Princess Arabia

Ver nicely put. I knew you had it in you. When you're not speaking about topics that are personal to you and that you have no "trauma" around, you can give some sound solid advice. The clouds and veils aren't as tainted and we see a bit more clearly. P.S. I only used the word "trauma" to stress a point and not necessarily saying you have been traumatized.

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DON'T WORRY ABOUT A THING (Three Little Birds) Bob Marley. / Different renditions. My fav. Such a cutie.

This is a lesson that is well deserving to be learnt. It will save the "savior" so much heart felt problems and let downs and disappointments. I had to learn the hard way. Had to go through it first to see the lesson/value in leaving things be. I still have remnants of it, but not as much as before. Somehow, it's something within us we're trying to subconsciously heal and we use this method to aid in that even though it's not recognized at first that's what's happening. It reveals itself to be the case after one has self-reflected enough.

Referring to me are we...lol. I totally get you. You have missed the point in my messages when I speak this way, and my life isn't based around non-dual stuff and absolutism. I'm not in the dating section speaking absolutism, nor in the health section speaking isms. It's only sometimes in a discussion on spirituality I may bring this up. Life is a progression, yes it is, but certain topics for certain discussions and certain time and place for certain talks. You seem to have a problem with it on a spiritual sub-forum where it belongs.

Lmao. Oh my, kinda rough there, don't ya think.

When some of these men only go around to clubs and the party scene, and meet females in that environment, whatever traits they have they assume all or even most are the same way. Even those same women might only have like one-night stands and hook-ups with these "psychopaths and degenerates", for a short while but will NEVER enter into a relationship with them or even truly love this type. Can't just make generalized statements like that. We will get shocked in life when we assume certain things that turns out to be the opposite and make us re-think our beliefs.

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I think all that is happening here is the misunderstanding of the word "confident"; could be on my end. I don't see confidence in a woman as aggression, masculine, says what they want and being a leader. I see feminine confidence as knowing who she is, embraces her femininity, can attract any or most men she wants because she's confident in how to do that. Shows confidence in the way she walks, talks and communicate. She doesn't compete with other women because she knows she doesn't have to because she's the prize and men compete for her. (Not in a cocky or egotistical or manipulative way, just - confidently). Look at my use of the word prize how you choose but I'm aware of what I mean when I use it and this forum has not shown me otherwise that the woman is the prize. She doesn't try to control men and allows herself to be lead in a way where she's respecting herself and the male counterpart because she's the one who chose to allow him that leadership position and is confident in her choices as the feminine. I could go on, but this is how I see confidence in a woman. What you have described, to me, is confidence in a man. There's a difference. This is just my take and the way I see it.

Protection. The nice guy can't protect from the wolf attacking. They also exude an air of adventure, women love that. Unpredictability. The need to nurture, they feel he needs nurturing and feminine energy to tame him a bit and she's the one to do it. She's the one to tame him and make him settle down. That's the way women passively compete. She can't tame this bad boy, but I will and he'll settle down with me. Things of that nature.

Hey hey Mr always getting on my case, I like what you've said here. I really do. What you've said is actually more effective than more blah blah blahing. The chain reaction that comes from the energetic responses is way more contagious than just people gaining more knowledge in this department. People are responding to their environments, and if more people start to lead with actions and ways of being; it can rub off in an impactful way and others will follow since people love to act like sheep.

I get what you're saying and I'm not denying that. You just said girls love psychopaths and degenerates not that psychopaths and degenerates gets laid the most. There's a difference. Other females who don't just lay up with men that easily could hate psychopaths and degenerates. So, girls who love to lay up, are easily sexed, may love psychopaths and degenerates.

It depends on the man and depends on the woman. Depends on what you're looking for, age, whether you're looking to get married, just a gf or just to get laid. Yes, for men looks are important initially; and the hotter the better but beyond that certain traits are need for the relationship to be sustained and a mature man knows what these are and is attracted to more than just looks. I think you mean smarts and intelligence more than confidence because I've met many men who love a confident woman and who knows what she wants and is comfortable in her own skin; I would categorize that as being confident and secure.

When are you going to stop dissing on women. Why would you say females love psychopaths and degenerates. You must not think too highly of women. There are women out there that don't. That's what you'll think if youre only hooking up with girls and not ladies.

Did you see this movie? How you described it is not how I remember it to be, but maybe that's just your view. Yes, it was based on true events. No need to bash somebody's movie recommendation.

Nothing wrong with people not caring. Not everybody loves dumplings and bananas. I used to be like that till I realized most people don't care. It's just not their time.

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The penis. Love the post.

Ironically the point of the post.

Didn't know you birthed dogs. That's a first.

I have a cat; and I have all my life had cats. They have taught me so much and I'm grateful to have my current cat as a companion. Finicky beasts they are and very "sometimish", but that's ok because I am too. Hehe. I never had a dog, even though I love them too as with all animals, because they require so much time and care and when I'm away I can leave my cat for a couple days and not worry because cats are independent and don't require to be walked or spoon fed like most dogs do. Your post is on point, though, because dogs, as well as cats, can teach so much about unconditional love and being in the moment.

Setting AI on me, I see. Gave up? Lol

This Forum is a Solipsistic Orgy Lol. All for one, one for all.

This is a good point. I think some people who are not into spirituality, or conscious as you put it, can still enjoy the material for what they are also. There are people like that who don't worship their material gains and see them for what they are.