking for someone to love and get attached to and with no clue what a man goes through.

That's what Alien Consciousness looks like in the mind's eye.

I said this in a comment I made before that the very attractive girls aren't out seeking attractive looking males. Most of the times their husband or bfs are just average looking. Listening to these guys talk about looks and wanting hot chick's, they have no idea what it takes to land a hot looking chick and looking all attractive in your lovely dress code, being muscular or fit with a six pack and 6' tall silhouette with a bank account with 6figures isn't the main catch. The catch is HOW YOU MAKE HER FEEL. Go figure that out instead of just trying to get your rocks off by them. (Not you, just saying in general).

Lol, once I had a car stop to allow me to cross the street while the light was green and I was patiently waiting for it to change and I wasn't even wearing anything revealing, just the hair was fabulous that day. The power of sexy hair.

Love this post. I remember about 2yrs ago, I closed my eyes and, for the first time, noticed shapes and forms floating around in the black screen. I was amazed at what I was seeing. Whenever I focused on it, it would get brighter; but when my mind drifted, it would kind of go away until I focused again. It was beautiful and reminded me of something I couldn't put my finger on. I didn't think anything much of it and dismissed it as just an eye effect. Deep down I knew it mean something existential but I didn't know what. Now, this post makes me understand what that was. I will do this exercise the way you phrased it and experiment with it some more, now that I know what it is. Not everything I resonate with when I hear it, but this I do and will delve deeper, mainly because it's so intriguing to witness. Thank you. What is that headband you posted and where to get it. @Jowblob This post is underrated and is partially what life is all about which is to explore the existential nature of ones Self. No outside forces needed except the equipment used. The best kind of self-exploration. FABULOUS.

The "problem" is, most of us aren't living like this in our daily lives. Some call it woo woo stuff and tell you to get real 'cause this is the real world with real problems not recognizing how the mind creates the illusion of problems and how thought can reflect what is not actually the case but something we are projecting. Thanks for uploading this, I will watch it again to remind myself about the illusory nature of thought because this is really the stuff im into and have seen how it has destroyed so many lives and has turned us into self-destroying machines. Plus I just love this stuff.

I AM. That's the word. I AM. Whatever you say after I AM is what you as God is declaring to be in the moment. God is you and the I AM is what you're being. I AM a doctor is what God is being. I AM a human, I AM an idiot....whatever. There is only one I AM and that is why everybody says I AM....viewing itself from different perspectives.