Princess Arabia

Says who, the "I"? Is it the I that created this "point of it all"?

What/Who noticed/experienced this.

Then what do you think the partner is then if everything is mind. You have fallen into the mind trap. The mind is what's saying this, and the mind is what confirmed. It's all mind, remember. This is utter self-deception at it's core.

There is such a thing called tact. There's such a thing called a process and there's such a thing called respect. Neither suggests that the lack thereof is manipulation. Most guys who aim to sleep with a female also have the aim to talk with her first and get to know her even if it's just for a bit. Women know already if they're willing to sleep with you when they meet you. All most guys have done that succeeded is to not have screwed that up.

You must be pretty young and inexperienced. That's just my assessment from reading your post and the kind of advice you seek. Why don't you try a bit of spontaneity. When it comes to these things, no amount of planning out and speculating will work. Talk to her. Find out about her from her. No one here can advise on what to text someone they know nothing about. The reason you're asking is also because you know nothing about her other than where she's from. You avoided her call because you were busy, and now you're asking for advice on what to say. You weren't busy when you made this post. You have to go into this head-on and stop using your mind to try and figure this out. If she speaks or write enough English for a balanced communication, I would suggest you go talk to her directly and let the conversation flow on it's own instead of trying to figure out something that hasn't even started yet.

Nothing I said turned this into a spiritual discussion; you did.

This is an assumption and not based off of anything concrete. The reason you are a self is because you're conscious of that self.

As "me".

Yes.

To be in a state of not imagining division anymore requires thought. It's thought that says it needs to be in that state. That's why people meditate. It's a battle between thoughts. The mediator of thoughts. That's why some get headaches and heart palpitations from meditation. Not saying don't meditate, just saying it's still a thoughts battling thoughts.

It's delusion. Delusions fall away. There's nothing to get rid of in this respect. It's energetic and when it's not being powered, it simply falls away. The reason the self was borne is because of the knowledge it acquired. That's why baby's don't have a sense of self until a certain age. Neither do most animals. The ones that do are the ones with high intelligence like dolphins and elephants. You don't see them trying to get rid of it, though because they haven't acquired that type of knowledge only humans. It's a self-defeating task as the self isn't there in the first place. Our intelligence is our greatest tragedy, all it does is enables us to acquire more knowledge which is the reason for the seeming separation.

The self you're trying to get rid of doesn't exist. The very demand to rid yourself of the self is the thing that keeps that energy alive.

How can there be a dissolution of something that isn't there in the first place? That's why.

Ok. Nice perspective.

Yes, he sounds real.

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Funny, because I have attraction to both genders but only romantic attraction towards men. Funny how attraction works. I don't even consider myself bi even though I've been with women. I don't even label myself as straight just sexual. Words that come before sexual are just labels we place upon ourselves.

Oh my. His life if filled with so many controversies even the Jamaica models couldn't catch a break. This is like 8yrs ago.

I went to this Modelling School in Ja. I entered Miss Jamaica Fashion Model contest and out of thousands I came in the top 50 and did the final show. I didn't win but the show was fun. This was a long time ago. Now, they have expanded a lot.

Jamaican are everywhere. Even in Antartica.

Learn to just relax and let the life energy flows. There's too much labelling and identities with thoughts and not enough allowing for things to be as they are. You're getting caught up with life and meaning and trying to hold on to what cannot be held on to. Look how many labels you've ascribed yourself to in your post. Geesh when you're done, you'll be so tired of trying to live up to all that and be worn out like it seems to be the point you're at right now. Things reveal themselves after a certain time in life and will naturally take care of itself.

Then what I'm saying will be recognized and there goes the end of the I dream.

More and more I'm seeing how there's no actual person inside these bodies. If there were, it wouldn't need to watch a video to find itself.

There is no center of the Universe. There's no point of reference. There is no position. Those are all apparents. It doesn't really matter what you or I say about the matter, now does it. If there is, there is, if there isn't, there isn't. Nothing changes, only the apparent saying it is so or not so. Words exchanging. All that you have said in your comment doesn't reference an actual individual in that body. Only decisions being made. If it's you making them or not you making them, who cares. Why is there a need to prove there's a you making decisions. Go ahead and make the decision to stop your heart from beating. Go ahead and decide not to decide, go ahead and stop the next thought from arising. If you say they are just natural occurrences, then where is the natural occurrence to decision making. Did you make the decision to be born also and who your patents would be. How is this not arrogance to believe you are making the decision to live.