Princess Arabia

Nice.

Stop giving excuses for your promiscuities or inability to be monogamous. As a human species is the word, nothing special about the fact that men can't keep it in their pants. It's not a man thing. Its normal for women too.

Just to see you, or she was going anyway?

cant wait

its not always always always about improving the "NoSELF". Thought there was NoSelf, so whose doing the improving. You even have a double whammy dose of this as your name suggests. It wasn't enough for you to say it once, but twice. NO SELF I repeat NoSelfSelf. The forum has different sub-topics politics is not about self-improvement. There's also an off-topic, fun section.

Is that possible. Would love to see a pic of her. Maybe tell her about the forum and ask her if its OK to post a pic. She might not mind.

You don't know how true Jack shit it. I'm not posting a video here to try to put you in a good mood. The goal us to change the subconscious mind. Not to fucking put you in a good mood, you can manifest of attract in a bad mood. Doesn't matter. Some people say we really don't attract we align or whatever the word. THE ONLY REASON YOURE ACTING LIKE A SPOILT CHILD about all this saying, "that's just not good enough" and you can't wait and blah blah" is because DEEP DOWN YOU KNOW IT'S ALL YOU and YOU ARE EVERY FUCKING THING AND EVERY EXPERIENCE, YOU ARE FUCKING GOD, and you are asleep and dreaming EVEN DREAMING That its hard and blah blah. That's why. People don't ask deep enough questions so we don't get deep enough answers. We stop at the surface. There's a reason why you feel this way and its not because you're lazy or you're REALLY traumatized or whatever negative thing we might say. ITS BECAUSE YOU ARE ALL THERE IS. BUT that's another topic. Most of the world isn't going around depressed have anxiety odd add ofl bkp cjy or whatever else we diagnose ourselves with because thats just life and deal with it. No, its because deep deep deep down there's a truth were not aligned with and all these energetic patterns have gotten distorted and has manifested distortion and dysfunction in our lives. But there's something deep down that knows the truth of who we are so you will fucking have temper tantrums and complain about this and complain about that and whine and bitch and moan and want to kill ourselves because deep down we know but we just don't know how.

Idk, but I never said anything about you have to wait for so and so or its gonna take this much time. I said, DONT WORRY ABOUT TIMING. That means take your mind off of the amount of time it will take and don't be concerned with that. Telling you to not worry about the timing and you saying you're not willing to wait is like me saying this is an apple, take it and you responding thanks for the orange. The Universe knows nothing about time. Everything is happening NOW. You already have your date. You just have to align your frequency to match up to that frequency, that's where the video comes in. That's what it's for. Everything, everywhere all at once, literally. No 20yrs, no future. The future never comes. We only experience time because we would go crazy if we didn't. The brain is designed that way. I cannot be explaining every little detail to you, if you don't know the basics. Learn about yourself and the Universe. How the subconscious works etcetc. so I don't have to keep explaining every little detail to you. You already see progress, you already experienced something out the norm for you after just watching the video a couple of times. Imagine just sticking with it and dropping all your resistance and all that stuff you carry on with. IMAGINE THAT. You can't always listen to what everybody says, including me, but I'm just saying. YOU DONT HAVE TO PUT IN HARD WORK AND LABOR to get what you want. The Universe is mental and requires for us to align our minds and hearts. Etcetc. You can choose one or the other, put in hard work and labor or using the mind and generating from within. That's a program, the hard work stuff. That's coming from conditioning. Do you see the sun putting in hard work and labor to shine, or the moon or the birds to fly, even your heart to beat or whatever, that's a man-made concept. Not saying no work is needed but it becomes effortless when you're not struggling or putting in HARD WORK. Thats not how things work. But you have to REALLY understand what that truly means. It doesn't mean to be lazy and just expect things to be handed to you. I can't keep explaining every little detail, if you want to understand go do your research or just watch the friggin video without complaining, there's too much to explain and for you to really understand it takes more than a long-ass forum comment and you'll also be distracted by other peoples comments who don't know what they're talking about when it comes to certain things. I'm not even gonna proofread this so excuse all the typos.

It's never the video itself. It's you. The thing is, you're not recognizing your own power so it is being done for you (so-to-speak). Everything is coming from you. You just need some help, but understand that it's still you doing it all. Just try to keep logic and reason out of it and go with the flow. The subconscious mind is illogical so leave all the logic behind.

Don't be concerned with this, just stick with the basics. You can barely find one, now you're concerned about multiple. Learn the principles which can then be applied to anything. Again, don't be concerned with timing. That's the conscious mind still trying to control. Let that go. Just do the processes and allow the Universe to do it's thing. The mind will get involved and causes resistance. Don't be concerned with any of the how and when. That's not your job. The video is only activating what's already inside of you and you don't want the conscious, logical mind to get in the way. Just imagine what it would feel like. Don't really imagine a person in particular, leave space for anyone to enter. Don't focus too much on the logistics of the video, the main thing is to tune in to the frequency of love and attraction, let it penetrate you.

Did you listen to the video. Tell me about that. How long. Nice that you met a sweetie pie. Not surprised she was feminine and sweet. Thats how shit works sometimes.

Yeah, right. Now, I'm going to want to study that sentence to see where the real message is at. That's how my mind interprets things. I'll be like, no that wasn't a typo, that's what happened. That was meant to be. 😂

This is exactly what i've been trying to tell some people on this forum. What your words because they have meaning. Not inherently, but they come with feelings and these feelings can put us in a state of despair. Saying we lost something implies now we have to go searching for it, while it's right there within us. Claiming a certain condition as in "my arthritis" implies it ain't going nowhere, cause it's now mine.

My mom and dad screwing, I end up growing in my momma's belly and shoot out of her vagina with some strangers watching while my daddy is out drinking beer and I'm crying like someone just took my teddy bear away, and sucking on my momma's titties to eat, taken home to grow up and figure out what the hell i'm doing here in all this chaos and having to figure out a way to survive and deal with the consequences of mommy and daddy screwing each other and having me as a result. After all that, comes the fact that I have to live this life and survive this thing that I never asked to be a part of while my momma dies and is back to glory land while leaving me here to suffer in this hell whole piece of shit called life. NOW, THAT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE. All that being said, i couldn't have asked for anything else and nothing will ever take the place of all that I've experienced to be right here, right now where I'm at. Nothing will ever come close to what and how I feel to just exist. Hell hole or not, heaven or not, wacky avatars or boring scenarios or not. Doesn't matter. Now, that is what makes sense

This is a comment i made to Leo in the "guys who think it's easy for girls" (something like that) thread. So, you're not the only one. I wouldn't say cute, but handsome. I think you're extremely physically attractive especially in those photos you have on Instagram. The one in the white shirt and the one with the sunglasses especially, amongst others on there. Have you ever looked at your hands and fingers, they are perfectly designed, ever looked at the shape and structure of your head and how your ears stand out perfectly in conjunction and proportioned with your facial structure. Ever notice how your forehead isn't too big nor too small but is symmetrically aligned with your lips and cheek bones. Ever notice.........i could go on. If that's having a fixation then so be it. You are very photogenic and I think you would kick some ass in looks if you would feel that way about yourself. You don't see it because of your ideas of what you think is physically attractive for a man. You even have the height, which isn't necessary but is usually not a turn off. Plus that hairy chest of yours turns some women on.

Learn how to choose your words wisely, especially when dealing with self-confidence and trying to improve how to manage how we feel. The word failure is disempowering. You said it in the end, "never stop trying". Saying, "to be successful, you really have to keep trying and our relationship to effort has to be one where we will never stop trying", is so much more empowering to the mind. Look at your heading. That's why you feel like a "loser". It implies failure. You use that word twice in the same sentence here and you wonder why you feel like a loser. I'm not nick-picking here. Just pointing out some nuances that you might not be aware of. Another thing I notice you mentioning is how you have to work on this and work on that. That's also not registering positively in the mind. The mind doesn't like to "work", it's lazy; say improve on. Which one sounds better "self-improvement" or "self-work". There's a reason for that. This is why most of us find it hard to "do the work" because of how the mind interprets the word "work". Saying 'it's something i would like to get better at", relates better. @mmKayreally do make some good points too. I bet you it took a lot of training the mind to get to that level of thought process. It's just a matter of re-contextualizing. Starting to see things from a new perspective.

So true. If we walked around naked all the time, the naked body wouldn't even be arousing anymore to some. We'd have to rely totally on mental stimulation. Which is what is being stimulated anyway from vision, but we don't see it that way. We think it's purely from vision. The "men are visual creatures" line, to me, is pure hogwash and is purely overlooked that the reason why we get turned on visually, is because of how the mind interprets it as in a woman's hips suggests childbirth and youth. Women are also visual creatures, just in a different way. But both stem from the brain.

I told you, your post would fly over some heads. They're just not going deeper and what they are saying also has another level to it, going backwards. Even what you're saying, but we have to stop somewhere or we'll end up in the void. Haha

Ever since I saw that somewhere, I started peeling bananas from the opposite end. It really is easier. Learn from the chimps.

How can there be a process to become Awakened or Enlightened if time doesn't exist. If time is an illusion, and we say we are doing things to awaken and doing Spiritual practices to awaken, aren't those futile. I'm not saying one shouldn't do practices or meditate or whatever it is that we do, but I'm just wondering how is it possible to achieve something as awakening if it isn't already the case. I understand that Reality appears in a linear fashion in order for us to make sense of it; but it is only an appearance. We also say on an existential level there is no difference between anything and it's only the mind that makes these distinctions and it's all One. Where is the existential division between someone who is awake and someone who is not. Isn't that just mind and thought. I also put enlightenment in this category as it is said they are two separate things. Leo has said in his videos that there is no difference between me and a coffee table, so how is there a real difference here in awakening versus not being awake and isn't that also an appearance as opposed to what really is the case. Creation is already finished, and what is just is. We are only drawing from this Infinite field of Infinite possibilities experiences that are aligned with our states of being, so to become awake one has to be in alignment to have that experience of being awake; but since Enlightenment is not an experience how is it possible that some are and some aren't.

He was just kidding. Lighten up. It'll feel very refreshing and less burdensome. He was just being playful. Geesh, you must be suffering a whole lot due to the mind. Crack a joke once in a while. Laugh at yourself. Take some pressure off. Let go of the past. Free your mind. It has enslaved you. It pains me to see this. Stop ruminating on what was, and try to see every moment fresh, like a little kid, but in a mature way. Not everything has to bother you so. Life is what it is. Let go of yourself. You will see how much better you start to feel within. Saying this with lots of love and respect.

Now, now, that's a little too advanced for me. I'll have to write that down and contemplate on that one. Hehe. No, I got it. The good can rise above but the Great has no where else to go. I think that's it.

@Consept You said, "to add context". This is how we create our story. You had to add the context to match up with your current life to make it make sense why you're feeling the way you do. When I say, I see how I'm creating this character, (which I've said in a previous post), this is what I'm talking about. And you will keep adding on more context after context to build more structures and more context and weave that storyline some more. This is how I observe myself doing the same thing, by hearing others tell their stories. It wasn't enough to view it as what happened, it needed a storyline to make it make sense. Geesh, the egoic mind is deeply embed and it gets deeper and deeper. What will happen 10yrs from now, is something will happen in your life and you will tell the story of how you lost or drew a football game and felt bad about it and blah, blah and that's why you're the way you are and thats why I did what I did, just like you're saying about being anxious and ocd. I'm not undermining your situation, just bringing to your awareness how we build our characters and are believing in them. I'm sorry, but I've heard and seen too much to not notice these things anymore. We live in the past and future never in the present. That's what creates suffering, along with identifying with personhood.