Princess Arabia

Ok, so my words are an illusion appearing real. So that's reality. It doesn't matter, like I said about word games, it changes nothing. If what I'm saying is hogshit, then it's hogshit. Doesn't even matter if I have full understanding or not because the man up the street probably doesn't even understand his wife but we will end up the same place when this apparent dream is over or whatever you want to call it.

It's OK. If someone told me I was an apple, I wouldn't get mad I would laugh my ass off, because it sounded absurd. Enough said.

These are just words. We give meaning to words. There's no escaping anything. Like you said we cannot escape duality with non-duality because non-duality is duality. If I appear short standing beside a tall person and i appear tall standing beside a short person I will still be the same height. If I appear wise to a fool and I appear foolish to wise person, doesn't make me any wiser or any more foolish, both collapses and I'll be the same as I was before. You see, it doesn't matter what you or I say, what is, is and no amount of word play can change that. Duality and non-duality are the same thing, neither one is real because saying non-duality implies there is duality, which is just an illusion.

This is even more powerful.

Proved my point. You're not in control. If you were, she'd be in your bed right now. All you're talking about here are just stories about why you messed up. Keeping you in the dream.

Doesn't matter. The message is nothing anyway. If I correct it or don't correct it, doesn't make a difference. There's no meaning to it.

I'm in tears right now writing this. It fully hit me. THIS IS IT. As I am writing this, this is it. My writing is it. My crying is it. It is right here right now. Unfolding as I write. NOW NOW NOW. When I wrote the words NOW, NOW, NOW that was it, but now it is these words. Words that can never be captured. Each letter is a millisecond too long. The camera can't capture it. This is it. There is no moment. No Now, just now, now, now, now, now, now, to infinity. Not even forever because I,m not in forever, I'm right now. I don't know about forever. I remember a minute ago but I don't know about what I will do in 3mins. It us only NOW, I can imagine what might happen in 3 min but I don't know what ill be doing in 3 min. There is only now and i just missed it because now is another now and that now just turned into this now. It is me, yes me. It is me writing this, I am confused. Is it the chair also I don't know wait, it is not me I don't know. All I know is it is here nit there. It is here. You will say, well if there's a me then thats not it. Bullshit i font care about semantics I don't know what words to use all I know is it is whats happening right now, right where I am sitting, I don't know how to say it but it is this. My cat just went outside but she isn't infront of me so I cannot say my cat is a part of this but I can say that it is live right now doing me. It is whats happening now. It is not you, it is me writing on this computer. IT is me imagining you. It is me imagining that you will read this. It is me imagining what you will say but its nit you right now. It is me writing this imagining what I will be saying and typing when I'm responding. It is doing this through me as me. I am conscious that it is doing this through me. Its like a live show. It is there too but not really because it is here. But if you look around you it is it. Whatever is happening around you now it is it. But I'm just imagining that so i don't know. I will post now.

Fair enough. I can't tell you how and what to dream. It is what it is, like you said. Dance, baby dance.

Thought so. NP.

Ok, more power to you, wherever you are and whatever it is that you love.

I'm not sure if you quoted the right person here. Where did I mention alone.

That's not what you said in your previous comment. What you described here is not an illusion and I never said it was. You really didn't achieve anything because everybody here and all there is, is it. Never was any different. You're not really dancing with anything, dancing is happening. All the "I" you've mentioned here is the dream. It never really happened. Just appears so. Not even the dancing. Just apparent.

There ya go. Saying it is truth, not saying it is truth. Doesn't matter.

That's the dream. The fact is there are no facts, there is no fiction. What is is and that's it. No complications, no stories, no ideas, even though, that's also it. Doesn't matter. Show me something that is not. There's no time nor space how can there be an evolutionary cycle. That evolutionary cycle you're talking about is within the dream. Let me know when you have accomplished what you so talk about in all your comments. Let me know when you have arrived. Let me know when you have broken all limits and become whatever it is that yours trying to become. I will give you my phone number if you need to so when and if you turn 80yrs old and still trying or have arrived. Let me know and i will stop this madness.

Delusion. The girls are God. "the girls are not worth it", doesn't care what you think. You're seeking worth, something to value. Everything is value and nothing is value. Your going straight to the point means nothing, because there is no point. Loving the girls is loving the self, if you want to go there. See my signature. Even you not loving the girls and saying girls aren't worth it, is also unconditional love. Unconditional love includes you not loving the girls. It is love without conditions. Doesn't matter what appears, it's still love. You will suffer in the dream of separation because you think you're choosing to love or not love. Of course, the suffering is an illusion but it will surely feel that way to the one who thinks it's separate.

This comment is so demeaning. Saying "if you are not attracting a girl you are not hot enough", if you are ugly and low status, you need to use love". So demeaning. Saying if you are a loving person and she will be attracted to that is such hogwash. If that's the case, every man who attracts a woman is loving and there are nothing but loving relationships between a man and a woman and it's the woman's fault why it's not loving since the man is the one whose loving. Of course, that's just my interpretation of what's been said, so it means nothing. Sometimes I even wonder if you really think through what it is that you're saying. Then again, this is the chaotic Universe at play. Can't argue with that.

Love the title of this thread. It sums it all up.

@James1231,2,3....going, going, going, still here?

Nothing to rebut this because you said it perfectly "battle of words". I could say there's no you to not want to disappear because there's no you to disappear. So let the battle of words battle itself. 😊😊

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You are not choosing to talk or not talk. You are not even choosing to leave or not leave. That's why you're still here responding to my comment. Your words of "I is the biggest illusion'" are empty words. There is no "I" so how can the "I' be the illusion. The illusion is you thinking you're the one saying there's no "I". That's the biggest mind-fuck.