Princess Arabia

What remains......gosh, if I hear that phrase one more time. Nothing remains from anything dying. Nothing remains from losing a self that isn't there in the first place. Nothing remains in wholeness. Nothing remains after one seems to extract and turned the absolute into bits and pieces to suit them. That's all within the dream. Nothing remains when the dream is no longer. What remains is all that was there to begin with...NOTHING. What does that mean? Nothing is everything and everything is Nothing. Therefore Nothing is appearing to happen. Therefore, Nothing is happening. Therefore this is deep sleep. Therefore you are awake. Therefore awakening is the illusion. Therefore, when you're in deep sleep, that's your true awakening. Therefore no one can awaken to anything but themselves. Therefore awakening to anything is just awakening the self; and since there is no self that can awaken to itself because that's an oxymoron, no one awakens because the person is awake itself. Lost yet...hehe.

Anything can appear. Anything.

We say reality is unlimited and we are limited beings, yet we look to limit reality by trying to awaken or get enlightened. That suggests a center. Where is the center in what's unlimited. Where is the position. If I'm awake in the sense of awakening spiritually, then reality is unlimited because there is a point of focus and reference to awaken from. There is no time nor space and it's boundless. That awakened being needs to be at a point, bounded in time and continuity. If the absolute is everything, who is being awakened and to what if its not just a dream.

The me is always trying to negotiate with its reality. If I do this, can you do this for ME. If I'm this way, can you show up that way. Always looking for a reward system. Reward ME please. I will have a better experience if I contemplate on why this and that is happening to ME and tell myself ways on how to handle what's showing up. I'll have one up on things. I'm the master of my own world; and since I have free will and choice, I can navigate my way around what is and create another what is that suits ME. It didn't have a choice on whether that girl cheated on it in the first place, but it has a choice to tell itself that life goes on and it doesn't matter because there's more and better fish in the sea. It only has free will to do but not what happens to it. What happens, happens, but u have the authority to not make it happen again if I negotiate my way through this. Yea, I'm the man. Three weeks later, "anyone has any advice on how to so and so...?" Now I'll look to other negotiators to see if they can help with the negotiation process. Better tell it something that fits and suits it's negotiation style or it will just ignore what you have to say or come up with a million reasons why it won't work.

Some men are one-timers because instinctively they know women are the prize and if they didn't have to compete for that prize, then that prize isn't worth having. Another thing is it's not the sex they were after, it was the prize. Doing it again diminishes the feeling of it still being the prize. Same as any sport. Winning the Super Bowl novelty wears off after awhile and on to the next challenge, next year. Who is still excited about last year's winner. Those guys have very low self-esteem and need to go after the next to validate their sense of worth. They use women to do this but it reflects in other ways in their lives and also uses other tools for self-validation. Many guys that sees hookers are the same way too. After the first time, it's on to the next. They don't want that same prize again. These are just regular guys, so it's not a special breed. Amy guy can see hookers at any time. Some guys think because they don't, they don't need to because they can get sex anytime, anywhere. These guys can too,.it's just they like the thrill of the freshness of the prize. Stale prize isn't exciting anymore to them. Mind you,.not all guys are like this, some might want to savor the prize for awhile and then move on. Some might even stay for awhile but have fantasies about other prizes. Some might never want to compete for another prize, it's all different. After he's been with a woman for a while,.especially if he's younger, he's going to want to explore other prizes on the display table. The one's who value themselves will have this itch and it will bother them like crazy. Do I, do I not. Jeez, the temptation in is real. Men are also the prize, but in a different way. I'll save that for another post. Prize, in this context, doesn't mean better than. It just means something of value to the other person. Having sex with a man for a woman, isn't valuable,.it's not a challenge, she doesn't have to compete for it. It doesn't give her a sense of worth, it may actually diminish it sometimes. Women value something different in a man.

If there is no doer then who can relax. He says there is no doer then proceeds to give a call to action. Relax,.he says. The no-doer is going to relax. He also teaches about being Awareness. Why does awareness have to be told to relax. Who is he talking to then. I agree with what he's saying but the thing is he's the dream. There is no witness. That energy sees people,.he's just saying that stuff because he himself was taught that and he follows Ramana and teaches Self -inquiry on his channel. All that he's saying he's not realizing, which he cannot, that he doesn't exist either not even as the witness. This is the energy that wants to keep its legacy going . You are not the doer,.life.is a dream, you are the witness. Nooooo, there is just no you in no shape or form.

This is just not true. Lots of men are one timers no matter how great the female is.

You are Awareness. Awareness is never not there. Awareness is all there is. Your true nature is Awareness.....NOT. What's aware of your lungs, your kidneys, esophagus, the man up the street in his bathroom. I guess he's Awareness to himself. You're not even Consciousness but I'm a bit tired now to even break that down. Doesn't matter anyway. There's also no True Nature. No present moment. All your spiritual notions aren't even real. Non-duality is fake, relativity doesn't even happen, its the dream. Experience is only truth in the dream. It's all dream when the I is there. Without the I everything is perfectly wonderfully itself. The I is the only illusion. Its just not even there, AT ALL.

No good threads lately, ugg. Just bullshit.

Everyone is a construction of your own mind because you're a construction as well. Both goes hand in hand and I'm not referring to the ego because no one actually has an ego.

Lay off those drugs.😛😏😜

It's the same ole shit i talk about all the time that doesn't really register and really doesn't make a difference because life still goes on. I said what I said only to say if it could be known, but it can't be so it's not something you can know.

The lies being told that most women only want or are with only the top 10% is what's making most of the other men who don't follow and believe that bullshit going out and finding women to date. These internet stories does nothing for the average male who are still trying to make it have any confidence in themselves to just go for it and let loose. They look at women they're attracted to and tell themselves from the get go that she doesn't want a man like me because I'm not in the top 10-20% so he doesn't even try. Such a shame.

Women are waking up to men's games and men just don't have anywhere to go with theirs. Women have more wiggle room to maneuver the game but because all men mostly want is sex, it gets harder for them to work around that.

What is stopping some of these younger men from 'scoring' is the way they feel about themselves. Period. Point blank. Older men have to impress a little bit harder.

Most guys don't realize it's not WHAT turns a woman on but WHO turns a woman on. She can like anything (within reason) if she's with the guy that turns her on from the get go.

Most of you if you ever knew what's actually going on here you would shit your pants. You would have an existential crises.

Life will show us time and time again that nothing really belongs to us. There is nothing that can prepare us for the losses that we'll encounter. Life gives and takes back. Makes us feel happy then turns around with sadness. Brings us joy and then serves us pain. No one is immune. There are no teachings for this, no coping mechanisms that lasts and telling ourselves to not get attached is not the answer. There are no answers for where there are no problems. Life just sucks for the me. Period.

Life feeds on drama. Doesn't matter how evil you are, how controversial, hold anti-human beliefs, hatred for certain sectors of humanity, spew out racism, prejudice and promote war you will get the attention you crave. People don't fight for what they are for but what they are against. People don't focus on things that are doing well, they focus on things that are doing bad. One example of this is the Charlie Kirk thread. More power to that beast and keeping his name alive and legacy lived on by people who hated what he stood for. This is what humanity does and why people like him will continue to do what they do because they'll always get attention for it and any attention is better than none. That thread has 75,000 views in the space of 11 days. That alone should tell you something and it's still counting and going strong. So many people out there trying to do good for humanity and they go unnoticed and taken over by the ones who couldn't care less, this includes the Donald. Look how popular he is. I lost faith in the system a long time ago. There's nothing to fight for anymore only to realize life is impersonal and can go either way.

There's always a problem to be solved. Always a need to be fulfilled. Always a desire that leads to wanting more. Never total satisfaction. Never total fulfillment. That's the nature of infinity personalizing itself.

Excellence is celebrated. Winners are cheered on. Courage is admired. Strength is saught after. Bravery is encouraged. Skill is needed, all these expectancies breeds a sense of unworthiness. We create our own demise because not all can and will achieve these things. Then we create institutions and have a place in society that holds all the 'losers' that couldn't meet these expectations. Life surely knows how to eat itself alive and chew itself back out to keep itself going.

There's no one in Leo's body either.

Self-inquiry is the most brilliant spiritual practice ever invented to help put the me at ease. It focuses on what's not there and tells itself that's who it is. I'm not what I can observe. I'm not the body/mind, I observe the body/mind, it suggests. It insists on being and it knows it exists, so if i'm not what I can witness, then I must be what I cannot see. The eyes cannot see itself and the hand cannot touch itself. The same way I cannot be what I can observe. Such hogwash. There is just simply no you to observe a you and that's why you cannot see yourself. You never change because there's no you to change. Things don't actually change, they appear or they don't. Things seem to be forever changing, but that's the illusion. If there is no illusory observer, everything just is. Without a witness/observer, nothing changes. You go to England one day and Canada the next, so it seems. What actually happened was England appeared and Canada appeared and everything else in between. Nothing moved, nothing changed, only appeared. Self-inquiry states that you never change, you remain the same. Partially correct, except there's not a you that didn't change, not a you that remained the same, take the you out and nothing actually changes. Take the observer out and no change is observed. This is illustrated in deep sleep, which is what this actually is. You wake up from deep sleep as an observer and the witness but that's a mirage and if one never wakes up nothing remains. I'm not this and I'm not that so i must be what I cannot see. No, you are not seeing anything to begin with, seeing is what's happening all on it's own and without anyone seeing anything. This goes for every sense except the sense of self which senses everything it observers and witnesses to be real. No sense of self, and everything is just what is. The practice has put separation between itself and objects. There is no such thing as subject/object relationship where there is no separation to begin with. All self-inquiry teachers speak to the dream as the dream from the dream and is all story telling to make the me feel at ease with it's non-existence. It had to be practiced to never-ending come and focused on, and be dedicated to to even have some effect just like working out in the gym. There will be some effect and it can ease the me somewhat into believing it's the invisible being that it is but it's still not the truth. The truth is there is no one and no one can do anything to make no one disappear or appear. It's still all energetic and infinity being all that, so nothing is really wrong and nothing needs to change as it's all empty anyway; meaning, self-inquiry or no self-inquiry, it's all the same nothing being it all. It's lost in it's own beingness.

Everything is whole and complete in and in of itself. Everything. There's nothing that's incomplete or even limited. It may appear that way but it's not. One might say I can't fly like a bird so I'm limited but who said I was supposed to fly like a bird. A bird is a bird and a human body a human body. Why is a human body limited because it cannot fly. That's not limitation, that's expectation. Expecting something to be what it's not.

We all have a story. Stories are what makes us into who we believe ourselves to be. Without those stories we are nothing. Those stories are built upon shaky grounds. They can crumble at any time. They don't have any reality apart from the storyteller. We are all surviving those stories. Nothing else. We need those stories for motivation, encouragement, feelings of worthiness, confidence, meaning and purpose. Anything that doesn't align with these stories is the enemy and vice versa. We don't love; we are in love with what makes our stories build, what makes us feel good about our constructions. Investigate that. Dig deep. If such and such wasn't a certain way we wouldn't give too shits - fill in the blank. If that girl wasn't beautiful, you wouldn't be attracted; if that guy wasn't rich, you wouldn't pay him any attention. If that person didn't enhance your life, you wouldn't care to enhance theirs, and so on and so forth. It's all about what keeps our stories in tact. We are sensing our way throughout the world. What makes sense is relevant to our survival strategies. If it doesn't make sense to us, we tend to want to discard it. The same thing will make sense to someone else but not to us because it doesn't align with the building blocks of our stories. That's all that's happening here with each and every individual. We try to be confident, we contemplate, we strategize, we manipulate and maneuver our way through life. All to fit into the construct we have built for ourselves. When something starts to crumble, we get sad, we feel a sense of loss, we hate and we envy and feel disconnected from our constructs. All of this gets tiring. All of this breeds anger and hate and jealousy. Nothing is wrong. Nothing needs to change. This is what infinity is being. It's all that is and nothing needs to be any different.