Princess Arabia

What you're describing is how to end the dream. A dream that never really happened, but only as a dream. Like our dreams at night. You dreamt of situations and circumstances but you were still laying in bed and went nowhere, in that sense of never happened. There's nothing one needs to do to become one with anything. It is already done. There are no processes or thinking specific thoughts or taking any specific action that needs to be done. It is already the case. All the individual needs to do is to recognize that they are not separate, life is not about them and nothing is happening to you. Things are just happening. The thoughts and ideas about what's happening is the dream and the belief that there is an individual making choices and has free will. That's the dream. Life is apparently unfolding and is what it is. You are on track there, but you're still believing you're in control of thought and by removing them you automatically have arrived somewhere. No. Thoughts aren't even happening only appearing so, so how can one stop doing something that's appearing to be happening. It's a dream. Do you dream at night and say i must stop dreaming this dream in order to not dream this dream? No, when you awaken you recognize it for what it is and go about your day. Same here, recognize it for what it is and go about your day. Already know there's no separation, no individual, thoughts and ideas about thoughts and ideas, the stories we concoct up about what's happening is not Reality it's all illusory, the Absolute is no-thing appearing as everything, it is all there is and i mean everything. You don't need to stop thinking for the I to disappear, the I is already not there, only seems to be because of a contracted energy and everything that appears from that contracted I energy is illusory but the individual is lost in its own hallucinations and thoughts and thinking there's a world and that they have a life and needs to survive, when all along it is only the Absolute v appearing and it can appear however it wants, anything can appear. There is nothing REALLY happening. It's all a mystery and nobody knows anything including me.

How can awareness lose awareness. I never heard of such a thing. I guess so because the eye can lose it's sight. But the eye is like an object and awareness is not. Isn't awareness, though, the "thing" that's aware that it's losing awareness. Like saying I'm aware that I'm aware. So if you're aware that you're losing awareness, isn't that awareness that's aware of losing awareness, the utmost Awareness. Seems what you're talking about is losing consciousness or memory.

Well, give me a non-existing card.😜

Oh ok, in that sense. 😊

OK point made.

The mind is not reality. Why do you think people are so delusional. The eyes cannot see itself, the hands cannot touch itself, why do you believe the mind can understand itself.

Enlightenment is the realization that Enlightenment is man-made.

It's pretty simple. No such thing.

Ok well explain. I just used the cave as an example. Explain what an enlightened being that discovers there's no other, responds to life.

These statements are contradictory. You can only be the truth you said. You also said, if enlightened, there's no one left. So if you're enlightened and you are being the Truth, then you're sitting in a cave by yourself in silence talking to no one for the rest of your life. So to be enlightened and to be the truth means you'll be a mute and starve to death.

That's all I'm seeing these days. I can't escape the stories that people make up. When you know what to look for, it becomes obvious. Even in myself. I'm like really. Shut up, I be telling myself. Is that really happening or is that my mind making shit up. Once I learnt this, I see the Reality of it and when people are doing it. It's all people do. Make up stories, then they believe the stories and build a life around the stories. It's like a disease.

Did you hear about the woman with no thoughts. Davino posted it a few days back, I believe it's the Frank Yang thread. She still had anxiety and depression at times she says, not often but they do appear. Makes you wonder.

Nice!

Yes, but that is thought out. An accent that has been suppressed, changed and masked out of fear is not the same as someone just blurting out a comment or response in a language they don't normally speak. For example, if a cop comes up to me with the sole intention of arresting me because I'm Jamaican and for no other reason and I'm aware of it, I will try to mask my accent and try not to sound Jamaican. Try. If I'm watching a Jamaican movie and a sudden outburst of whatever I said about the movie happened, I wouldn't be thinking to mask how I express that outburst it would just have occurred spontaneously. Thats the difference I'm talking about. It's spontaneous at times without thought into it and that can be triggered by anything at anytime but for me its usually Jamaican related or if I'm extremely angry.

Are you sure about this. Why aren't they mirroring everything and why don't they mirror certain things. A baby is not going to do the catwalk because I'm doing the catwalk in front of them. They would have to know how to walk first, then the steps by practicing it. You don't have to practice something to mirror it. It's innate, babies learn how to walk and talk through nature. What they say and how they walk might be learnt. What you say while talking the accent and how you say it is not what is being said. Just the mere doing of it is spontaneous. The rest, as in how it's said as in loudly or softly, slowly or fast and what's being said as in the content is irrelevant to what I'm saying about it spontaneously happening and can be learnt behavior.

Beautiful❤️

I could be watching a Jamaican video with an American who I don't speak Jamaican around and suddenly I find myself speaking Jamaican, with no thought or preconceived notion that I need to fit in or impress or anything like that. It just happens. It is not like that for you, you only think that. It's just spontaneously happening.

Yes, the body will be harmed, but that's because of the jump, not as a result of what someone said that made you jump. That's the difference. You felt nervous not because of all the stories behind it. The energy of nervousness appeared and you built a story behind it. Not everybody would have responded the same way so that should tell you that it was previous conditioning that caused the body to react that way. Your thoughts and ideas about her approaching you caused the nervousness, not the approach itself. There is no cause and effects only responses. What do you think only the present moment means, the past is a memory, the future is a projection. Only what actually happened is Reality. Not your thoughts and ideas about it.

Your thoughts and ideas ABOUT reality isn't Reality. Reality doesn't need thoughts and ideas about it to exist as it is. It's our thoughts and ideas about it that makes us suffer mentally. Then again, that's also apparent.

My point in saying what I said is not that it needs to help or not help. Acknowledging the shakiness and nervousness is enough. See it for what it is. The body responding. It's the stories as to why it's happening that i'm referring to, as in the belief and thoughts surrounding it like you just claimed it be because of Joseph Rodriques' teachings. Now it's his teachings that made this girl approached you. You believe that and now you have to blame something or someone when the result you were looking for doesn't come to pass. Like how you called yourself whatever you called yourself and came up with a bunch of stories and reasons why the you messed up. They are just stories about what happened and now it strengthens your beliefs and now you think there is cause and effect at play. If that's the case you will have to give credit to what caused you to watch him in the first place and what caused that and what caused that and the source from which the teaching came and the source of that source and also blame things also. If you weren't nervous, it probably would have turned out differently, that's what you think, so now you have to blame the functions that the body goes through to react nervously. You see what I mean, things are happening spontaneously without causes and effects.

That's why I said "for me".

Yeah, it can't help it. It's a by-product of the separate individual that feels it's important and that the world revolves around it and it has something to protect. Goes hand in hand. That's the apparent tragedy of humans.

Creepy for me is way worse than some of what you guys stated, except for the hugging and touching inappropriately. I would describe them differently and use other words. Creepy for me is a guy playing with his dick in public or pulling it out. A guy sticking his tongue out and wiggling it like an ass as if he's performing cunnilingus. A guy coming up to me saying he's got a big dick do you want some. A guy coming up to me and grabbing my ass. A guy talking sexually explicitly to me and don't even know me or that just met me and i gave no inclinations of wanting to hear that. Maybe the guy that said, get used to me chasing you. That's also creepy. Even a guy you met and thought you liked, gave him your number and he's right off the bat sending you pictures of his private parts and asking you to do the same - this is even before you guys even got to know each other a bit - this never happened to me but it's something I'm thinking of that would be creepy. A guy that follows you around and just stares at you without saying anything. Stuff like this.

Any woman watching and reading this, just name a ridiculous price and they'll keep on going. That simple. Real hookers are safer from this type of harassment. This happens a lot but not to hookers, only regular women who even pay these guys any mind. "Are you going to take care of me" "what do you mean" $1000. Oh OK, never mind. Some will think taking care of means doing it good, they'll say "sure, how do you like it". That's how ridiculous some men are. Thinking you're going to enjoy some random stranger off the street. Not saying women can't enjoy one night stands, but it really ever happens like this.