Princess Arabia

Why don't you just go on YT for tutorials on the subject. Plenty of videos I assume are on there for this.

Maybe give some answers or show how my reasonings are not valid or give some explanations to what I was negating instead of telling me I should be an English Teacher. When I speak as I speak, it's because I've thought for myself and came up with what I see to be or not be the case. Of course, I can be wrong and i'm open-minded enough to listen to what others have to say about things to see if they fit into what I've constructed after I've deconstructed. It's all constructs and nothing is meld in stone. I refuse to listen to the herd and just follow blindly what some dead spiritual guru have to say about life and reality, if all is one and there's no separation, how can there be an observer, is a start for one. Convince me otherwise. Plenty where that came from. I see spirituality being used as a means to end suffering and that's where my skepticisms arose from. People are looking for a way out, what sounds good, not for what actually is. You just post a video and expect it to be revered because it's by some respected past guru. Well, I'm challenging it. Who am I. He says I'm the witness. I'm not the body or mind or what I can perceive. Where is the space that doesn't actually exist for me to step aside from to perceive what it is I'm not and why do we even need some other human being to tell us who we are in the first place. Your response only showed more group-think and how you're following blindly what you've been told.

What I've found, and this is mostly with older men, the #1 thing that attracts men to women is a woman's hair. Not saying that's the only thing, but it's a major part. Tits and ass are only there because of too much porn consumption and those women bring out that side in men that see a pair of big boobs. Fantasies start going wild and what they would do to her. A woman with their hair type will be more attractive overall and seen as beautiful even if her boobs are small and her ass isn't big. Beautiful hair and also a beautiful face gets them every time and sometimes it's the hair that makes her look beautiful.

This is actually a dating and relationship journal. I threw the other one out because I didn't think I'd want to talk too much on this topic from a female perspective on a male dominated forum. I've decided to try again because I find myself wanting to say some things but without tainting my other journal which is mostly about reality and spirituality. Plus, I can. Some might even appreciate a female's perspective on this in this field and maybe learn a thing or two about how we think. I don't know, I'll just let it flow and see how it goes. I love the title I gave it. I think it's a but catchy. I'm feeling adventurous right now even though there's nothing adventurous in my dating life. Anyone can comment and jump in for some tea or coffee or some wine and cheese. Just don't overstay your welcome and leave after the date. Don't spend the night. I need a ring for that. Hehe.

Why would someone stop talking to you because you study Literature. Plus being 6ft, muscular and an avid gym goer has nothing to do with getting women. Infact, it's more of a turn off because you probably look like you spend more time in the mirror than her and self-absorbed. Not saying you are....just saying. Plus plenty of ordinary broke guys out there getting laid because they're playful, young and don't give a fuck, plus they have a sex-appeal to them that certain females like. A female into men with money will still go have sex with a broke guy for the fun of it; she just won't get attached or get serious. Most guys with money who don't have a problem with or understand that women like security, are probably having healthy relationships with their women instead of having hang-ups about how she just want me for my money. They respect them more than the ones out there dating and putting up with losers who can't do anything for them and some see it as an opportunity to level up so they can start to attract the women they really want. It's all a matter of perspective. How many ugly, fat, unattractive women are you interested in dating. Probably not much - same difference, only switched around. Guys also have their preferences.

Jamaican Icon.

Jamaica, beautiful island in the West Indies where I grew up, is known for it's cultural background. Our national motto is "Out Of Many One People" which alludes to the various ethnic groups among the population; which, to-date, stands at approximately 3million people. Here I will be posting videos and making posts about the different aspects of this very diverse Caribbean Island including, sports, food, music, politics, news, environment, and about the country in general. I'll start with this introductory video that states a few facts about the country.

Who is he talking to? Filled with contradictions. The body dies, he says, yet nothing dies, he also says. Perceiver and observer is separation of which there is none. Who is supposed to grasp those words and live by those words if who I am is beyond the beyond. If i am whatever he said I am, I can't talk, I can't, listen, perceive or understand nor can I grasp or get anything. So, whoever I am, doesn't know anything if I am beyond everything. Knowing requires a position in space and time. Sounds good to the 'lost soul/energy' trying to find itself, which it never will because it's everything.

There's your answer.

You need to stop this idiotic reasoning. Lots of rapists are married or have gfs. Lots of flashers do it out of perversion not from sexual frustration. How is one getting their normal healthy sexual needs met by flashing. The root cause of sexual harassment is not from sexual frustration, it's from perverting thinking and a need to express this dysfunction.

Why do you think they are so many mental illnesses. Suffering, depression, anxiety, etcetc and so many go through the motions, it's because most are detached from reality. What seems to be the norm, isn't. If I speak something that sounds radical to the conditioned ears, I'm sounding crazy and depersonalized or seem to be detached or whatever else word is used to describe it. Most are so used to this way of living that if it's not the case, things seem abnormal. See someone smiling all day and they seem weird. Friendly people are suspicious and monogamy is revered. Most walk around with a chip on their shoulder, have a bone to pick with the world, seem like zombies and whatever else that seems like the norm. When I speak from a more natural way of what reality is like, I'm seen as the one detached from reality. The so-called human being seem to think the world revolves around them and that they're the most important thing in the world. They live in their own reality and keep on trying to fix things to suit their fancy and complain about everything and everyone that doesn't fit inside their illusory world. There's nothing natural and normal about a personal identity as it is a construct, yet we think it's what is. No it's not. We own everything and think we have to figure out how to maneuver this world to survive and be the best at what we think we're the best at. There's nothing real about any of this and something knows and realizes this. Nothing can be changed about this either nor does it need to. One is already detached from reality the moment they seem to realize that they are separate and there are others. When they seem to think they have autonomy and they are thinking their thoughts. When they think they have free will and choice and that there is a way to maneuver what is happening. When they seem to think there is a person in there with a life that is having emotions and doing things. That's the automatic detachment that confuses that energy into thinking it's a separate individual in charge of and responsible for it's own happiness and survival. It's ll an illusion and noone is doing anything ever and this is total and nothing is separate. No one can do anything about this because no one did anything to bring it about in the first place and there's no one anyway that can and ever will do anything. I'm not immune to this either.

Ok. You're saying the same thing I'm saying. You just have a word for those guys.

I didn't say lots of men are. All I said was it's possible for a man to end up sleeping with a lot of women without setting that intention. Read my words for what they are saying, not for what you think i'm saying or your interpretation of it.

What's so silly about that statement. A man can end up sleeping with a lot of women in his life without setting that intention. What's so stupid about that statement. I just don't get it why that's so hard to understand.

Of course its harder for men to get sex than women. Women aren't going around trying to get sex just for sex's sake (of course there are exceptions) but it's a bit more challenging for them to find someone THEY WANT TO have sex with. Nothing impressive about screwing a bunch of women just because they look good or because they're willing to give it up. Something impressive about trying to find a man of means to help support you and your potential family or be of assistance in some way as a woman and has your best interest in mind and are able to find one. Just because money is hard to come by are you going to go rob a bank, no, you go do the best you can to earn it. As far as sex with women goes men see it as hard to come by, so that justifies my wanting to sleep with a lot of women and cheering on guys that do.

God is denying the existence of God.

So I just briefly did a Google search. Very brief because I didn't want to spend too much time on it. Men incarcerated for child support was like 2mil (USA). Wedding business is booming and is a lucrative business. Baby clothes is a lucrative business and lots of Valentine Day dates. This does not suggest that men aren't getting laid or are in relationships and that only the top 10-20% of men are the only ones getting dates and the rest of the incel reports. This is how you tell what's really going in in the dating world. Not listen to stories or look at fake stats. I'll tell you exactly what's happening. Most of what I mentioned above those women (not all, but most) are average looking women maybe even overweight or just ordinary looking. Most of what's being reported is coming from guys who want hot women. This is why they say it's only the top whatever percentage of men getting these women . Probably so. They can't find hot women to date and now there's an epidemic. Guys are having problems finding hot chicks. That's the fucking problem. Look at the video of canal street. Go look at Las Vegas shows that show the streets downtown and on the strip and other places like these. Tons of couples. Those women usually look ordinary but they're still holding hands with their loved one. This is what you do. Do the raw research. Not listen to some closeted incel or guys who sit in the basement or getting so-called rejected from cold approach where the female don't know him from Adam. That's not how you tell the raw truth. Go deep inside. Go to court tv. See how many couples there for domestic charges, stuff like that. All those reports about men having it hard......NO...they are having it hard finding hot females to date. That's it.

That's no secret and nothing to get repulsed about. There are worse things that some men do that's more repulsive to women; one of them is calling women sluts and whores while he's slutting and whoring down the town himself and trying to get into every pants he can. Another one is men who deliberately want to sleep with a lot of women. I say deliberately because sleeping with a lot of women can just happen, but if that's your goal, it's a turn off for women. They won't say it, but it is. It's only other men that finds this impressive.

And that's smart.

Maybe, but at least she's looking out for her future, kids, lifestyle and well-being. What's big boobs or a hot woman going to do after 50yrs. She's investing in herself. Call that superficial if you like.

That's for men. Most women are craving the men, not the sex. The sex is usually the cream on top for women. We don't go around craving sex for sex's sake, like men do. Women are in it for the men, and that's where they fall short most of the time.

Maybe these women are traumatized, dysfunctional and have low-self esteem. Not all women are like this and not even most. I won't deny the bad boy thing being attractive and all but a rapist, misogynist and woman beater and abuse r aren't being saught after by the average woman and those don't carry an air of adventure and fun with them. The bad boy syndrome does and maybe a philanderer or a guy like Andrew Tate but not worse as in murderer or rapist and to that extreme.