Princess Arabia

Good one.

Thats true; which is the same as nagging, impatient and thin-skinned.

No guru is going to record their tumultuous life circumstances for the public. Don't be fooled by appearances. He's still just a regular person who just happens to embody the energetic field around his differently.

Nah, therapists have tougher skins than that. They see the mentally challenged everyday and expect the worst and can handle it. It's probably because she never heard such a thing and was taken aback saying I thought I done heard it all. Lol

What does best genetics mean to someone on the outside looking in. Isn't that about looks. How can one tell that someone has good genes without either knowing them first, or based on how they look based on your idea of what good genetics look like. Beats me. Anyway, I won't get into that. Didn't realize an ugly girl with rotten teeth and smells bad with the best personality would be considered top-notch to a man. You said best personality, not looks and personality just best personality, son I'm replying to that. I don't see anybody as being top-notch, by the way. It's just what I like and don't like. My preferences. If I like a man and he happens to be rich, I wouldn't consider him top-notch. If the same is poor, I wouldn't consider him to be not top-notch. Maybe wouldn't be right for me under the circumstances because of my preferences, but could be right for someone else. In the middle either, doesn't matter. Handsome or ugly, doesn't matter. Never about top-notch for me but about compatibility and preferences. Big boobs and porn-stars isn't what women see as any better a woman than any other attractive woman. We don't look at those kinds of things and consider a woman hot or not hot based on those things. You have a point here except I wasn't projecting my mindset unto you, I was merely analyzing yours. Coming back at me with a rebuttal will open my mind up to a different perspective, which you did here, and allows room for different ones. Doesn't mean it's a projection. This is a personal choice, relatively speaking and you're allowed to approach life anyhow you prefer, even though I beg to differ, but that doesn't matter. Either way it's the same difference, can't have one without the other.

No wonder the therapist couldn't answer. She's probably saying to herself, the audacity of you saying I need to earn my way to live. She's probably also saying, you need to earn your way to pay me for my time much less live.

Lol

I hope you're not having to keep explaining your misunderstandings with women as much as you'll probably leave her more confused than before. Hehe. It could probably be a good thing, though, as women love fore-play and that would be a long-lasting fore-play that could lead to some good, understanding love-making. Hehe.

ok

Either way, usually a woman can sense when a guy cares or not. Remember, we're good at feelings and feelings never lie only mis-guide; meaning, just because it feels good or bad doesn't mean it's right or wrong for you in the moment.

Ok. Hope the equation of adding and subtracting and multiplying, adds up to the correct solution.

Oh ok. Didn't want the comment to not be noticed by the right quotee.

You see it's never enough. Now, it's the top-notch girls. Nothing wrong, just saying. After you get the top-notch girl, then it's unto something else. Nothing wrong, just saying. Let the chase go on, nothing else to do. Never fulfilled, nothing wrong, just saying. So disappointing you have to develop the "don't take it personal strategy". Another strategy is the "raise your consciousness" strategy. The stupid girls, as you call them, keep outsmarting you and your survival strategy to not go mad is to not take it personal . But take it personal enough to raise your consciousness enough to outsmart them. "The only thing you have control over is your intention", you said. Still looking for control. Hanging on for dear life. "Setting high-quality, high-priority intentions is power," you said. Trying to gain power, to be powerful. "While everything outside of that is force and tiresome", you said. It's getting to you. Very exhausting being an individual isn't it. Tiresome and energy-draining. Always having to beat the system, always having something to defeat. So, by setting your own intentions, now you only have yourself to compete with. Can't blame nobody but yourself. The problem with that is it breeds low-confidence, low self-esteem. You call them top-notch, putting them up on a pedestal. A pedestal means out-of-reach. So now you blame yourself and call it "emotional baggage". You didn't notice it with the not so top-notch girls. You considered yourself at the same level or they were beneath you. You didn't stand out. So now the pedestal is above you and now you find faults within yourself as to why you can't reach the pedestal. It's my "emotional baggage". As long as I can fix that, I'll reach it. "The not-so-smart girls aren't do stupid because they are life-givers which makes them instinctively smart enough to out-smart what you believe is good enough tricks to try and out-smart them. It's mother nature's gift to them and taking that personal isn't the smart way to go about that. It's best to just surrender to mother nature or else you'll get traumatized and not procreate. Best reward is to love life and life will love you back or else the hateful life will hate you back". This is what you're basically saying. This is more of a "how to become a victim of life circumstances" post rather than a solution to a victims' mindset post. There are no solutions here, it's only revealing how tired you are of the struggles and challenges you're facing with women and the power you think you had over them and by you raising the bar without raising your consciousness level how that's not a good thing. So now to become more of a victim you want to raise your consciousness to deal with the higher levels you've set for yourself and that will solve that problem. Why that won't work is if you are capable of making $1000 easily, making another $1000 is not a challenge. So getting the top notch girl leaves you no-where to go because she won't be top-notch anymore. You're trying to reach the top-notch and since she won't be top-notch anymore, you'll consider yourself declining and going backwards with the next pursuit or still trying for the next top-top notch. A bigger and better top-notch. Endless cycle. The don't-take-it personal approach is spot-on but for the wrong reasons. It's because there's nothing personal about you and life is not about you. I will leave it at that. The rest will figure itself out when you've gotten knocked down enough.

Quoting yourself?

We all live in different time zones. It's not really his birthday at all since he was never born, so it doesn't matter. Hehehehehe. Don't take that so serious cause you were never born either. Hehehe. I'm silly, and I was born silly. Hehehehe

You don't ask a woman you're trying to date, like, or even your gf about other women. You ask female platonic friends, watch how they are with other men, listen to what they say and even if you have sisters or female family members. You can also learn from guys, not saying that, especially good professional male coaches who have your best interest in mind and also the women's and who are not coming from a place of anger, and too much hurt because they will mislead you. Your best teacher is yourself and from your own interactions but that can be biased if you've been hurt or even had great relations because great relations will not prepare you for the worst. Problem with yourself is you can only be in so many relations so it's kind of limited to only the ones you've dated and since women are different on the personal level, not much to go by. If it's a matter of trying to get something from women (not in a bad way and being selfish), but say a woman to love you, to want to have sex with you because you really like her, if you want her to open up to you, men are more appropriate for those things, but if you want to know how to attract women, learn how they are, for the most part, their inner most feelings and desires, what makes them tick what turns them off/on, these are more for like the initial stages the trying to attract stage, the getting to know stage, ask women for that. Women know how women are, men know how women act. Women are for the abstract, men are for the concrete - so to speak.

Ok, nice.

Happy Birthday!!! We Love You. ❤️❤️

May I ask you something. Is there anything in your life that you had huge expectations for, in whatever way and it gave you lasting satisfaction. Just asking. If so, could you briefly describe.

Never approach a woman and say you're attracted to her. She will immediately put up slight resistance, even if she says thank you, smiles or blushes. Going up to her is enough for her to read between the lines. Main reason is, it signals sex and you don't want to put her on guard silently scoping you out to see if she feels the same. You approaching her doesn't mean she will be also attracted to you immediately but maybe throughout your interaction she may develop that attraction without feeling pressured to feel the same way you felt initially. Not saying it verbally to her allows for room to wonder on her part, even if it's evident. This is because of the reason I stated above. You have internally set a bar for yourself and now you're nervous she won't feel the same way. It's OK that you don't know, that's a part of the game; but not telling her you're attracted to her leaves room for you to not have to try and impress, convert her if she doesn't seem to be and allows for a more comfortable approach. Most people have a cell phone which has the time displayed and asking where the nearest Cafe is just sounds like you're asking for an impromptu date. This one doesn't even sound plausible. Working on? I'm not even sure what you mean by this. Telling someone you're attracted to them on an initial approach is not non-romantic. A simple hi how are you, what's your name? Is suffice. Are you from here? I was walking by and saw you were alone, would you like some company is a bit of a stretch, but still better than most. It all depends on the situation.

Nice one!

It is stupid to call someone who is not at an appropriate age to decipher maturely, circumstances that are for the mature, stupid.

Be careful of commenting in ALL caps. It's been known to be a reason for warnings. Some caps is fine, I guess, but not all. Looks like shouting.

All you spoke about are mental. I didn't see any mentioning of what will physically happen.