Princess Arabia

Why is always that one is seeking attention who dresses provocatively. That's not necessarily the case. They might just enjoy dressing that way just like how they might prefer apples to oranges. Personal choice.

You have strayed from the issue at hand. No need to walk around naked to have self-expression in clothing. Yoga pants are pants. They are fitting. That's it. Anything else is thought.

Please stick to the issue at hand. I never said to let people do whatever they want. Yes, I'll give you that that you never mentioned the word hate; that's my doing. I'm simply stating opinions and beliefs not suggesting that anyone is trying to suppress me. I didn't take this convo personally. It's a forum and I'm discussing. I don't even wear yoga pants and I don't dress scantily not even when I'm working. Don't need to.

Freedom from what - your own mind. Freedom from the thoughts we entertain. Thoughts about the world. Your world. There is no other. Yes, we need rules and regulations not talking about that, everything else is our own doing. Mentally.

This isn't the problem. The hating on the women for doing this and blaming them for it is even worse.

They hate on hookers, they hate on beautiful/ugly women, hate on insta models, hate on models, call them dumb, hate on fa* women, they don't want them, hate on other men because they get all the women, hate on porn, hate on women that reject them, hate on women that are too forward, hate on yoga pants, hate on cleavage, hate on mothers, sisters, daughters, uncles, friends, lovers, gfs, gays, bi-s, trans,......we hate everything even ourselves; then we say God is love. This is hilarious. And we try to make sense of the nonsense.....don't get me started. Lol

Had to look up what a burka (burqa) was. I don't pay attention to what doesn't tickle my fancy. Different strokes for different folks. Who cares only the one that does. Neither are bothering me.

Maybe to you, but not the Millions who wear them nor the manufacturer that makes the millions. Lots of things looks or seems foolish that doesn't create a stir, but yoga pants do...i wonder why. We have a Spiritual practice called Yoga and we encourage this practice but not the pants that makes the practice comfortable. The comfortable yoga pants are foolish.

Tell me something that isn't. It's the knowledge that we attained that made us believe there's a truth to seek. Baby is born - knows nothing - acquires knowledge-I am here, boom separation. That's the start of the seeming ignorance of separation. Truth is here now, that which is the case, what's appearing. Everything else are stories and imagination. Ignorance of truth is a concept. Even if someone's lying that's truth. Truth cannot be escaped. It is what appears, nothing else exists. Knowledge isn't needed for truth. Truth cannot be known only lived. Life is Truth and life is living every ,moment is fresh and new. Thats truth.

Lol Matter of fact, lmao.

Lol.. The name sounds female but your attitude and persona screams maallleeeeee...lol. not dissapointed, didn't matter either way. The discussion we had about p size just sparked that curiosity and just wanted to know what gender I was speaking to even though I suspected male from your aggression in the past.

There's no freedom for the one that thinks it's free. Freedom also includes caring, not caring, just being, not just being, not giving a fuck, giving a fuck. Freedom includes even the feeling of not feeling free. This is why it's the same as unconditional love/liberation. Being free to feel unliberated and free. This is Absolute. You have just described another form of slavery/mind control/ thoughts trying to be free from thoughts. All there is is freedom.

You're funny. Giving him a reminder there, I see.

Oh ok.

Until next week. The control was never there to begin with. Fuck the mind...lol. You've just ignited that flame. Now it's really gonna drive you crazy.

I'm not sure, are you male or female.

I agree some women do prefer larger, but I wouldn't necessarily say it's a matter of how sexual they are. I don't think it matters. A woman may be very sexual and prefers a smaller penis and a woman can prefer larger ones and not be highly sexual. I'll tell you a secret though. Shorter females prefer them bigger. The shorter the bigger.

Most one night stands are done under the influence of something and that's when one gets uninhibited and needs a more intense stimuli to feel, so yes I can understand this. I didn't say anything about women and porn.

Some things are unisex, even pertaining to attraction, relationships and sex. I understand that in certain ways we're different, but those differences are usually meant to compliment a healthy dynamic not to cause conflicts and disruptions if understood properly. If I find that there's a particular difference between the sexes that's inherent and i seem to have a problem there as a feminine, I examine myself to see where is there an imbalance in my thinking or way of being that's not flowing with the masculine energy; not send out public messages of please stop doing that just to make me feel better about my insecurities, or trying to change the gender roles or trying to make the masculine feel he needs to make excuses for his gender.

Why would I want to do something about it. What you're explaining here is a lack of self-control. People aren't getting uncontrollably excited and attracted to things that becomes a problem when seen. If I'm attracted to a nice smile on a man, why would every man with a nice smile be an issue of avoidance. I might like it on one guy and not so much on another same nice smile difference face. I love to see a beautiful smile, it brightens my day. I don't need to go on a forum and tell the whole world how it's distracting and their pushing their beautiful smile down my throat unless I have a problem m controlling myself when I see a beautiful smile. Goes for any other attraction and likes.

Ok, I see this point. Taken.

I'm aware of this and that's why it's irrelevant to turn the tables in this respect because we're not bothered either way to the point of disturbance and it being an issue. Of course, not every instance in the world is the same so this is a general statement. I'm not refusing to understand anything. Youve made this dynamic a problem for you. It's not a problem for some; in fact, some I'm sure enjoys looking and it's not a problem. Yes it does. That booty or boob or pretty face or hair or whatever attracts you is making you feel a certain way. Next time you get attracted to a woman, take note and notice there's a feeling there; a feeling that was ignited for whatever reason. The difference is the man usually has to initiate that feeling for the woman, meaning after getting to know him, is she feeling good about him, is he making her feel.......whatever that is. I don't buy into that only men are visual creatures thing. Both are. Men get excited visually, but women get attracted visually and emotionally. We usually get excited after the fact. Men aren't walking around making women horny. Women are horny then go around looking to "feed" that horniness. She was already horny. There's a difference between getting excited and feeling horny.

Do you really think women are bothered by men on the beach, at the gym or wherever men wear these kinds of clothing. Not every woman enjoys a huge penis and for most women just the look at any ole penis doesn't excite. Even her man's, only when she feels it. Do you know who gets excited from looking at a mans penis, dykes (masculine gay women). You mentioned yoga pants; ok what do you see, the shape of a covered butt and maybe in the front a covered front. Maybe some cleavage and the overall shape of the body. Geesh, I'm forced to deal with men's cat-calling since the age of 10...do I make posts about it. Am I a victim because of it. No. If I know I'll be in a neighborhood where there are numerous cat-calling activity, I wear head phones, problem solved. Or I just ignore. Women have to deal with unwanted approaches. Do we go around saying guys please stop approaching. I give advice on approaching. This is how you not be a victim, embrace life. Nothing wrong with cat-calling, nothing wrong with unwanted approaches (the guy doesnt know its unwanted ), nothing wrong with men being horny pigs. I've made a living from that. I don't care if a guys penis is bulging from his swimwear it could be 12 inches long, don't look, don't stare if it bothers you. Stop blaming women for your inabilities. I've seen plenty of guys keeping their heads straight when passing scantily clad women and I've also seen the opposite. Sometimes I may look the most beautiful I can ever look and some guys don't flinch. They're just not the type. I work in a field where I have to notice men's behavior. Not even the sexiest blonde will turn some men's heads. There are types. I've seen where men think everybody's like them......NO.....they're not all the same. Some men will not care about these things and some will. Everybody glances at everybody, so I'm talking about looks and stares and people being uncomfortable. If you're that type, then you're just that type. Trust me, not every or even ,most men are bothered by a scantily dressed woman. It's your problem not the woman's. We are not speaking about women who show their nipples, half their breasts, see through clothing showing their body parts, I don't see this happening, you're talking about a specific body that when clothes are worn will reveal a shape. Your problem if it turns you on and yours uncomfortable with it. Lots of guys don't mind and don't need to make posts about it and won't tell women how would you feel if my bulge was showing.

Ilm sorry, but if this is your reasoning, you're a victim. 2 billion people didn't decide that. A few did, and the poor enslaved people with dictators had to follow. Let them try that elsewhere. I see you as the only one on this forum with this problem. Thats it no more comment from me to you.

I'll just leave you alone. I don't have time for this.