Princess Arabia

This is pretty much what @Emeraldwas trying to say. Nothing different with what you're saying here. She wasn't talking about marriage, per se, so the rest of your statement doesn't really apply to what we're talking about. People don't have to marry to be together forever or for a long time.

I hesitated by asking this, but I will ask anyway. This question only has to do with the things you mentioned and nothing to do with you as a person. What is your race? You don't have to answer nor do you have to say what sex. I'm just curious as to whether my thinking is right and i will say if and after you answer. It's more of a playful thing, so don't take it out of context.

I will not go back and forth with you on this. Men indirectly taught me how they are, not by what they said but by how I felt about what they said. Maybe you should do the same.

This more seems like you talking to and about yourself.

Only if you're looking for someone to build your ego or looking to get something from her. If you just want to love her, no incentives needed.

I think your talk here, and no disrespect to men, just keeping it real, only pertains to "real" masculine men. I noticed nothing I did or said would deter them away if they really wanted to be there, as you said and these types of men WILL NOT fall for the wrong type of woman. Bottomline. The incentive is already in her being, not something she has to do or prove. He feels he has to prove to her not the other way around. I stress, not every woman he will be like this with, only the one he TRULY wants and it doesn't take for her to do anything in particular. Maybe, not do, and he already deciphered that in his logical mind from the jump. These types of men know what they want from the beginning and it doesn't take any doing on the woman's part. They are not players, simps, aggressive, timid not submissive, they are just men.

BRILLIANT!!!!!!!!!

@IshangaYou keep rebutting with the same kind of pity message. If you don't agree, you don't agree. Saying, "easy for you to say when.....and showing pictures of dying children is not saying what you believe to be the truth, it only shows a denial of what you don't know to be the truth. As if there's something evil about what's being pointed to instead of just saying what you believe to be so. This is not about truth anyway because truth cannot be known.

This has nothing to do with what's being pointed to here. You interpreted it as nihilism because you're so attached to being human. I don't feel nihilistic, why should I. You avoid this because it hurts you but it doesn't matter how you react what you say or do, post, or rebut, it doesn't change what is. If I'm wrong, then that image doesn't relate, if I'm right, the image still doesn't relate.

Believe it or not, some men think it's less expensive to get married. They love women, always want more and if they're not married they have to keep spending money to get what they want so they marry to keep it simple or to not keep dishing out for dates, expenses, etc. I've heard them say it's cheaper to keep 'em.

The Absolute. Everything appearing out of no-thing which is the Absolute. It cannot be known because it is everything appearing as it. It is beyond everything that is known. It is the unknowable. Hidden in plain sight. It cannot be reached, cannot be talked about, understood nor can it be felt because it is also those things. It is aliveness always fresh and new.

Ah ha, makes sense. Yes, I always wondered why the people in the hood found the bigger girls more attractive. (I say hood because that's just what they call it. Nothing derogatory. I used to visit all the time). This is true too. I'm thin (not skinny) and I notice I attract men from this bracket. I could walk in the hood with a girl with a big butt and large thighs and still attractive and the guys would go for her more and I could be in a place where it's mostly men from the economically richer areas and they would gravitate towards me more. It's funny you say this because I've noticed it too. Never really knew why but it was noticeable.

Easy to say when your in a comfy room on a keyboard typing BS on a BS forum, If it's such a bs forum, why are you on here. Is it a possibility that you are not making that choice and that choice is just happening.....ever consider that. Then again there will just be denial, excuses and reasons why you're on here just happening too.

Spot on! Not that I knew this specifically, but from reading it, I noticed the dynamic from just observing and fitting the pieces of the puzzle together from dating advices, how men and women act, and from what I've noticed. This is why I would say women don't full on approach men and it is not recommended not because we're timid or think we're the shit, but for the reasons you stated. Plus I've noticed the type of guys who would stick around longer, who I was being at the time, how they responded and the difference with the ones who didn't or even changed once I started being the opposite. The dynamics you mentioned were exactly how it turned out to be. Brilliant.

Yes, I always wondered why the people in the hood found the bigger girls more attractive. (I say hood because that's just what they call it. Nothing derogatory. I used to visit all the time). This is true too. I'm thin (not skinny) and I notice I attract men from this bracket. I could walk in the hood with a girl with a big butt and large thighs and still attractive and the guys would go for her more and I could be in a place where it's mostly men from the economically richer areas and they would gravitate towards me more. It's funny you say this because I've noticed it too. Never really knew why but it was noticeable.

When I say that I mean it only exists as a part of the illusory dream. The dream where an individual is having a life and a separate personality who is conscious. Consciousness is part of that dream. It is not who or what we are.

Here we go again, the denials. Most will deny this truth, because they think they're making this conscious decision and it may seem vain, but I've seen this time and time again and not just with initial attraction but even with wives or gfs. Most men will not leave the love of their lives nor break up with someone because they depreciated in their looks a bit or doesn't dress or look the part all the time etc, but they will seek that satisfaction elsewhere whether by porn, adult workers or cheating, whether it be in the mind through fantasies or the real deal. They just need that visual stimulii.

That's also it. Lol

Oh, Instagram. Oh ok. I didn't really pay attention to the name only the quotes. I remember now.

Wow, never even heard of him. What I said in my post is everywhere, and is screaming at us but we can't see it because it is us. Even though there's ultimately no us.

Consciousness requires something to be conscious of. An observer requires something to observe. Awareness requires something to be aware of. If it's total, not two and everything, how can consciousness be the Ultimate thing that is. That's only within the dream of separation which is an illusion.

There are no laughing emojiis grand enough to use on this one.

Happiness is temporary because you are happiness itself. Sadness is temporary because you are sadness itself. All these states are arising from the permanent, which is you and that's why they are fleeting. Chase neither. See them for what they are and don't identify with them because that will bring with it suffering. Suffering from the illusion of separation as when one chop it's leg off from the body. Nothing is separate but the appearance of separation and the seeking of the different states and the identifying with the body is where the suffering comes from. Doesn't matter what happens in this scenario, the result will be the same if something or some state is being chased after and it doesn't matter what state. You cannot be happy by just being because being is no-thing that needs to be happy or anything because it is no-thing and everything simultaneously.

Very simple. Illusion. The End.

It's just it. Nothing being anything, as it's everything.