Princess Arabia

I get it now. Not that I didn't understand this but it clears up the misnomer of calling yourself God when there is actually no you, there's only God, and as @Inliytened1said, God is you is a better term.

Hmmm, I like that. Never looked at it that way, even though I understood this; but saying it like this makes for a better understanding of the Self.

Let me explain something to you why most women don't normally approach men. Several reasons and I'll name a few. Most women are feminine (or to a certain degree), and the same way you expressed how you feel as a feminine man why you don't like to approach women is the same way they feel. Women like to feel desired and wanted and it is doesn't feel good to most feminine women and women in general to approach men because they feel it lowers their value. Do you like telemarketers ringing up your phone to try to sell you things you don't want? No. Most times you hang up the phone, even if you do it politely it's still kind of annoying because you don't want to be forced into purchasing something you don't want. Most men know what they want in a woman. They have a certain type and women would be getting turned down left and right by very secure and confident men who knows they can get have their pick if the norm was for women to approach. Men would also be fucking women they weren't attracted to just because she approached and it was an easy lay. So this dynamic is mostly a lose-lose situation. Men don't like to feel rejected but they also wouldn't want to be constantly approached by women they're not attracted to. It would only boost their ego but that wouldn't be a healthy situation either. Women's egos aren't being boosted in an unhealthy way by men constantly approaching them, men only think that. Women are feeling more desired by this which makes for a better dynamic for an intimate relationship with a man and she will become more receptive to him as a result of feeling desired which in turn makes for a more rewarding sexual encounter with her, I understand how you feel; but you have to understand that you will feel desired, needed and wanted after the initial stage of her accepting your offer for a date if she really likes you. A woman can like you and not approach you for fear of coming off too aggressive which turns off a lot of men. You say you are a feminine man and like the feeling of being approached, but you are complaining about the process. Do you complain about the processes you go through to get whatever else you want out of life? Like muscles in the gym? Do you wine and bitch to the weights and say can't you just give me muscles with one lift? No. You go out and lift your ass off, same thing with other aspects of your life. Why with women you feel it's a drag. A man WILL go after something if he wants it badly enough and he will get it. Maybe you just don't want it badly enough.

This doesn't equate to her not loving you as equally to her desire for children. You said you are glad you were authentic enough to state how you were feeling but you aren't saying her love for having children was authentic to her. Do you see the bias (if that's the word) here. She loved herself enough to break up with you because she felt she wanted kids and you said you weren't sure and you love your authentic self enough to say that to her but now you're saying her love for you wasn't stronger than her desire for kids. Neither one of you compromised; rightly so in this case because love of self is more important and in the long run would have jeopardized the relationship if one of you eased up and caved in for the other. So it is very one-sided of you to make the comment that her love for you wasn't as strong because neither was yours. Think about what I'm saying here before you come to your defense because it isn't easy to recognize this when you're in the trap.

Thank you.

It's the first thing most guys look at, women too, but for guys it's a sexual thing for women more of feeling, more emotional. Believe it or not, some people are attracted to ugly people like @bebetalk here, cant get his name to pop up, but you know, the guy who hates hot women because he can't get them to look at him. Lol

Shit. I keep dreaming. Time to wake up. Lol I guess there's no "I", if there's no us. I'm dreaming the "I" too.

Oh ok. Each of us are in our own separate dream? So, after Awakening, you're still stuck in another endless dream? Is this endless dream till we "die", then we totally awaken to the void. Is that why there are endless Awakenings.

oh ok.

Leo. Lol

Makes sense, because I know I am everything but then you are not the body didn't make sense with that. This was why a couple weeks ago I took a break from Spiritual teachings because a lot started to not make sense as I started evolving. Thanks.

You're handsome without a cockiness to it, girls love that.

You never bought a girl a drink because you don't drink?

This is actually funny to witness in real time. Hilarious as something just like going out to try and meet people is so nerve-racking for us. See everybody naked. That'll calm your nerves. Or see everybody else as nervous as you. They really don't give a shit, they're just worried about what they look like, not you. You're a handsome dude, don't be so hard on yourself, even if you weren't.

Seriously, some women would take that as a compliment compared to the real derogatory terms guys use for women.

Thought we couldn't be what we can observe. I was under the impression that I am not the body nor the mind.

You don't need to actively swallow, it's in your mouth so some are definitely being absorbed. Coconut Oil, baking soda, and some mint essential oil or whatever flavor could be a good substitute on occasion.

Didn't like the ingredients because of the saccharine, fluoride and cellulose gum, but I bet the smell is amazing. Probably has no real coconut in it too just artificially put in to allow for the aroma of coconut. Hey, it beats Colgate and Crest which says on the back in fine print to call poison control if ingested. Toothpaste - if ingested. Ok now.

lol

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I was just saying to myself, wtf has this thread turned into. Hehe. It's about hot women so might as well turn it into what some men love about hot women.

You might not be so weird when I tell you half the shit i've seen and was exposed to. Lots of men have weird fantasies and these are white men who are normalized in society. Once I had one who liked to go on all fours and bark like a dog, he was a lawyer. I also had a gynecologist who liked for me to act as his patient, another old vet who liked to be kicked in the balls and a well-established professional who liked to be peed on. One wanted me to smoke while he jerked off on my breast and another liked to wear women's panties while I tell him how sexy he looked, I didn't have this but its on YT where a girl was talking about a guy who wanted her to shit on a plate and pee in a champagne glass in a hotel room and he would sit at the table and have dinner a-la-carte made of shit and pee. That's a bit too far, I couldn't.

No, this is in America. I've been living here a long time and my Jamaica days was very innocent. Never been with a white guy in Ja. I wasn't around the tourists, I was in Kingston, not many tourists went there. No, you're saying that. That's how YOU feel. There was no less respect there. It is a sexual attraction because they love beautiful women and black girls are some of the most beautiful women on the planet. Of course, that's my bias and also just me saying that. Some white men can't resist especially ones with long beautiful legs like I have with an accent and spontaneous and fun with nice firm breasts. Lol I didn't do anything to anybody, they come to me and compensate me for my services. I'm not a dominatrix, no. I'm a very sweet, passionate, very soft and caring gal who makes sweet love to men I find attractive and will love, cherish and care for any man who I find deserving of my loyalty and devotion. In the meantime, whatever floats the boat of these individuals, I'll oblige, within reason, to fulfil their fantasies as long as I'm well compensated and they are aware that that's all it is - an act.