Princess Arabia

Feminine and masculine energy are expressed differently when filtered through the body. A feminine man isn't necessarily acting like a female and a masculine woman isn't necessarily acting like a man; or, more appropriately, when both are in their feminine and masculine respectively. When I say feminine man, I'm not describing how a female acts; I'm describing how the feminine energy acts when it's coming from a man. Or when he has embodied more if his feminine side to the point of an imbalance since both sexes possess both the masculine and feminine.

Maybe nothing is actually happening or moving and it all just appear to be. Maybe it's just one big friggin' magic trick and we've all been duped. Maybe it's like one giant TV screen with God outside looking in and watching the movie, but just like how on a TV screen it's all just appearing with no real movement and God is actually the TV and we are all inside the screen. Maybe God is imagining everything and there's nothing here. Maybe it's one big psychedelic party and God is trippin'; and the day the body dies is when he runs out of mushrooms or 5meo and when a baby is born is when he gets some more and starts trippin" again. I need a job.

Exactly. I've had the pleasure of being around masculine men and noticed they were just naturally like this, no coaching or schooling, They weren't gym rats or fancy dressers, or even cared too much about their appearance but only to the minimum where they smelled clean, shaven and decent clothing. They concentrated more on their work, how they would provide and protected their loved ones and made sure everyone around them was ok before they were. After that, they would enjoy themselves in their man cave. Love making with these men is very unselfish and they want to please more than be pleased because they derived their pleasure from pleasing the feminine. Just looking at them you couldn't tell, but if a female knows what to look for she can spot them within minutes or after talking to them for a short while. They are not simps and they themselves knows the kind of woman they want and will gently pursue her if she seems available without pushing themselves on her to respect her boundaries while staying firm in their approach. I've also spent time with feminine men. They were energy drainers and looked to be pleased every fucking step of the way. They were insecure and needed validation every fucking minute and if you said the wrong thing they would take it personally and crawled up in their shells until you made them feel safe to come back out. They were professional manipulators and would try to make you feel bad for not loving them how they think you should show and give them the love and affection they so direly crave since they didn't receive it in childhood and now you gotta be their momma and let them suck on your tits like a crying baby in adult pampers. Let me stop and don't get me talking about toxic masculine because narcissists ain't got nothing on this double narcissistic double whammy of a cheese burger. They will make you feel like something is wrong with you, but they will come off sweet at first and lure you in by the hips and seduce you the best way they know how to fit their standard even if it's with a Mackie Dee's meal and a dollar store pocket book and give you $50 for your birthday and believe he's the best thing you ever had since Kentucky fried chicken launched. Ok that's enough. I will start to offend and get written up and suspended and expelled and told to come back after I straighten up my tone of voice. Hehe...hehe...You know how I get once in awhile when Shenaynay, my other half gets loose. Told the doctor to give me extra strength zolofts but he said it's too strong and will sedate me too much into a zombie.

You don't have any insecurities. What is actually happening is you have identified with the thoughts that are arising. You believed them to be true and now they are having a party in your mind. The first one you attended to, then the second, then the third and so on and they invited their friends and now they won't leave because they are being fed. You have given them power. Thoughts have no power over you unless you have given them an emotional response. Notice how you feel insecure because of a particular thought that arose within your awareness. I mean literally notice it next time. Notice it's just a thought that you believe to be true, You have the power to affect people's behavior towards you by how you see those people and the thoughts you have about them. You are creating this dynamic with the mind and you can undo this using the mind; but you have to step outside and start to observe yourself and see yourself reacting the way you react and notice how you're just reacting to a thought. The first thought you don't have control over but you do have control over how you react to the second one in that train and the ones that come right after. After a while, when you stop reacting in ways unfavorable to the outcome you desire, they will lose momentum and you'll start to notice they don't have control over your state of being anymore or at best will lessen and not have the traction to cause a stir within you as much.

"Something" or "nothing" is duality so either way there's an opposite. So if it's something there's a nothing and vice versa. Trying to figure out if reality is something requires "something to do that. Seems like an oxymoronic venture.

Seems to be your common theme lately. One has to be able to fluctuate between non-duality and duality in this relative domain or you'll not be able to communicate properly and lose touch with reality.

Lol, you know the deal. One more after that too.

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That's you. My statement didn't mention you and your experience. In fact, I even explicitly stated and said "from what I'VE noticed. Not to mention cultural differences. Nothing wrong with your perspective and observations, but telling me mine makes no sense, makes no sense.

Yes, and that's a good thing. However, one would have to define what manhood means to them and how the feminine reacts to that. Your definition of manhood could only suit you while another man's could suit both him and the feminine. Which one will enjoy relationships more is the question, if that's the goal.

If you took notice, I never put you on the bench all I was doing was categorizing your style by putting it in a certain category of the dating spectrum. I never said anything was wrong with it because not all dating strategies is for everyone at every stage. Some need to go through certain stages and phases to realize what works for them and what isn't working and just as life has it's stages, the dating world also does. The guys I was attracted to like 10-15 years ago, i'm not attracted to today and the way I used to be in the dating world I'm no longer that way.

Well, you need to make that known. I'm not a mind reader.

That's your perspective. How many shorter guys have tried to pick you up. How can you tell a female that her observation makes no sense. That is what makes no sense.

Not sure what your point is, but OK.

What's so funny.

This. My mom was taller than my dad also. Maybe that's why I don't mind shorter men. Most of them are so charismatic. Taller men with muscles are usually, from what I've seen, are full of themselves and are in the mirror more than the ladies.

Going against the grain of nature and not aligning oneself with the higher perspective of one's true nature will always lead to suffering and the house of cards of the ego's construction will eventually come crashing down. Why consciously go that route if you're aware it's just an ego boost just for the sake of instant gratification. Not saying we all don't do it, but why speak of it in such a confident way and not to sway the mind to operate differently. Maybe what's needed is really the opposite so as not to create all the suffering we're seeing today because of the egoic mind identity. Why go backwards.

Go ahead and drink some gasoline while having a good relationship to it and see how that works for you.

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Sipping on turmeric/ginger tea with lime as we speak.

Lol. Maybe waiting for the strawberry blonde weave being shipped in from China.

You got that from Sadguru, i bet. I saw an episode or two of him promoting this. Good stuff.

Maybe, ok thanks.

This is a feminine approach. All of it. Reverse this and you've got the perfect male/female dynamic for growth and desire. A woman should not want a man more than he wants her. That's just a recipe for disaster on both ends. Men are competitive for a reason. Men suck at "feeling it out", that's the feminine perspective. Men are more logical and think things through more effectively than females do. Men feeling it out will just get his dick involved. A female "feeling it out" isn't feeling with her private parts but through her emotions which is ultimately what sets the stage for her desire. You're just going off of what someone told you and not what you've experienced; because if you did experience this you'd be repulsed. This is why most of the time you hear men say, she was attracted to me, she approached me, she wanted me but I wasn't attracted to her. They want to want you and they secretly want to earn for you to want them back. Do you know how many times I've heard men say she wanted me but I wasn't attracted to her. They weren't attracted to her because she was willing to give herself too easily without him earning it. That's what that was mostly about. Not saying he was attracted and turned her down because of it, but was never going to turn him on even if he gave it a chance. They love the chase, especially masculine men. He would just do it fkr the opportunity and just to probably get laid and to boost his ego, then ditch her. Of course, there are exceptions, so don't take this as Absolute.

Yes, but it is also suitable for what he's trying to accomplish. He's not going out to clubs and bars looking for a long-term relationship and most his advice, in this regard, has to do with just getting laid. If the other happens to come with that then that's just what it is. Some of these guys don't understand that and they try to apply his advice in all aspects of the male/female dynamic and that's why they're still having problems because of the lack of discernment and applying it to different circumstances.