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Can you share that video with me please. Would really love to see it.

It's not complication, it's called understanding.

You're looking for the mind to make sense, it doesn't. This part of the mind (his wanting to stray) is coming from the subconscious while your comment from the conscious, rational, logical. The subconscious wins every time because it's what runs the show.

Lol. Where do you dream up these fantastical fantasies of yours I don't know, but they are certainly entertaining.😅. Poor Leo, being matched with a curvy female basketball player. He'd have to look hard as there aren't many curvy ones around. Tennis player would probably be more his type or a Chinese gymnast. Goo goo gai gai, me like you long time.🤣

Hahaha triggered? @Javfly33Does my comments read like someone triggered. That's why I say delusion. You can't even spot when someone is triggered much less to stop your own suffering by controlling the out-of-control mind. You're right I'm galaxies away from understanding your delusional mind. Barely understand my own delusion. Not trying to though, it recognize it's nature and I will be a fool to try and understand my own mind's delusion. THAT'S WHAT IT IS. No sense in fighting a brick wall. You on the other hand put delusion upon delusion upon delusion and keep building upon the delusional mind and it's having a grand ole party of delusions.

This is exactly what is happening in the "unconscious" "unawakened" mind. It believes what it's telling itself. You brought up some interesting points here. Notice I didn't use the words desperate and insecure. They are descriptive words that describe another way of being. Those traits doesn't attract they repel. One can attract while still in a lack mindset. They can attract more situations and circumstances that will make them feel more lack. There is really only abundance in the Universe e.g an abundance of lack, or an abundance of scarcity mindset etc. I'm not saying he recognizes this yet or ever will. He might stay miserable inside for the rest of his life. The billionaire might not have known when he was poor that he would still be miserable and unhappy being rich. You're right, we don't know until we experience these contrasts. You said something in essence to how what it feels like to have this level of confidence and abundance and I was responding and telling how that deep down this is not really the case only appears to be. Then us as onlookers develop a sense of lack ourselves when we see these things and do the comparison thing while being ignorant to what abundance really is and now feelings of depression and sadness kicks in. This is how we create our own demise. Those women are just props in his world to reflect back to him what's really going on but he's not conscious enough to read between the lines and neither are you. You see it as abundance and confidence when it's really only his reflection reflecting back his sense of lack. Lacking in love and attention and self worth. This is why I say pay no attention to the outside world, see it as a mirage and just go with the flow. Pay attention to your own thoughts and feelings and put your awareness on things you'd like to experience but not on the lack of it. He's feeling good in the moment but when itls all done he feels worse than he did before it started. That's polarity at play and how the body responds to outside stimuli. That's why there's gambling addiction or any addiction. Hit the jackpot feel good, that feels good till it wears off and now you want some more and the cycle begins and spirals into depression and feelings of suicide. It's the same high/low kind of polarity at play. Nothing stable within. The ocean keeps stirring up. No peace.

If these traits are what acting mean is about, they can keep their authenticity and excitement to themselves.

You will find out the hard way when you come across a female you really like and start to treat her mean and see how fast she disappears. Mean can be interpreted in different ways and that's the trap. Some guy will see this and go out and start to treat women in a mean way and turn them off. Know exactly what you mean by mean and try to understand the difference in descriptive words, rather than just take every common slang word at face value. Understand what she's really finding attractive and understand that no woman of sound mind wants to be treated mean.

You can only put your penis into one vagina at a time. Can only have one orgasm at a time and feel one emotion at a time. Where is the level of abundance in sleeping with 400 women. That's not confidence that's the lack of it. True abundance doesn't come in numbers. It's a mindset. Only someone with a lack mindset sees the need to sleep with multiple women at a time. (Not a judgement, not saying it's wrong or right) merely showing you what true abundance is. It's because he feels a sense of lack that drives this energy to desire these things. When it's done, he will feel even more lacking, trust me. It's only appealing to you because it satisfies your feelings of lack. Someone who feels abundant with women doesn't have these cravings because they are confident enough to know they can get one at any time.

Beautiful. This is true enlightenment. How to use the egoic mind to reform itself. To see itself for what it really is. Not to try to kill the ego and be nothing or no one to escape suffering. To truly reform suffering and to see it differently. A change in perspective. I love this very much.

@RazeThanks for sharing.

You're right about that. I'm only speaking to the neurotic mind anyway, how's it going to understand this. When I suffer I feel it for sure but I've realized that its a sensation, a feeling, passing phenomena nothing personal I just think it is. But you're right the for no one doesn't work, infact nothing works. The only thing that works is for the mind to realize it's place, shut up and go sit in the corner, face the wall and stop the bitching and moaning and whining so I can have my coffee in peace.😅😅😅

Delusion all the way. For you and for everyone else that is using Spirituality to end suffering. To think suffering is proof of anything, is utter neurosis and to say you're not handling things right is pure narcissism at its best. I really feel bad for all these egos who are trying their best but my dear lovely one, you will be eating you tail forever and going around in loops if this is what you're trying to do. Everyday you will wake up and maybe ease the pain a little bit from your neurotic mind but it will be right back there in the morning after next with another neurotic problem to fix and you will feel better again by doing your sadhana or vipanana or your pannini or whatever it is that you do and be right back to suffering that neurotic mind of yours again in no time until the day you WAKE UP out of your narcissistic neurosis and realize there's nothing to fix and no one to do anything to stop suffering because suffering is not happening to anyone its just the egos neurosis and sense of importance that thinks its suffering and all this is happening out in thin fucking air. Woo woo, hee, hee haw haw

This makes zero sense. Please explain as I don't want to put words in your mouth, but it just doesn't make any sense to me at all. I couldn't even come up with anything to collaborate what this statement means. What does the lack of feeling fulfilled and having a lack of a sense of completion have to do with posting on a forum and joining a community. Seems you have turned life's experience into this big meaningful epic and just simply can't see how people can just do things they enjoy doing without it being a sense of lack and not feeling fulfilled. Seems you've put your own meaning unto what it means to post on this forum and are now projecting that unto others. Ill agree that most humans feel a sense of lack and aren't fulfilled, thats just pretty much Universal and really need not be said. May I ask what would a person, in your opinion, who doesn't feel a sense of lack or feels fulfilled what would they be doing more of. This statement to me just screams self-judgement and self-criticism and how you feel about yourself and what you think is your own reasons for being here. Now you assume others are the same. It's the only thing i can think of as this activity is just that, an activity for the mind to engage in. Life is filled with meaningless activities and the only one in my opinion that is meaningful is to become familiar with your true nature. Anything else is just entertainment for the mind and distractions from nothing because they are forever changing and puts people into neurosis and emotional flux. So anything we do, I don't care what it is, if its not becoming familiar with the true nature of your being is just entertainment or survival.

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Now Trump is talking about the government recognizing only male and female genders. He says God created only two genders. He hasn't even been sworn in yet but already trying to dictate. Umph....

Sometimes a team may win a competition not because they're so great but because the other team screwed up.

Most times this is what happens. The current President takes credit or gets blamed for the previous one that was in office. People don't realize this and they think it's the current President's work.

This is why; your belief system. I've never seen such baloney told about women and break-ups. The part about men having a harder time might be true but the reason you gave about men waiting for them to get single is just not the case. It doesn't even make a lot of sense if you really think about it. You're also underestimating a female's ability to choose her men wisely. Even if there are a lot of single men, what makes you think she's willing to jump and just date any ole male. I'm tired of explaining how women are also having a hard time finding relationships; but guys keep insisting that we have it easy just because men are always hitting on women, So, that doesn't mean anything here. We're not looking at tits and ass like men are, we have to literally feel something first and that doesn't just come by looking. Also saying men are very loyal, is like speaking Chinese to my ear. You might be, but that's not usually a trait that most men have. If that was the case, so many women wouldn't be able to make a living in the adult industry. Every time I turn around there's another man willing to or is talking about cheating on his gf, even on this forum and I can make plenty of references and quotes from within threads if you'd like; might take some time and energy but they're there.