Princess Arabia

Thanks again for undermining the female intelligence. Pretend all you want, women are equipped with radars and out of space Alien wap wap binoculars that stretches 1mil kilometers long to detect these handsome looking guys that we don't mind fucking. Lmao. Yeah baby, pick me up baby use me up baby, just don't take my money baby.

Would you know what happiness felt like if you didn't know what sadness felt like. Answer that, and you've answered your own question. Usually, the questions are the answers.

ugg, this is just so one-sided. I've encountered groups of really nice respectable men.

you lost me here, I thought you were referring to a stranger on the street.

I don't care about labels, I look at who the person is, how I'm being treated and how I feel around this person. I'm more interested in how he eats (toxic people usually have terrible diets and eats a whole lot of junk food at ALL times), if he's had any really terrible and horrible break-ups, how was his childhood and how he feels about that today, if he also likes men, if he respects women, if he is capable of respecting my boundaries.....things like that, not just if he has a label of being a pick up artist. That says nothing to me, other than he's a pickup artist.

Single men are even more dangerous. My future husband could be one of those guys at the bar.

hence your name....?

I'm not referring to random people off the street or just some frivolous ole conversations, you're assuming the details. It could be my sister or family member or someone i know very well.

I get on the bus.

I'm not referring to those. Some women get sexually abused by their husbands and bfs, i'm not referring to crimes here, so we don't have to go there.

Guys can make the sweetest love to a woman, I mean really make love to her, caress her all night long, make her feel feminine and loved and wanted and makes her cum before him and kisses her all over and massage her all over and....you get the drift - and dump her the next day. It's not the act that counts it's the intention. Is he doing all that because he really loves her and wants her for his own to cherish and take care of her blah blah blah, or is that just what he likes to do, turns him on, makes him feel useful in bed and feels like he's gods gift to a woman in bed and he's the best she's ever going to encounter and to leave a trademark behind for her to remember him by. This is also the equivalent to the guy who just fucks her brains out and thinking he's doing something to her and for her, then leaves the next day without a trace of her ever seeing him again. It's not the act so much that matters in the end, it's how one feels about it and how one can use that for their own pleasure disregarding the other person's emotions and feelings on how they processed the act.

Some women are just mad because he couldn't make her cum. Some women are just mad because she realized her mistake, Some women are just made because he came too fast some women are just mad because he did nothing for her, some women are just mad because he hurt her pussy and now she's in pain, some women are just mad because he didn't know how to make her feel good, some women are just mad because she might have loved it so much and he disappeared without a trace and she misses that dick, slne wknen are just mad because she regret giving it up that easy, some women are just mad.......to infinity. Had nothing to do with how the guy manipulated his way into her drawers without her consent.

The problem is, men don't think women sometimes wants to have casual sex sometimes without the touch feely bit. Just see a guy she likes and fuck his brains out then go home and doesn't want to see or hear from him again. Nothing wrong with that, even if the guy wants to see her again. She didn't force him to have sex with her and didn't have to lie about it. Are you aware there are tons of women like this. The thing is it will take more than what a guy is wearing, unlike men with women, it will take more than what a guy is saying it's more of what he doesn't says. The irony is, it doesn't take much if a woman wants to fuck you. As long as you don't fuck that shit up, it's a done deal, no matter what. No playing on your part made that happen, no manipulation on your part made that happen, MO wheeling and scheming on your part made that happen, either her or the alcohol made that choice from the get go. Only with very young girls there's a problem here as in minors or very, very, young teens. Where they don't really have the capacity to make their own decisions around this matter. That's why there are laws to protect children and I won't go there, but a grown ass woman can decide on her own without manipulation who she wants to sleep with. Men give themselves too much credit for getting that pussy. Thinking it was their doing when most times it was their "not doing" that's the cause of them getting laid. You didn't fuck it up, you didn't say something to make her change her mind, it's nothing you actually said or did, but more what you didn't say. Sometimes humor plays a factor because women like funny men and men who make them laugh, but if she wasn't down before ain't nothing you can say or do that will change her mind - only on rear occasions. Women are the most sneaky creatures when it comes to sex than men can ever imagine. We just know how to manipulate that and hide it behind the fact that men are already and have already considered themselves horny pigs so we don't have to use that energy to try and convince them to do anything, because they are usually willing as long as she's their type and sometimes not even, we just save all that convincing energy for the selection/rejection process.

This is why women like men who have been around because now they don't have to worry too much about the desperate guy who barely gets any and who isn't familiar with women and will even just want to talk and have fun since he's not a desperate horny dog,.

Here we go again. Thinking sex is dirty and that if a guy has sex with you it's automatic treating us like a piece of meat. Ever stop to think that there's nothing wrong if a guy wants to look at women like a piece of meat. That's his prerogative. Player- piece of meat isn't analogous. A player could also just love women, love sex and enjoys having sex with multiple women. If you call that treating women like a piece of meat then so be it, we don't mind. If we choose to have sex with players who in their minds we're just a piece of meat, that doesn't make a woman less of a woman. She may enjoy being looked at as a piece of meat. Whats wrong with that. C'mon baby, fuck me baby, do you love this pussy, baby, yeah baby give it to me baby. How many times you think wives have said that to her husband. Maybe happens a lot. Aren't those words implying a piece of meat. A piece of meat to fuck and enjoy and have pleasure. I'm not talking about a guy who blatantly disrespects you, who says disrespectful things to you, who treats you like a piece of shit and demeans you, being a creep or belittling you, I'm talking about just in general. People treat people as pieces of meat all the time husbands, wives, gfs, bfs, no problem. Its the disrespect that matters, its the belittling that matters, its the fuck you bitch, you're nothing than a piece of meat to me that matters, which a woman can tell, but there's nothing wrong if a guy respects his piece of meat, if he doesn't talk down to his piece of meat, if he holds his piece of meat with desire and lust and really cares for his piece of meat in the moment. Nothing wrong with that. Piece of meat is just an expression, it's just words, could mean anything. Could mean a loving husband who never sleeps with another woman for the rest of his life and only looks at his piece of meat wife who he would die for and love with all his heart. Don't get caught up in words, the meaning behind those words is what counts.

I think this is so.

Oh my, i hope this thread doesn't turn into a sexual debate about what women wear. Well, to be fair, if it's a pet peeve, its a pet peeve. But just to let you know, if a female wears a pair of pants tight or not, that's not her oversexualizing, that's you sexualizing her. Just so you know, a woman's body is a woman's body, it would be very terrible and traumatizing if we had to wake up everyday and worry about how we can dress today to not sexualize ourselves, to dress appropriately so that horny men won't see what we're wearing as sexualizing ourselves and that certain clothes will naturally reveal our figures without us even trying. That would be such mental agony to have to worry about those things just because it is troublesome to men to see us in something called a yoga pants. It gets frustrating to us since we just call ourselves just wearing certain clothes we like and thinks it's comfortable or feminine or whatever and guys think we're wearing it for them or guys get turned on by it then blame us for that when were not even thinking about them sometimes when we choose to wear certain clothes. Sometimes women wear certain clothes to try and attract men, yes, but even those same women aren't doing it all the time even when they wear revealing clothes.

That's way young, but with these men nowadays on steroids, drugs, alcohol, stimulants and eating poorly, there's probably going to be a surge of this at this age. I've even heard of guys in their 20/30's taking Viagara.

Maybe a sex change. Even men at 80 still get horny, they just have a harder time getting up and staying up. It never ends. Let's hear it, how do you know, you're not a man. Well, I have news for you I'm a woman. Enough said.

Oh, you mean on my pic, it's the reflection of the light of God shining on me. Lol. It's the reflection of the light in the room.

?? Is that a riddle, metaphor, paradox or labyrinth.

Lol. That's how it feels when I'm answering these comments raw and unfiltered. After I hit the submit reply, I just move unto another thread, incase I change my mind after the volcano cools down and decide to hide it. Somebody will read it anyway, so might as well leave it there for the intended target.

Nice, but what you're doing here is almost equivalent to telling someone who is afraid of spiders in the moment a spider is present. "Eek, a spider, oh my god come and get him, I'm afraid". "That's nonsense, really ask yourself, are spiders harmful, is it true, is it absolutely true, how would you feel without that thought, reverse it". "Ok, eek, a spider, oh my satan, come and get her, I'm terrified". Reversed. Still afraid. Still spooked out. Irrational fear makes no rational sense as in the OP's. No kind of reverse that thought will change that. That needs some serious therapy or just facing the fear; and in this case, just go dive in head-on in some ultra pretty woman's pussy for hours on end until he is drained and can't take it anymore and got his dose of pretty woman's pussy complex fix.

Sometimes I curse myself for being so raw and unfiltered and speaking my mouth without reflecting on how I'm coming across. I have to apologize sometimes on here to certain people for this same thing even though I've tamed it down a bit and have chosen to ignore some user's comments because I don't want to have to get too raw and stir up the pot. But as I was reading his comments, I couldn't help but feel ........idk, a sense of defenselessness, as if women were incapable of choosing who we want to sleep with or that we needed some kind of saving. My fingers just kept on typing and it was just coming out as I was feeling it. You have a very good way of articulating your points in this department and I'm sure that can be attributed to experience on a professional level and, as I have seen, working with specific people one on one and also as per your website. Thank you for your presence here; and as at one point i was the only female that was responding to these kinds of discussions; for the most part, except for a few here or there who doesn't visit pretty often. Sometimes, it's good to hear from more than one female's perspective even if we don't agree so it doesn't seem as if she's just venting and responding due to personal issues.

I don't know about now (actually, I do, from half the grammar on this forum), but growing up in a Third World Country where I attended high school, the Third World country's schools were "kicking asses" in their curriculum as opposed to schools in the U.S.A. at the same level. Ever seen the poor kids in India on Spelling Bee. Ever heard how the high school kids speak in the U.S.A. So bad that they had to create their own language called Ebonics. Even though I'm speaking about the black communities with respect to Ebonics, the U.S.A is not recognized as a poor country, which is what your post is about. I was also kicking ass here in the USA when I migrated and went to college. I was above just about everyone in my classes there who were at the same level of education. Out of four subjects, I got 2A's and 2B's in the one semester that I completed. IQ has nothing to do with being poor or rich. Lots of dumb ass rich kids. Matter of fact, EQ and SQ are more important than IQ. Emotional Intelligence and Spiritual Intelligence.