Princess Arabia

That's a really cute pic. Loving that alligator in them sunglasses and seat belt.

From someone who watches or used to watch porn. Every night to jerk off to. Shit in, shit out.

This is why I love Teal. She examines things from different angles and not just from one angle. People don't realize the enormity in the differences that makes up our individuality. Apart from the obvious similarities, we are diversely different in how we approach life and how we embrace it. Most of us project our own beliefs, likes and dislikes unto the world because we think we're the only ones that exist. If we say it's trash, it's trash. While some one somewhere might be healing their trauma with responsible sex and with the right mindframe and with the right people and how we view our own sexuality. You can tell a lot about a person just by knowing their dislikes. I'm watching this video, and she speaks how i would speak. Same stuff i posted in the other thread, especially in the last 5mins of the video. So many trauma induced comments around this topic, you can tell it's the person making the comment that has an issue within their own psyche.

Once a friend of mine showed me a porn site. I never heard of it and i forgot the name and a subscription is needed to access the main site. It was very classy and the way they performed was like you were watching the human body in art form. Just like you have people doing nude art that's done in an artful way and there are nude or semi-nude pictures of male and female bodies all over the globe shown in museums on some streets as monuments etc. Nobody wants to jerk off to those so they're not a problem. People will criticize hot bikini women being used to sell stuff even if done in a classy way, but will walk by a shopping mall where in the windows I've seen pictures with men in underwear and no shirt Calvin Klein or whatever with their bulges showing and women in bikinis in windows of well established clothing companies. Let that same woman in the same bikini selling the same thing be a real woman on the corner promoting the same stuff and now its a problem. When you've been exposed to a certain thing or the purpose for your using that thing is demeaning in your eyes and you're judging yourself for doing it and with it comes shame and being uncomfortable with what you are engaging in, you will have judgements and criticisms about that thing. Bear in mind here, I'm not referring to exploited women, children and abusive stuff in the industry. It's just there are sites that do it in artful ways and do not have an air of roughness and aggression to it where the actors are not being exploited and no gang bang scenes or men coming on their faces and stuff like that; but it's porn nonetheless. When one is uncomfortable with their porn addiction, are sex addicts, or look at the human body a certain way, they will be the first ones to judge the industry. Porn hub and xnx are trashy sites but there are others where people are actually enjoying in the comfort of their homes and couples use to enhance their sex lives. Of course, a man who enjoys watching a woman being fucked in the ass by 10men while sucking on their penises and being cummed on by 5 of them will call porn dirt. Others who can go to a site and pay a subscription to watch mature people in the nude with beautiful bodies who make out in sensual ways, won't find that to be dirt. It depends on what trash you're watching and getting turned on by and the thoughts that come with it. Most men aren't comfortable with their own lustful thoughts and what their dirty little minds fantasize about so they call it trash. It's just so ironic how people know where to find these trash, and can tell you exactly what goes on within these trash sites. Showing how they're the ones fixated on this trash while calling it trash. Same thing with Only Fans, everybody knows about it, knows what goes on inside if it but always got something negative to say. If I ask you all about The Coconut Mama site and about the healthy recipes she promotes and all the delicious ways people can use coconut, nobody will have heard of her but maybe a few. But everybody and their mama knows about porn hub and OF. This is why I pay humans no mind sometimes and some channels have millions of views while some only a few hundred. People love to hate what they love. I don't really watch porn but only on a few occasions; so this is not about me sticking up for something because I like it. I couldn't care less if porn exists or not.

I understand.

I'm not offended. It's just easy to talk shit about people behind a computer screen and not knowing their situation.

This is what I'm talking about. Do you think you're any better than the people you hate. You're hating on females you don't even know and who did nothing to you directly. Whatever hang ups you're dealing with why you feel hatred for them has nothing to do with them. Nobody is saying anything about the fact that hate is a mind disease, and they will read your comment and let you rot the mind while continue to pass judgements. If this was such a self improvement forum, we should be trying to show you that hate isn't the way to go because that is not a so-called high conscious emotion.

This forum is so judgemental. Don't forget your skeletons in your closets. If you watch porn, by your standards you are also low consciousness. Can't call an industry you patronize low consciousness and not say that's low consciousness behavior. Lots of pick up, porn watching and going out clubbing to pick up hot chicks and trying to get laid from strangers on this forum; but as soon as porn is mentioned everybody turns into the God in the sky. Can't just speak about what's happening, maybe try to understand why people do what they do and say hopefully one day, the porn industry might whatever...... This world has gone to the dogs, yes, and lots of people are engaging in activities that's probably not in their best interest. Doesn't mean we have to bash them. Spiritual work is about kindness and compassion. Understanding that everyone is consciousness awareness and some are just not there yet. People have their own battles and challenges to face in this world and bashing and criticizing and judging isn't the way to go from a higher point of view. Condoning is not the answer either, but it's so easy for people to sit on their high horses thinking they are better than anybody else because they meditate and do yoga. Judging and criticizing is not in alignment with the higher power either. When we see people acting in ways that goes against what is aligned with their true nature, which btw is not selling sex, but being cruel, unkind, judgemental, condescending, thinking you're better than you are also acting in a low conscious manner.

Seriously, I don't think the two actually goes together - high or low consciousness. Don't even know why the mention.

You forgot to say the direct selling of sex. Sex is being indirectly sold in marketing strategies. That's where the quote "sex sells" come from. Intact, you've also indirectly bought sex. That female you had sex with and was so attracted to, bought make up, high heels and a sexy dress that you bought into.

Sorry, I said "no", because it's just a matter of differences of opinion. I don't think decenticization of porn leads to more hard core stuff. If anything, it reduces the need for porn entirely and probably lowers one's sex drive but not necessarily. Just my opinion

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There's violence, torture and abuse of animals. There's violence, torture and abuse in the churches. There's violence torture and abuse of children in households. There's violence, torture and abuse in war zones. Also, there's porn that doesn't exploit or contains violence, torture and abuse. There are plenty of examples on both sides of the spectrum and in places not known. Porn industry is just another example. If you were to constantly watch videos of children or animals being tortured and abused, you would be asking why is there so much torture and abuse of children and animals. There's someone right now, as we speak, getting tortured and abused and also someone being cared for. We're only concerned with what we're aware of and what we focus on expands.

No, it's a way of expressing the anger inside.

Don't you watch porn? What's the difference. Sometimes they do persecute the onlookers.

There is ultimately one body. One Self. It all exists, or none at all. It's like looking in the mirror. Your reflection technically doesn't exist, but it's still there. Without you there's no reflection of you. So whatever you're aware of is also a reflection of you.

Mentors are great. A lot of successful people had mentors.

Ironically, no thoughts or perspectives is entirely one's own. How do you think you were able to agree with everything he said. They were also your thoughts and perspectives.

You are not just the body. Who is the one that wants to leave the body. Investigate that and you'll find no one there.

Well, you did say, you think. The Universe is also masculine and feminine.

That's a feminine perspective. You haven't integrated your masculine side. Masculine men don't have this problem. If they do, it's not just in this area and carries over unto other self insecurity issues. Just like how a woman doesn't feel comfortable approaching, it's a masculine trait that should empower a man not demasculate him. Has nothing to do with rejection because no one likes that but the hurt of a rejection isn't going to stop a masculine man from approaching something that he sees and wants or make him feel desperate. Those are the things the feminine feels. Your feminine side overpowers your masculine side.

That's because we don't have any equipments that needs performance. Getting wet is also not necessary for sex to happen either. Neither sexes really understand the depth of what it really means to be a particular sex, I guess that's why I hear so many misconceptions on the men's part. They don't take me seriously when I oppose, though, and say we don't know ourselves, or we just don't get men or something like that. It's very rare I see a male on here genuinely caring about how we feel and ask us questions. They are usually asking other men and taking other men's advice over the ladies. The one's that do ask, I can tell even before that, that they were the type to care just from how they interact on the forum. @CARDOZZOis one amongst others. Davino is another. Breakinthewall to. It's easy to spot a sensitive man who cares about what women really like and whose just not about himself even just from online interactions. Luvboy too.

Are you saying here that he needs to be so attracted because after the initial lust thing wears off and he gets used to you, he needs to know he can still get hard even if he loves you as love has nothing to do with attraction. Is he thinking that long-term about this, if that's what you're saying.

Not sure, never had that happen.

I don't know about for my sake😛Plenty of drunk men can't get it up. I get what you're saying.