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Yes, I get that, that's why I brought that part up. I was just bringing to attention the other uses of the word's verbiage. It's very difficult for ordinary people here to get into the biology of silence, since that's usually the work of biologists, so it's going to be challenging for proper responses to procure appropriate answers.

Well, In my opinion, everything has a Spiritual connotation to it; depending on how you classify Spiritual. The way you did is not what I mean, so it doesn't relate to what I mean by "everything". I do understand what you're saying, though. I also am under the understanding that, Awareness is in the silent background from which everything appears and to sit in silence for a few minutes a day, can reveal a lot and brings forth wisdom and understanding that no other kind of practice can. In that way, it can be Spiritual. Hearing that silent sound is, however, biological in a sense so in that way, I agree, without getting into the existential nature of how we hear sounds and what a sound really is. That's a different topic.

In so many words.

I had a thread with this topic in Jan. Here it is. Not sure if it answers any questions but just thought I'd share.

Thank you. By inner guidance I mean, listen to the heart. Sometimes I ignore the heart and go with what the mind says, and I realize that if I had just listened to the heart I wouldn't be in the position I was in at the time. It takes awareness and keen observation to start to trust the difference between the heart and egoic mind. One feels tense, contracted, loud and anxious, doubtful (ego) and the other, very quiet, intuitive, makes one feel less anxious, relaxing, pure, non-resistant, like it's coming from a higher source and it feels like the right thing to do. It's kind of hard to explain the difference on paper, but one starts to develop this as they are more in tune to the body's response and how it makes you feel afterwards. A lot of people ask advice or ask for suggestions on how to do things because they are in conflict with the mind and heart. (not speaking about practical "how-to-do" questions like how to fix things or how to get a job done perse, more like how should I deal with this situation or how to cope with such and such abstract questions, then they'll rebut your suggestions or give excuses as to why what you're suggesting is wrong or won't work. Reason is, the heart already gave them the answer but the egoic mind identity is what's running the show and they are in conflict with both. Listen to the heart, it never fails. Just have to learn how. It's usually the one that feels good.

Yes, you are stating the obvious. Nothing was said in this thread about getting results from those approaches. Only about doing 2000 approaches and that wasn't enough; 10,000 is needed for mastery. To me that sounds like years and years of approaching. Five years when you do the math of approaching 2000 in a yr which is still quite a lot. Nothing was mentioned about the techniques used in the how to get laid series either. You are just mentioning that. To me, it's like the emphasis is on approaching and not the results. Why say you need 2000 approaches when you can get results within the first 100. Anyway, it's not my place to argue with guys about their approaching techniques and style, so I'm out this convo and I hear what you're saying and understand it. Thanks for your replies and I hope you get the results you seek and get better at socializing.

Great video to understanding human attraction on the Spiritual level.

Lol. Where did you find this shit. I swear, the internet has a meme for everything or is it AI generated. Either way.....lol.

This is why I stayed out of this thread and only made the couple of comments I made. I knew it wouldn't turn out well. Rest your head, my dear.

Those quotes that you quoted of me up top were not judgements. They are simply stating reasons why I think people behave the way they do. Saying "it's a way of expressing the anger inside" is not a judgement. A judgement would be to say, they are dirty and disgusting and expresses their anger like how dogs do. That's a judgement and a criticism. Also, the desensitized comment I made is not a judgement. I was merely stating what might be the case when people get desensitized and what might be a result of that. Neither of those quotes of mine above were judgements, they were merely observations and what I concluded from it.

It's not about what you think I'm basically saying. It's about what I said. Nothing in my words implied judgement. They were simply observations and my own analysis and implications. I would like for you to quote me verbatim where I passed judgements and criticisms and where it wasn't just a response to what I thought about something that was said. Please do, and make sure it's not someone else's quote that I didn't personally say. I will agree with you when I see it and agree where I was passing judgements because I'm not afraid to do so and admit to anything.

That's not what I'm saying. Of course, practice makes perfect, and we need to put in the hours to be good at something. To be out just approaching and approaching and approaching is only getting you good at approaching. 2000 approaches? What has one accomplished? Getting good at approaching. He said you can do that in a year. Sure. Fine. When do one stop to say after she says yes, how do I deal with the situation. Do I have the skills to keep her attention and to have a good time. Now you need 2000 more dates to get good at dating because you've mastered approaching. Then 1000 dates more to go through to really appreciate your times spent. Now 500 more to sift through the weed from the shaft and 250 more to get and keep a gf. By that time, you'll be an old man who conquered the dating scene and writing books and novels about how to seduce women and with a sore throat like Robert Greene.

I never started. I just love to inquire into the nature of reality. I'm a curious gal and like to observe. Anything I do is out of love not seeking. Yes, I'm seeking practical things but what else should I seek. I'm not playing hide and seek with the Universe. It never asked me to seek for it. It's right here, right now in plain site. What you see is what you get. I don't see any thing lost. Any knowledge I acquire is just that, knowledge. I'll know more than somebody else who doesn't have that same knowledge. If there's something for me to find, it will find me because i didn't ask to come here. I popped outta my mom's belly and here I am. If that's just my imagination and it never happened, then so be it. Why am I seeking for who I am and what is this moment. It's ridiculous. I read books and watch videos and listen to podcasts and am interested in improving the way I relate to people and in learning new things. If I spew stuff out my mouth, it's what I believe to be the case. If I'm wrong, then so be it; nothing will change because I'm not in charge. I'm aware and conscious, that's all i know, everything else is just concepts and ideas and regurgitation. I have not stopped learning about the Universe. It's a learning process not a seek and you shall find. I have matured while learning. I have gotten wiser and have learnt a lot about how the mind works, self-deception, spiral dynamics, how intelligence works, how reality is a strange loop, about infinity, about states of consciousness and so on and so forth. Lots of normal people don't have a clue about these things and I will continue to learn about these things because I love to learn and these topics interests me.....but seeking.....seeking for how to write an e-book, how to cook delicious food and how to control my emotions and not react to things so I don't raise my blood pressure. These are things I'm seeking. Not to see elephants in my hands and to see eyeballs on walls. Not to find God, because that's his problem if he wants to hide, not to get enlightened because I really don't know what that is and not to stop suffering because all I have to do there is allow it to be there. I don't mind. It doesn't like when I ignore it and it goes somewhere else for attention. You see, I don't need to seek in the ways you're referring to because I don't see anything wrong with anything only in the normal world where my perception is skewed and i believe that it is wrong - that's being human and I know it's not who I really am; because if it was, I wouldn't be able to perceive it. I cry and get mad and feel upset and joyful and peace comes and a little suffering comes and a little fear and anxiety and frustration and all the different emotions. So what. It's all encompassing and what life is about. I don't need to enjoy every waking second and I am a big girl now and have grown into all that to realize it's not permanent and those are things that will always be there. So what. I DON'T MIND. Only the ego does and I try to comfort it whenever I can and it settles down and walla it comes again and i ain't got time for all that babysitting so I just let it be and it shuts up. There you go.

I never mentioned anything about Solipsism in my last comment, the one you just replied to. I don't have to justify Solipsism because if all I said is true, there is no Solipsism either, but only as a concept and idea like we're talking about now. There's nothing justifiable but only within the illusion within the illusion. Now, we can continue to be illusionists.

There is no brain, and the body isn't real. There is no person having a life. There are no experiences and there is no world, not even on the inside. There is no one and there is no you to claim there is no one. There is no past and there is no future, there is not even a present moment because that implies a past and a future moment. There is no NOW either, because that implies time and that there is a THEN. Einstein and Jung and whomever else you claim to be so smart never existed and that's why they are not here to back up your claims about them. There is no movement and nothing is really happening. There is no one dreaming, nor is the Universe a mirror. There are no stars and no moon and sun. Jesus was never born and never died. My mother never existed or she would still be here. Everything you claim to know are just thoughts repeating themselves and will be repeated by another illusory figure to come that will claim to know stuff. Knowledge is an illusion and it's all descended down from dead ancestors who themselves didn't know anything. There is nothing here it's all empty and there is no point of reference, no facts, no truths and nothing false. Need me continue. Who is delusional now. Prove me wrong.

It's funny how I don't really watch porn and i will never do porn, meaning have sex on camera for the world to see. Nothing to do with morality as I'm an escort but it's just not my thing; but I don't shame the industry and call those people dysfunctional and low-consciousness or judge them. I find it's people that engage in these activities as watchers and even those that unwillingly engage in it that have the most judgements; maybe for the reasons you mentioned. Keep in mind that I'm not speaking about where there is abuse and exploitation and kidnapping and child abuse. Excluding those cases, but where it's consensual and only involving adults who enjoy their work and have no problems with it. There are these cases, in case nobody knows about them. The bad comments I see are from the ones who are porn watchers.

You are living in fantasy land. Do you think Mooji would laugh at someone if they put a gun to his head. I even heard him say he grieved over a relative's death but not to the point of getting all emotional about it. He moved on. You don't understand that it's the body doing it's thing. You're not responsible for how the body reacts no matter how conscious you think you are. You don't make your heart beat and you cannot make it stop just by saying "stop". The body will react, even if it laughs, doesn't relate to how awake you are and what you know about this experience. You just don't know. You heard about awakening by someone and now you think you know what awakening is. I never mentioned anything about awakening, you did. You are already awake and conscious, aren't you. How much more awake do you think you can get. The only difference is levels of awakening which is only a matter of perception. No one is more awake than another; only in perception and states of consciousness, which is still illusory as there is only the Absolute appearing as humans who are conscious. All that we do as spiritual practices is just for different experiences and ways of being and how we live life and perceive it. Yes, it will make for a better experience but that's it. You're not going to automatically know that you will just laugh at a gun to your head, unless you practice it over and over and train the body to react that way. Nothing to do with knowing that this is illusory and how awake you are.

He also used the word dysfunctional. So, if he agrees, he's agreeing to be dysfunctional.

That's what I said too. This is why I pay humans no mind. They are not acting of their own free will and choice and will say things that contradicts. Including myself, so I'm not exempt. It's just funny to see and shows how not to take yourself and the world too seriously because it's filled with contradictions and makes no sense.

❤️Wish you the best.

This is not Reality. To answer your question, yes, the body will jump into fight or flight response because it's a living and breathing thing. It's a response mechanism just like how a car will stop running if it has no gas. It's also a living thing because it's a part of a living Universe. So is a pen and a piece of paper. Just be is still having heart palpitations and being fearful. The difference is not going into story land and fantasies about what happened. Not ruminating in the mind that if I had done this or that it wouldn't have happened. Not seeing it as anything but a gun is at your head and what happened as a response. Just be means to allow things to flow as they are without the mind's stories attached.

OMG! If you read my first sentence of the first comment I made, this is the site i was speaking of. I forgot the name of it; and when I looked it up after seeing the name you posted, which immediately rang a bell, I noticed it was the same. One Mind. The more you connect mentally, the more things get revealed. People think I speak and parrot gurus but I'm very observant and see for myself the directness of what I speak about. It's no coincidence that you mentioned this exact same site that I didn't remember the name of. I was invited to dinner today for a later date by someone i just met, and they gave me a take out menu to revise and take home to see if it's a place I'd like to eat at. Guess what. I came home and guess what was in the mail box. That same take out menu. Delivered and sealed right in my box to let me know this was a good choice. I pay attention to things like these because the Universe sends us signals all the time, we just have to have the eyes to see and acknowledge them when we do. It's a local Italian Restaurant and I love Italian food. I have never even seen that menu before delivered to my mailbox. Pay attention to details and keep your thoughts and ideas out of it. Only if they serve you. This is how to see reality as it is and how to direct it in ways that serve you. Ideas and thoughts about reality are not reality and it's forever changing to fit into our own unique survival mechanisms through our thoughts and beliefs. So, start believing in things you want to see happen.

@TenebrosoYou have written a well thought-out analysis of the video and it shows how much attention you gave to the details. I'm impressed. It shows how all these things are already within us, and we already have the knowledge inside of us but need others to remind us of it. You wouldn't have been able to do that if this wasn't the case. Don't get too literal with it, though, and leave room for exceptions and spontaneous activity. I also learnt a thing or two from it and was amazed at some of the descriptions she gave as to the dynamics of our attractions. It's the same with me as in being attracted to people and being stunned as to why that is. Her explanation made perfect sense to me as I could relate to it on a personal and individual level. This is why I agree at times that this isn't a one-size-fits all and to approach the dating world with an open mind and expect surprises. I am glad to share videos like this where one can gather information to help them maneuver the outside world in cases where they are having challenges. Glad you got something from it and i suggest you watch more videos like these instead of feeding the mind with tik tok viral videos of women dating serial killers and mass shooters and draculas. Lol. Infinity has no end, and everything exists, but it's a matter of where we put our focus and attention that determines our experiences and circumstances. This is what it means to be Awareness. It knows no bounds and is limitless and infinite. Anything goes. Shine it's light on what you want to see and focus your energy on where you like for it to expand. Not the lack of it, though, because you'll experience more lack which is still abundance to your Awareness. It's not personal and doesn't see you but reads where your focus is.

You can instill in the mind what you want to accomplish. You can see images of yourself doing approaches and seeing the results you want to experience in the mind. You can paint a mental picture and see yourself in likeable situations and circumstances. You can envision what type of female you'd like to spar with and how she relates to you favorably. All seeing these images in the mind's eye before you even go out. You can stay in alert mode, every time you go out in public and be open to any situation that may arise for you meeting women and not just going out to intentionally do approaches. Lots of people meet people in unsuspecting places. Once you have it in the mind and keep it there and keep it some more and some more, you have set the ball a rolling; and in no time, and depending on how intense of an emotional reaction you have while visualizing, you will start to meet people in your reality to match what you've envisioned in the mind. Might not be exact, but you will have developed a momentum and be in flow. Many people including bad boys and players have unconsciously done this but there was no choice but for it to play out in the physical plane whether they realize that they have done this or not mentally. Bad boys and players have developed a momentum and flow and don't need to think about it anymore because now they have the mindset that they can easily get girls and girls will flock to them like flies on dog shit.

lol. I've come to the conclusion that Leo is an extremist. 10,000 hrs, 2000 approaches, and everything else he suggests is to the extreme. Then he expects everyone else to be comfortable with the same approach. No, it's defeat to others minds and requires a certain skill set but also leads to burnt out energy; then he wonders why he's tired all the time and will say it's his health condition. Not denying that, just saying, because I don't know his personal situation. I'm just speaking from speculation.