Princess Arabia

Re-read the entire thing and found it fascinating. Some will think it's horseshit maybe because they are not curious enough to learn about human behavior; but I am, even so that I went to college for human psychology. One semester but I got a 3.5 GPA, when I left for personal reasons. I learnt quite a few things here and a lot explained why men and women behave the way they do to a degree. The part I found really intriguing is the part where men will do things to increase their testosterone level, even unaware that that is the result of their action. Seems instinctual. Women the same. What I really got from this is we seem to be instinctually wired for survival. All our actions, the way we do things, why we do them, why we're attracted to what we're attracted to, why we argue, why we fight, why we bitch and moan, why we feel empathy, why we don't, why we whatever, is not only from environmental factors but biological. We can't help it. Not to say we can't or shouldn't try to improve the way we react or respond to things, but what actually happens is not really our doing but how we respond is. I don't know, that's how I interpreted and how I summarized it. I think this article is very important. It will make us understand each other more and lessen the unnecessary judgements and useless criticisms we have of the sexes. The problem is, there's always a blame game at play and we'd rather blame each other for what we consider to be faults of ours, so anything that dives deep into us looking at ourselves from the inside out will not be too popular and will be shaken off as irrelevant.

I'm re-reading this article because I rushed through it the first time, but I find it very informative. This part right here should be in the dating section and its own thread so these monkeys can see what I'm talking about when I mention certain things over there. IT fits nicely into what I try to convey a lot of times but didn't know how to quite articulate it or even knew why it is the case; I just know it is. Not so much the last sentence, but the rest. I think the last sentence can be deleted because it's not so much the case unless that's her goal or desire. I said monkeys to be funny, so don't take offense, guys.

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Exactly, that's why the female was created to balance out the stupidity of the male. Just kidding.

It's all Love, no need to mention it.

We don't have to identify or disidentify with anything for there not to be balance. You're speaking from the relative pov, if so then that's fine, And is all illusion. But from the Absolute level, balance is already the case. We're the one's finding fault with things and trying to "fix" something, but it's futile and all is already perfection, even the relative perceived imbalances.

I think this article has something to it. It might not be necessary to survive and might be a bit in-depth but Reality is as much complicated as it is simple. I find a lot of truths in it. It's not about who cares if what or who cares if that, it's just a way of seeing the differences within the sameness.

See, I told you, mind games. Lol.

That's why I quoted you; because of the profundity of your statements. I grasped it while reading it but wanted to make sure that's what you were saying, or at least somewhat close. You're saying just that. Another thing that makes sense and fits into puzzle of what doesn't make sense, if you know what I mean. I've never looked at it this way before but I do see what you're saying. Question: Would you say then that direct experience is not imagined and that is direct aliveness, what's happening and all there is. Anything else is imaginary.

Invest in the bank. That'll cover all aspects, the rest is just mind games.

If you care about attracting girls, get into their minds. Not some damn chest and shoulder muscles, we're much more complicated than that.

Got me pranked. Oh my, such deceit. Lol. Thank you Leo, at least you were consistent. This is the utmost deception. This is what happens when we think God is something out there. We play the deceit mind game to try to capture it because we can't find it. At least Leo knows he's it. You're trying to find it which leads to deception. I'm so sorry.

Well, they're not using it on themselves, so it's the women who allow it who are the bad chicks.

Here's a real sexy hunk of a real bad boy for ya. Doesn't even have to try. Infact, he has to try not to be.

Are you saying here and pretty much your whole comment is that existence is all there is. What consciousness is experiencing in the moment is all that exist. There are no limitations because anything that would be considered a limitation would be mind-created. E,g if I wanted to grow wings and fly, that is just the mind thinking and imagining that and is not in my direct experience so it really isn't a limitation. I'm experiencing what I'm experiencing and that is existence, so anything that I consider to be a limitation isn't really a limitation since it's only something I'm imagining? Is that what you're saying?

Thats where energy comes in. It's like how electricity works. Faulty wiring can get you shocked.

Don't listen to Leo here, please, its not less appealing. In his mind, but not otherwise. A lot of girls don't even like muscles. When I say muscles I mean those body builder types. A little bit that's proportioned or naturally so, but nothing extravagant.

If you had a big head they might. Lol, You seem to look proportioned. You're a cute looking kid, if that's what you look like in your Avatar. Stop worrying about this shit and just go for it.

Well, I did say it looks good, but nothing to do with, or a very minute portion of that is what gets a man laid over other factors. We notice the thin spindly phrame too, believe it or not, some women prefer that over muscles. we notice everything even that men seem to not get that our attractor factor is different from theirs. It all changes depending on where we are in life an 18yr old might be attracted to something different when she turns 30. For men, it's usually looks all the way. Only when they are looking for a serious relationship might they focus on other things first.

Nice

No, I get this part. Like fb ads and that kind of stuff. Ilm familiar with that. What I'm talking about is say I follow a particular Spiritual person on YT and I watch them everyday or a lot of their videos. A video from them will pop up addressing an issue I'm dealing with the day before, always the day before. The next day, my questions will be answered or it will be a video talking about the same issue, exactly. This is different from the spying thing because I'll be talking about it without internet or phone around and in person.

You think muscles are relevant when it comes to dating, but it's not. It might be nice to look at, but it's not relevant. Height a little bit more, but also not relevant. It's not even about working with what you have as much, in this respect, as in it simply isn't relevant. A muscleless guy don't have to say to himself, oh well I just have to work with what I got cause I hate the gym, it's just simply not a factor. I don't care what women say about it, it just isn't. Women will say they like it, but they are bullshitting themselves.

You cannot become who you follow. I follow Leo, but I'm not a sex-addict.

Same thing😊