Princess Arabia

Why every time you respond it just seem like you're making my point even more. When you come back at me saying stuff i didn't say but only an interpretation of what you think I mean, yes its in your head. I never said ever everything is in your head and nothing is real . It's real that it's in your head, of course.

Men can be cruel, women can be cruel, cats and dogs can be cruel, animals in general can be cruel, the weather can be cruel, certain jobs can be cruel, politics can be cruel, Hollywood can be cruel, the entertainment industry can be cruel, murderers can be cruel, small kids can be cruel, life can be cruel...i could go on. The only thing that seem to never be cruel is Mr Engineer here. So no point in even saying what or who can be cruel because just about everything can be cruel.

Your only come back for men who don't care is by calling them a simp. Can't you come up with another reason.

I don't see them. Where are they. In your head, I guess, like everything else.

I'm not attempting to do anything. I said what I said. I'm not insane enough to think I can regulate someone's behavior while sitting on my couch. You don't even make sense with your come-backs and they never match up with the situation at hand. Nothing in my comment above insinuated any attempts from me to regulate your behavior. One question. How come you still have the same ole gripes repeatedly. Isn't there something you can do to rectify the situation. Maybe just maybe there's nothing wrong but only how you view them. Change the way you look at things and the things you look at changes. Albert Einstein.

@mr_engineeris not seeing the situation at hand. Hels projecting his own personal traumatic injuries unto this thread. He's not commenting on the fact that asking a female for pictures of her family and inside her house after meeting someone for 5mins is asinine and he's coming up with all these scenarios as to why women's feelings should not be trusted because he was accused of something he felt he did not do in the past and went through hell with that incident which has now caused him to see that in every situation he comes across. He has given his power away to that female by allowing the incident to blind his vision to be able to see things for what they are and is now be powered and influenced by that incident to navigate his way through relationships and the world unconsciously. He cannot see past his own state, a state where he was hurt and traumatized and everything he sees pertaining to relations with men and women will have that stain and residue on it and will have some of it's blueprint unto a total different scenario. Of course, he will deny this because he's the one within the trap and it would take a meta look and perspective at the situation to see himself and how he's being held within the trap. We are the ones not within his trap and can see how he's trying to escape it by telling himself all he's saying in this thread, which is just him telling himself how he's handling the situation and needs to stop but he's not recognizing that because the trap is so deep. We are slowing trying to free him but he keeps digging deeper by adding more reasons why his pov makes sense and ours don't and not realizing that he cannot use the same mindset that got him stuck there in the first place. He has been in this trap for a long time because it's the same old story with no change in sight, and he's obviously not seeing how he's the one who has put himself there; but he needs something else to get him out and he's seeking vengeance and animosity to do it for him when all he needs is forgiveness and love of oneself to do the trick.

Awakening from suffering is equivalent to a bomb going off in your system. You've been perceiving life the wrong way and suffering so long that the suffering can't go anymore and pops like a balloon. The body has been warning you all along through the suffering but you weren't listening to it or didn't know how to reset it, so it goes into homeostasis and reset itself again. That's just the body doing its thing. Feelings of anxiety and depression are symptoms that your wiring is faulty and needs to be attended to. Smaller versions of this is anger but it can be so intense that it doesn't stay for long because it's too overwhelming for the body and it cannot sustain that type of intense emotion. That's why anger doesn't linger for long but it comes back after the cool down period. Overtime, stress will kill you but it takes time because of the adaptation process and coping mechanisms we use to stall the body's responses to it. Any negative emotion is a signal installed by Source for itself to realize when it's off course. When it's too immersed in the dream, though, it forgets and points the finger to something apparently outside of itself for making it feel that way not realizing that it itself has took a wrong turn and needs to navigate itself back on course. So when you awaken from deep, deep, deep suffering that awakening will feel very intense just like being awakened from REM sleep and the body feels like it just went through an electrical shock. The reason why most people don't awaken is because most people are just coasting through like thinking its normal but with consequences like anxiety, depression, mental illnesses like bipolar and Schizophonia and also the degenerative diseases because of the body's imbalance. They treat the symptoms which will eventually lead to other dis-ease. This is why this and many other Spiritual communities are plagued with mental disorders because the energy is seeking relief from the contractions. This community is its refuge but it doesn't realize that it is disconnected from Source mentally, and will continue to seek until it comes to the realization that it is what its seeking.

Nice story. Better than the movie I watched last night. Amazing this illusion i created for myself which is also an amazing illusion. I feel like I'm schizophrenic. Talking to myself and reposting this video to itself for no one whose watching. I'm just looking at this computer with a woman that's appearing and who will disappear minutes from now and i will believe it and have memories of it and then something else will appear in this lovely computer that I invented and believe in that too. God saved her from losing her legs just to see her become a stripper so he can torture her and put her in hell for the very thing that she used that he saved her from losing. Hollywood couldn't even dream this story up because they are a part of this dream and we will all die and wake up to nothing. Paradox is, there is no paradox and no one to die.

Exactly, the closest someone did was to post a video named creep. But still he didn't come off as a creep and was just asking how better to do next time in response to us showing him what he might have done wrong or in appropriately.

Yeah, but don't you use the logical mind to accomplish things.

Please understand that someone's flawed perception of Reality and seeing the world through distorted lens is not perfection. It allows through certain emotions and feeling to recognize where and what we're perceiving things unlike how Source sees it and through adjustment in our thinking we can start to perceive things in a way that's more accurate to how Reality really is. Everything being perfect is different than everything is perfection; meaning, its perfect that we see Reality through distorted lens and have emotions to guide us where we're going wrong because that's how we grow and change and evolve and things were put in place for this to happen, but it doesn't mean our distortion is perfection.

Paragraphs please. 🤣Once, a while back, I went on a rant with a post twice the size of yours here without any paragraphs and someone said to me, "paragraphs please", I never forgot that and every time someone makes a fairly long post without paragraphs my memory brings me back to that. That said, I somehow think you're making a mistake with your "there's nothing to know" stances and lack of interests in what any Spiritual "teachings" have to say. To me, it shows a closing off of oneself and a lack of curiosity. Only one thing is important is not the way of the Universe and everything is connected to everything else, as there are no distinctions but what the mind creates, so a connection of dots could pave the way for a broader perspective on things and could possibly open you up to certain things your mind is unaware of. You also say from time to time to drop the quest for understanding as that can get in the way to Awakening and distort the mind. Idk, but your way just seems a bit closed-off and trying to achieve what's unachievable to the human form. I love what you're trying to accomplish but, as a human, we have limits and to me it's just a matter of understanding who we are and to live from a place of greater understanding and to enjoy what it means to be human not try to break barriers to elude something that is a part of Reality itself. The goal is to integrate the dual and the non-dual, the Absolute and the relative since we need the ego to accomplish both, and to live from a place of recognizing that they are all a part of the Absolute. That's just my take and you approach however you wish. It just seems like it will be a never-ending endeavor as Infinity includes everything and is forever expanding even though it has its essence. I enjoy reading your posts, but it seems its the same feat over and over which doesn't seem to be getting anywhere only your attachment to try to overcome it. Much love. I say this not as a criticism, but genuinely and sincerely awaiting your response so I can understand where it is you're coming from with why nothing else is important to you and if you really think it's possible to accomplish this and maybe expand my awareness to allow me to see new light in something I've been unaware of.

This is exactly you and what it has done to you. Nothing in OP's post mentioned the word creep or creepy. Your past post that you started once does tho. The one where it went on and on and on. The one you shared here. So all you're doing is projecting your fears unto this thread and discussing stuff that wasn't said and you still haven't gotten over your "creepy" post. I wonder how many times will you use that for reference every time someone asks for dating advice unrelated to being called a creep, but only what you assume he's being called in your mind. He never said he asked her out. In fact, he said he wasn't even on a date, it was his first time talking with her. Again discussing stuff that wasn't said. You are also feeling some type of way and are also blaming women for it. So why should women put up with you. Complaining and saying all you're saying doesn't sound like its coming from a happy place. I wonder whose responsible for that. Your whole comments sound personal and did not stick to the point of the post. You kept going on and on about situations that never occurred with the OP and every single one was a projection of your own fears stemming from your own experiences.

Yes you are right; and she also doesn't have to meet his. You are one-sided. Just as you're saying she can cancel him at anytime because she doesn't have to meet your seal of approval for what social appropriateness is as in telling him to fuck-off if she chooses. She's adhered to your own rule, but you can't see that because you are blinded by your own fear and biases and beliefs and what happened to you in the past. Goodnight now, I'm going to bed.

No one doubt it wasn't fear. Why demonize fear. It needs to be brought to the light and shown some love and it will transform itself. But that isn't the point. Yes, it was fear, so what. It is a survival mechanism. You're acting out of fear too because of your criticisms and judgements of her. You yourself said if it's not love it's fear. Nothing wrong with her being fearful. We have our own reasons why we fear things. Who are you to determine what one should be fearful of.

This is speculation and doesn't have a ground to stand on much less expand upon.

It's not your ex you're trying to get over but your loneliness. If it were your ex you were just trying to get over, you wouldn't have mentioned that the only girls you have a chance with are unattractive to you. If they were attractive you'd be all over them and you'd be like, "what ex". So do yourself a favor and see through that self-deceptive mind of yours and try to get over what took place during the break-up and how it transpired and take the ex out the picture because you're not trying to get over her, you're trying to cure your loneliness.

@mr_engineerI just did a web search for those pictures and I found them and their connected websites. So you see, all that talk and I couldn't get the same thing from you that the girl refused to give him and you called it fear of whatever you said. You have to be able to back up what you're saying and not just talk and rebut all the time.

Lol

Plus your point here is invalid because you would never just go up to a stranger on the street and just say would you like to have sex with me right now. Would you. Your first conversation is just that. Would you like to have sex with me right now. No. Maybe approach her first, get to talking a bit, feel her out and if she's flirting with you real hard, maybe touching your dick or something like that, then you would find it more appropriate to ask her then. But why not ask her to begin with. Because of inappropriateness. Not just because of society or a rule book but because of your inner judgement. The way you were raised, common sense or just using your inner innate judgement and survival mechanisms because of the repercussions that may follow. So it's not about rule books or societal norms at all times but using inner judgement and your innate capabilities to use discernment as to what's Universally appropriate for living in a society where we are expected to adhere to people's right to their privacy.

I like you can you pm me a picture of yourself, your family and inside your home and especially your bedroom. Please. I'd love to see them.

Do you have an archive saved for all these links. You amaze me with how you have a link for just about every dating question. It's like you're the Google of the forum. Nice. You must have been through extensive coaching or did a lot of research about relationships and the dating world.

Love this post.