Princess Arabia

You never said what she said when you told her you're not comfortable with it. That's the important part. That reveals a lot. Was she ok with your decision. Did she frown. Did she ask you why you weren't comfortable with it.

OMG!

Exintrovert

Same 'ole story.

Suffering is an illusion. It is an appearance. God does not suffer. What does God have to suffer about. It is everything.

I buy this black soap from the African store and liquify it myself and pretty much use it for everything. Dishes, laundry and shower. I also buy Dr. Bronner's soap and use that too for dishes, laundry and shower. I might buy regular laundry detergent if I'm low on the other stuff or out, but I definately only use the black or bronner soap for showering and on my skin. I'll try to upload the black soap and you can Google Dr. Bronner if you haven't heard of that brand. That's made from natural oils and is chemical-free but use sparingly as it is very potent. This isn't the exact soap but it's similar and looks like it. Plenty of options online. Just Google black soap. I buy mine locally close to where I live direct from the African store. I break it up in pieces and put it in a large pot on the stove with water and slowly melt it down and transfer to bottles. Lasts a lot longer that way. I buy a $7 soap and it turns into about 7 16oz bottles worth.

Stop saying it takes years. You don't know that. If you say it will take years, it will take years, but no sense putting a time on something of this nature.

Thank you.

@EmotionalmosquitoI know you're not coming down on me, if anything it's vice versa - but it's coming from a place of caring and compassion even though sometimes I can express that a bit harshly. Go study the Universal law of Assumption from a reputable source. It really does work; in fact it's working on you now just not in your favor because you're assuming things that aren't serving you. It's very hard to change one's mindset because it's so deeply embedded in the psyche, but it has to been done to see changes in one's life. You don't go around making support groups of situations that aren't going right in your life. What that does is keep you entangled within that energy and keep you stuck in a loop. If one is broke and trying to get $$, it isn't wise to start a support group that keeps pointing out why you are broke and to invite other broke people to the group to muster and welp about their brokenness. If anything, it is more advisable to study wealthy people and focus on wealth than why you're broke. Same for your situation. The heading for this thread is a death trap. Death to the aliveness that's inside of you to potentially borne an identity of one who is loved by women, going on dates and enjoying this part of the experience that life has to offer. If I were you, I'd ask for it to be locked and start another one with maybe a heading like "hopeful men who see a promising sex-filled future" or " let's do this guys, we expect to be loved too" or "we no longer believe in the Incel concept, let's go, post your success stories" something in those lines. Not fucking HOPELESS INCELS SUPPORT GROUP. Why do you think alcoholics are having to keep saying they are alcoholics even though they have not had a drink in years. The reason is when they go to alcoholics anonymous, they tell them to introduce themselves as "Hi, my name is Akex, and I AM an alcoholic. Now that identity is stuck with them for the rest of their lives. Saying I AM an incel, and believing that you are that, keeps you stuck in that identity. Now, your brain's RAS system is seeking for ways to keep you in that world because that's where your focus is. I cannot go inside of your consciousness for you and change the thoughts that are arising from it nor can I personally or actively change your belief systems. You have to do that yourself. It will take an intention first. The intent of experiencing the act of sex. Seeing it in the mind's eye. Not posting videos of guys ranting on about young girls grabbing asses and if the shoe was on the other foot, men would be chastised for that while still saying he enjoyed it. Not starting threads about hopeless incels. I would suggest that you stop making excuses as to what you think is happening why you can't get laid. Cut out all the stories why this is not happening and start to see yourself doing it, but not from a place of I wish, I crave it or I hope. If you want to watch videos on the topic, watch people who are in relationships, who are having a good time with their partner, videos on how to attract girls or SP videos. Once I saw you wrote how you were repelled with people making out in public or showing affection to each other in public. Why would that energy want to be around you, if you're repelled by it. I wouldn't want to be around you either if you were repelled by me. Watch your thought, change your beliefs, start to like public displays of affection as that's the only time you'll see it in real life except for in videos or tv. Get your brain used to seeing that and loving it. Finally, stop rebutting every single advice to you. Stop making excuses as to why this and why that - even if you believe it to be the case because the only reason why you keep believing it is because you keep seeing, it and the reason you keep seeing it is because you believe it. This was long because I'm not going to keep this up with you. I'm not going to keep rebutting your rebuttals. My empathetic nature will step in and this energy will start to drain me. If I see some change in your willingness to even try to get out of that loop you're in, maybe then, but I won't continue to try to help someone who keeps going on the same path that leads to nowhere.

Ok,

I know, right. Mike Tyson is short. Lol. Then again he'd be the one beating me up and I'd need protection from him. So either way, doesn't matter.

From my Soul to yours. BTW, what's your height.

Ok Sir. So empathetic I felt all that screaming. lol. Thank you for your wise words.

This right here shows you are just ranting and raving. Makes no sense how you classify what you're saying as ALL women, but you put men into categories. Some are good and some are bad but all women are bad. Make sense into what you're fussing about or you won't be taken seriously by anyone with a bit of deductive reasoning.

Avoid stress, you avoid drugs, so that equals out to just stress,😜

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My ex.

Lol

Why are you assuming that. Did you ask me if I've experienced what I'm speaking of. You're doing the same thing you're accusing me of. You have the belief that you can't believe anything you read on this forum or hear from spiritual teachers and you're assuming I'm doing the same thing. You're the one posting a specific problem you're dealing with here then turn around saying you can't believe ANYTHING you read on this forum. That doesn't even make sense as far as your saying that in accordance with your actions. Good luck with your perfectionism and I hope that energetic pattern finds itself a new home. Thanks for acknowledging my efforts.

Ok God! Declare away.

Great! Glad to be of service. Please come back to this and report how it worked for you so maybe others can be inspired to do the same. Even if it wasn't satisfactory.

No, he's waking up.

On your girth maybe.

It hurts your soul because you are denying who you are. You are saying to your soul you don't deserve to be loved. It hurts your soul because of the false limiting beliefs you have adopted from society. I could go on, but that's what you're feeling. Your soul is crying out to you to change your beliefs and you have abandoned it by worshipping idols. In this case, the idol is men taller than you.