Princess Arabia

This is so true. Goes for pretty much anything in life. Same difference.

Well, you're still here so i see you're back from that jump. You're very handsome. One of the most handsome guys I've ever seen that doesn't look gay. You know, the suave, model looking, Rico Suave, looking in the mirror more than you type. No, your handsomeness is warm and inviting. Like come here baby, let me just rub your face and give you a big hug and snuggle under you like I do with my big giant teddy bear, lmao.

This "difficult to understand from a female perspective" line does not carry over for every male issue. I get this all the time here when I speak about sexuality, dating, getting laid etc. I do understand that certain issues or circumstances will be difficult to speak on or not be understandable from our perspective, but not in this case. Why, because I'm the one you're trying to lay. I'm the one who can tell you what may work or not, I'm the one who is doing the "rejecting", I'm the one being chased, I'm the one laying down with you....get the point. I cannot tell you what an erection feels like, I cannot tell you what "rejection from a woman" feels like, I cannot tell you certain things in this domain, but I can surely make suggestions, give advice, reassure, make comparisons, etc. I'm not saying don't be proactive. Be proactive ALL THE TIME. Make it a natural way to be, if that is your goal or intent. If you say I will stop trying to get laid once I find a gf or get married or for whatever reason, then wipe it off the map; but until then, treat it normal (even if it's not). Don't make it a chore. Every time you leave the house to go anywhere, keep it in the background running. Be open to meeting "the one to get laid by" anywhere, anytime. This approach is less stressful, makes you less anxious, give you more options, chances of succeeding gets higher, no one is off limits (within your likeness). If you're telling yourself I will only try to get laid when I set the intention to do cold approaches or only when I go out to a club or only whatever, then the girl that slipped you by at the icecream shop that dropped her napkin on purpose for you to pick up for her because she finds you attractive and that the Universe probably put in your space (yeah, it happens) while you're busy thinking about the nervous night you're going to have tonight at the stupid club you really don't want to go to trying to pick up a hot big- breasted chick with a small waist and a nice firm butt with blonde hair wearing a red dress whose 5'5'. Exaggerating a point, but do you get it. Yes, the other methods work too but why not be vigilant at all times in an indirect manner. I know I've met guys in the grocery store, at gas stations, getting pizza, in health food stores etc. Not saying getting laid but smiling, small talking, exchanging names shaking hands whatever and just normal chit chatting about whatever. I'm just saying talk to people everywhere as long as they reciprocate and just use good judgement and when it comes to girls just make it relaxed and ask for numbers and however else you do it. The club is different because a lot of times people hook up from there and one-night stands happen and people are drinking and more loose, but I'm speaking just in general or even for guys who hate the cubs or bars or who have social anxiety. Women usually don't go around saying I need to get laid, or I wanna get laid tonight or any of that. We're usually laying up on the spur of the moment or with our mates. If we see a guy we like we might hint or make ourselves visible or just smile and say hi. Guys are always smiling and saying hi to me and i do the same. As long as I'm not walking down some hood alley where the crackpots hangout lol. So don't tell me I won't understand something that involves me. I'm on the receiving end and I'm a woman who gets hit on a lot and I will be able to tell you what I find attractive or when I smell a guy that just wants pussy - any pussy, or able to spot right off the bat if I would sleep with him or not without his fucking lame game or corny pick-up line.

Is that you? Where did you go. Did you jump.

That's what I was thinking when I first heard about this cold-approach terminology. Why not just say hi on your way to work, shopping, supermarket, at the gas station, eating out alone or with friends, etc. Seems like the more natural and stress-free way to meet people. Once i wrote a post saying guys going out to try to intentionally get laid is the same as hookers trying to get tricks, it's just backwards and one is paying. Both are trying to get laid. They got mad, so I think I took it down, I forgot. Just go out and talk to people wherever and whenever. If you go to the club just enjoy and have a good time. If you get laid then that might be great.....depending, if not there's always another day.

Ok thank you

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Excellentaniano, Superblificious, Magnificentally Fabulousity. Had to exaggerate that because It's hard to find a skin-care company as clean as them online. Couldn't find one questionable ingredient. I will save them in my computer and check them out and maybe order a few of their products. Probably start with one or two first to see how I like it. Thanks for posting. And people say, get off this forum. It's not the forum but how you use it. I'm always on the lookout for company's like these that produce quality skin-care. I just need an all make-up company now to trust in. If I look hard enough I'll find.

yes, dear. You can go cheat with that viagara shit. You have my permission at 90yrs old.

Yes, hubby.....don't worry, there's viagra. I'll allow you to use that on the "others". Lol

Keep that longer thing away from me please. My esophagus might just pop. I'm not gonna be smashed up and banged up by the time I'm 80. My pussy will be tight well into my 90's and my husband to be will be all shriveled up then so I'll still be dying with a fresh tight kitty kat. I just hope the mortician doesn't check and take advantage.

Nice. Now go do porn. Lol

Insert the word breast instead of penis and the answers would amount to the same thing. How would the opposite sex (or same, sex if gay) feel about it and to enhance one's self-esteem and confidence. Meanwhile the little dickies and small titties who don't care are living it up and having wonderful sex lives and loving relationships because they have more to offer than a private body part.

You have a point here. Personally, I'm not that strict about health. I take precautions when I can and if it doesn't require a whole lot of shenanigans. E.g toilet paper (using brown instead), laundry soap (as long as my skin isn't visibly irritated or rash develops), eating certain foods I love occasionally like pizza and wings, drinking wine, buying water in plastic bottles etc. Certain things I just won't do, e.g use artificial sweeteners, drink soda except an occasional ginger ale like 5-10x/yr when my kombucha is unavailable, use commercial pancake syrup like Aunt Jimena, use margerine, aerosol sprays, plug-in air freshners and the list goes on. The no use list i mentioned are very dangerous even with limited use. So I pick and choose my poisons because in todays society it's quite difficult to stay away from it all. If I find where oil cleanse works great and I opt to use that method while still eating chicken from the grocery store that may have antibiotics or drink a bottle of water that contains fluoride or eat a piece of farm-raised salmon eating out for dinner, that toxic face cleanser i would be using instead of oil cleansing would just be additional unnecessary toxins in addition to what I'm already putting in my body knowingly or unknowingly. Some people are out here using and eating everything that's toxic to their body's EVERYTHING; from food to personal care to house cleaning to relationships to what they feed their minds, to drinking, smoking, and breathing in from air pollution. So my thing is to limit what I can, indulge when I feel like it, then recuperate back quickly and detox. That's my strategy without depriving myself and being all anal about this health thing. Sometimes what you don't do can be more powerful and more effective than what one does.

That's sounds a lot better than, it's not complicated. It might not be in certain cases; but since we don't know the entire details of their relationship, it's not up to us to say whether it's complicated or not. Some people invest in their relationships in various ways; and even though we have to walk away from certain things in life, it's not up to us on the outside looking in to just blatantly say it's not that complicated. Not everyone treats their relationships in a way where walking away is that easy.

Why don't you just cleanse it with a good oil (olive, coconut or any high-end face oil like argan or rosehip) coconut oil does give some protection from the sun but you can also find not-toxic sun screens too. I highly suggest the oil cleanse method. At least do it once and tell me how it felt. So simple. Dab some oil on and wipe off. That's it. Amazing results. See my post on it for slight details. If you can get fresh aloe plant where you are, use the gel straight from the plant and smear sparingly over face after you wash. Leave it on under whatever moisturizer you're using. Aloe is highly moisturizing and is also a natural sunscreen. I mean it's that simple. My post was long only because I was explaining in detail and i do scrubs and steaming and feed it with food, which is only on occasion and doesn't take away from time. Oil -wipe - aloe-moisturize. That's it. There's your hydration. Aloe is perfect for that. So is the oil cleanse method.

It's not that complicated for him to share with her either. He's not free to be who he is when he took it upon himself to have a girlfriend. Don't tell this lady it's not that complicated. You don't know the feelings she has for him. Easy for you to say.

It's not about appearance alone but ways of taking care of the body. You go to therapy to develop a better version of yourself. Some take care of their skin to develop better skin or to maintain it. Some have pimples and acne. Low self-esteem because if it. Resolving that may raise ones self-esteem. Self-development. Skin development. Doesn't mean appreciation isn't present. You water your plants. You tend to them. Same difference.

Excellent post.

Ok thank u. Maybe the homeless needs ur help. I sure dont.

@Rafael Thundercatthank you, I will explore that book and take a look at it.

You're showing a good example of this advice. I read your whole comment and I appreciate the time and concerns. You have to understand everyone doesn't process things the same way. We don't all use our resources and tools given to us to accomplish the same things or utilize in the same fashion. I am very empathetic and love to hear other peoples take on their view on empathy etc. It doesn't mean my life is turning upside down because of it and i have in the past read articles about it to get a better understanding. Doesn't mean other's perspective is going to hurt me being. I understand the playfulness of life. How to make myself happy from within (also sad and miserable) no matter what the circumstances. I will not live in a place of constant (insert all negative emotion here), I know how to snap out of it quickly. It doesn't matter to me if you say I'm not God and whatever else you said in regards to this because I AM what I am. If I'm a fish thinking I'm human then I'm a fish having sex with humans and eating human food, doesn't change that fact. I won't get depressed to find out that I wasn't human but instead a fish. Doesn't make a difference because I'm still what I AM. Those are just words. I don't need to humble myself because I don't feel like I'm grandiose. I feel like I'm just what I AM. I will continue to do the best with what I AM. I am very expansive and open to learning new things at all times. I'm not stuck into beliefs and am very fluid in how I operate. I don't need to stop doing anything because it is feeding me toxic ideas and concepts because they won't be stuck to me like glue unless I choose to let that happen because I see the benefits of it. After I've observed myself how a particular thing has outrun its course then I'll decide to engage in something else on my terms, not because someone else is telling me to do so because it didn't work for them. Infinity is just that Infinite. There are infinite places, people, things and circumstances that will present itself for infinite reasons that were pre-determined due to a causual effect and there's nothing one can do about that other than to make choices on how to alchemize those effects to one's benefit no matter what the situation is. In other words to make the best of it. There is no difference between anything. How we perceive those sameness is what will decide the outcome which still is pre-determined. So, thank you for your concern, but as I'm not seeking anything to make me humble or to feel less grandiose nor am I in search of a particular guru to accomplish anything other than the fact that I resonate and enjoy listening to them and will take from it what I so incline to take away and leave the rest, I will be just fine in the end of my human existence no matter what choices I make while I inhabit this body. This is just an experience and if there's no one here even having an experience then so be it too. This just is and it always was and will always be. You listed a bunch of Spiritual teachers names, which, btw I listen to most of them too, but you excluded yourself. You exist in them too, you exist in all Realities, you are all of it too. You exist as fulfillment in all Realities so they are also you. Fulfillment is not in the future it is NOW. So I don't need to look to figures, I just need to realize it and recognize it NOW. They are you, you give them the power, their light is coming from you. So I don't need them they need me. I'm just playing the experiential game of choosing which one I want to experience. You won't understand this, though, because you're the one in grandiosity thinking you're separate, you're special, you're a separate entity that needs saving. Maybe you need to humble yourself into the recognition that you are one with everything and that the separate thing that you think you are, you made it all up.